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To think the penalties for term time absence is ridiculous..

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JKbowling · 05/09/2024 21:47

I got this in my email inbox today, sent to all parents and guardians.

"Failure to safeguard a child's education" appearing on your DBS, really?

As for term time holidays. If a family can't afford to pay for their one measly UK break per year to be had during the 6 weeks holidays (because the prices are hiked right up and become unaffordable) how does school suppose said family is going to pay the fine?

To think the penalties for term time absence is ridiculous..
OP posts:
stripybobblehat · 06/09/2024 20:53

noblegiraffe · 06/09/2024 20:48

Because it's not them missing it, only their kids.

That's it in a nutshell really.

sunhasgotthis · 06/09/2024 20:56

Not to be pedantic, but to PP's mentioning covid in the past tense, we are still in covid times. There are twice as many children with long covid this year, than last year (up to March '24). We've just had another large wave.

WHO sorted the air in their headquarters pronto, so did Parliament, DfE, Ministry of Defence. The government could have used that time after the first lockdown to make schools safer by investing in air cleaners, but they didn't and still haven't. That would have helped schools and reduced onward community transmission. Meanwhile, government go on about school absence (teacher absence has also increased) and the numbers of people now unable to work, without acknowledging impacts of covid infections.

Meltdown247 · 06/09/2024 21:00

Peakpeakpeak · 06/09/2024 20:46

As a Chair of School Governors and parent, I am so fed up with dealing with so called unauthorised absences and the associated escalations and complaints. The amount of senior staff time wasted on this policy far outweighs the benefits.

Exactly @Meltdown247. Unfortunately, too many people see this only through the prism of whether they approve of term time holidays. Which isn't at all the same question.

If all the posters with uninformed opinions on this were to use the time they are doom scrolling on MN to do a few hours a term as a school governor or volunteer, the education system would be in a dramatically better situation!

FishersGate · 06/09/2024 21:00

Walkden · 06/09/2024 20:40

You really need to lose sensationalism majority of kids aren't irrevocably damaged by a week out of school a year

And yet when schools in London wanted to close during the alpha wave they were taken to court to keep them open for a day...

Entirely consistent to then fine parents who take kids away for a week.

People sensationalised the long term effects of lockdown when it suited them and now want to minimise their impacts of their own selfishness...

Either every day matters or it doesn't.

As another poster has written you can't compare the social damage done to young people with lock downs and school closures. To a child have potentially 5 days off out if the whole school year. It's not comparable. This nonsense has come about because of the decision making during this time and the long lasting effects.

Not the odd parent taking their child out for a few days.

Walkden · 06/09/2024 21:04

"As another poster has written you can't compare"

You absolutely can.

The scale is different, but if you take the view (widely expressed by the past and current government ) that every day matters to a child future that principle applies now just as it did then

It's just now it's less convenient and costs people money.....

RampantIvy · 06/09/2024 21:15

But then I was attending school in a system where the responsibility was on the child to learn and prep for exams, not on teachers to carry children every time they fell slightly behind. There was no bad reflection on teachers if students failed

I think we can blame ofsted for that @Commonsense22

DonnaBanana · 06/09/2024 21:36

I think the new rules are great. They make it clear you can take a week holiday now without any fines! If you want a two week holiday well you’re just being greedy

Lollipop81 · 06/09/2024 21:37

Superhansrantowindsor · 05/09/2024 21:51

If you can afford to take your kid on holiday then you can afford the fine. Parents taking their kids on holiday in term time aren’t taking them camping in Norfolk.

That just isn’t true. As a single working parent I cannot afford a simple holiday in Norfolk in the summer holidays.

Lollipop81 · 06/09/2024 21:39

DonnaBanana · 06/09/2024 21:36

I think the new rules are great. They make it clear you can take a week holiday now without any fines! If you want a two week holiday well you’re just being greedy

That’s isn’t right. A weeks holiday will result in a fine. 4.5 days won’t. 5 days will

WayTooManyTabsOpen · 06/09/2024 21:42

stripybobblehat · 06/09/2024 20:11

It's not just holidays though? It's for any kid off school?

Honestly I think the only reason someone should get a criminal record for their kid being off school is if they’ve literally chained them to a radiator or locked them in a cellar, you know, actual criminal acts.

If a kids off school for reasons of neglect or similar then it needs to be pursued through social services appropriately, not through this ridiculous system which solves nothing.

meteow · 06/09/2024 22:13

@Lollipop81 It's alright you can just go on an Inset day which are usually Fridays

meteow · 06/09/2024 22:14

Oh no that won't work either, bastards 😆

Lifethroughlenses · 06/09/2024 22:29

@Peakpeakpeak You’ve put it much more articulately than me and nailed it. I think the stance on schooling as ultimately ranking as a lower priority for society really affected the way I look at attendance when I am now weighing up whether attendance at school or another opportunity like a holiday is more important. If I’m honest I think I have quite a lot of anger from that time particularly when things happened like taping off all of our local playgrounds - one of the few places of joy for many kids. It’s hard to care what a school thinks about the odd day off on holiday when we had months without any schoolwork even.

Sherrystrull · 06/09/2024 22:30

When children are off, it does take teaching time to catch them up. Despite what some may say.

For example, a child misses 5 lessons on multiplication. They arrive back in school to find everyone else on lesson 6 with their learning carefully scaffolded to that point.
The child is aware they have no clue about multiplication and requires 1:1 support to help them fill gaps and avoid distress.

I think some posters expect teachers to finish on the last day of term and start the next day with their classroom magically ready. Books labelled, classrooms moved, cupboards tidied, transitions completed. We already do much of this in our holidays. I reserve the right to watch one film a year with my class to make a start with these jobs.

Oh and anyone stating that a sports day is a doss for a teacher has clearly never run a sports day!!

BooBooDoodle · 06/09/2024 22:31

noblegiraffe · 05/09/2024 21:56

450,000 kids were absent from school the last week of the summer term. You don't think that's a problem?

Not majorly as we all know kids don’t do anything at the end if the school year. They watch films, spend days doing sports, crafts etc. The academic curriculum is done. Kids at this point would be far more enriched in their family environment enjoying a holiday.

The wrong demographic is being targeted here. They are targeting parents when they should be targeting the holiday companies which are clearly profiteering by hiking their prices for school holidays. Taking kids out of school early can save parents anywhere from £500-2k. I agree with fines for persistent absences during the school year but not close to holidays.

Sherrystrull · 06/09/2024 22:31

Lifethroughlenses · 06/09/2024 22:29

@Peakpeakpeak You’ve put it much more articulately than me and nailed it. I think the stance on schooling as ultimately ranking as a lower priority for society really affected the way I look at attendance when I am now weighing up whether attendance at school or another opportunity like a holiday is more important. If I’m honest I think I have quite a lot of anger from that time particularly when things happened like taping off all of our local playgrounds - one of the few places of joy for many kids. It’s hard to care what a school thinks about the odd day off on holiday when we had months without any schoolwork even.

Schools didn't close playgrounds. Schools also didn't make the decisions about when to be open or not and who to accept when. It all came from government. Do people blame others who were on furlough for example?

Petitchat · 06/09/2024 22:39

EvilNextDoor · 06/09/2024 17:15

No one gave a toss when my children lost education due to covid, school strikes - very little has been put in place by the government or the school to ‘catch them up’ not that I am bitter about paying for a tutor at all

Why should I care if they lose a weeks education for a holiday 🤷‍♀️

I did end up having a shitty letter from the educational officer as one child’s attendance dropped below 97% yeps that what happens when a broken nose and concussion happen on a school trip and a bout of noro sweeps through the school nearly closing it…somehow these incidents are my fault absolute wankers

I’ll just play the system and have a holiday from Friday evening to Wednesday back at school Thursday

Can't say I blame you really

vinoinveritas · 06/09/2024 22:48

All of this could be sorted by staggering holiday dates by a week or so, from one LEA to another. Some schools could do an 2-week half term in June for example and take a week off the long summer hol. They could also allow some sensible Lee-way e.g. up to a week away if child has otherwise excellent attendance.

Most parents have children educated in the same LEA although some who don’t would doubtless complain. But you can’t please everyone in this sort of thing so you just have to go with a system that would benefit most people & enable families to go on one affordable holiday a year.

echt · 06/09/2024 22:50

I don't think staggering the holidays would make any difference, the holiday companies would just look at the dates and put up the prices over a wider block of the year.

noblegiraffe · 06/09/2024 22:50

All of this could be sorted by staggering holiday dates by a week or so, from one LEA to another. Some schools could do an 2-week half term in June for example

Secondary schools can't due to external exams.

Petitchat · 06/09/2024 22:58

Meltdown247 · 06/09/2024 20:21

As a Chair of School Governors and parent, I am so fed up with dealing with so called unauthorised absences and the associated escalations and complaints. The amount of senior staff time wasted on this policy far outweighs the benefits. Of course, I understand the importance of attendance, but I also have a lot of sympathy for parents who see teachers out on strike, school disruption from
C19 and the way that children’s education was thrown to the wolves by the government, cheerlead by the Labour Party who supported the unions and school closures.
this is just a continuation of the nanny state. My opinion will be unpopular, but I have to deal with the angry parents and I have a lot of sympathy for their case. How is it OK for teachers to tell parents they are on strike and school is closed and the schools to not see this as disruptive, but a few days at the end of term is apparently catastrophic.

Thankyou.
And don't forget the many sen children placed on authorised absence for years because there are no suitable placements.

CelestialNexus · 06/09/2024 22:59

BettyBoobles · 05/09/2024 22:43

Reading this makes me think 90% of people on this forum are mad. Absolutely stark raving bonkers. Taking a few days or even a week out of school a for a family holiday, where memories are made, children may get to experience things they wouldn't usually and where families spend real quality time together is so valuable. Many couldn't afford this in the school holidays. Believe it or not, not all learning happens in a classroom -and I say this as a teacher. Labelling such families as persistent absentees' is ridiculous. If you came to my school I could point out the persistent absentees, those that are off every Friday and Monday because their parents are too lazy/hungover to get them to school. This is a different problem. Apples and oranges.

... and in reference to an earlier post. I wouldn't go camping in Norfork if you paid me. That's not a holiday, that's just hard work!

Edited

memories are made

Yuck. If you can only make memories on a holiday, then you have bigger issues.

Like many others here, we had possibly 2 holidays during school age,(not in school time) and we turned out fine.

RampantIvy · 06/09/2024 23:01

Some schools could do an 2-week half term in June for example

@vinoinveritas Primary schools could do that, and used to. GCSEs take place either side of half term though so secondary schools can't do this.

Lifethroughlenses · 06/09/2024 23:03

@Sherrystrull Schools aren’t determining whether to fine either. But that’s irrelevant.

I’m explaining why I’ve changed my stance on occasionally missing days of school. Education during Covid was seen as a lower priority than other things. In fact even giving our kids playgrounds to play in was seen as a lower priority. I think someone was right when they said the social contract has been broken. School used to be seen as a non negotiable essential by many. That was undermined during Covid. And to be honest I don’t think the attitude shift was helped by numerous strike days (even though I absolutely understand and support the underlying reasons). I think parents have felt that education for kids is dispensable when it suits the needs of others.

Petitchat · 06/09/2024 23:14

WayTooManyTabsOpen · 06/09/2024 21:42

Honestly I think the only reason someone should get a criminal record for their kid being off school is if they’ve literally chained them to a radiator or locked them in a cellar, you know, actual criminal acts.

If a kids off school for reasons of neglect or similar then it needs to be pursued through social services appropriately, not through this ridiculous system which solves nothing.

I get the feeling if it gets to court, then SS will be involved?

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