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To think this is a surefire way to insist that everyone comes back into the office?

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Pleasebeafleabite · 30/08/2024 07:18

Latest BBC News link today. If I was an employer and I was forced into giving staff compulsory four day weeks based on compressed hours, I’m be making sure they were doing them in the office.

Yet more unintended consequences

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c4gl5w83z7do

An anonymous woman sits at a desk and types on a laptop keyboard

Workers could get right to four-day week

Labour is said to be considering giving people more power to choose flexible working hours.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c4gl5w83z7do

OP posts:
MargaritaPracticallyCan · 30/08/2024 12:19

I WFH permanently, for a charity, about to change from 5 to 4 days, compressing my hours. I've been working for more than 30 years, I'm professional, productive, qualified, experienced, diligent, conscientious and hard-working. I don't take the piss. I appreciate the flexibility and work my hours, and then some if needed. My DCs are at uni so no distractions.
What I don't need at my age and at this stage in my career is a long commute and micromanaging. I use my commuting time to walk my dog or do housework, leaving the working day for just that - work.

Youcantellalotofthingsabouttheflowers · 30/08/2024 12:21

MichaelandKirk · 30/08/2024 12:19

These threads always go the same way with a lot of people claiming they work much hard, no districtions etc. It really isnt true. Many many studies have shown real issue with this and also analysis as to what some people are doing when they should be working. Show me the person who doesnt justify the school run etc and then 'claims they make it up in the evening'. What - when the kids are in full flow, teas to be done, baths, bedtimes etc. It almost always never happens yet the employee justifies to themselves that it does.

They blank out the pressure that their working practises push onto others. They scream childcare is too expensive so therefore they have no choice. A PP says that the Civil Service demands that childcare is put in place whilst working but what happens if it doesnt. I tell you what happens - NOTHING! As I mentioned previously twice I have had to call at gov dept and twice there have been kids in the background.

Still, at least they answered the blooming call in the first place! There are many many ways government depts in particular (they were my specialism) can mask how many the calls they take, how complex the calls are etc. HMRC calls could last 5 mins of 1 hour - it depends on the query.

There is a place for WFH but it has IMHO become a skivvers charter for many

Absolutely bang on.

Jellycatspyjamas · 30/08/2024 12:23

MichaelandKirk · 30/08/2024 12:02

Why are managers also the one to blame for not challenging people are clearly working and looking after kids at the same time.

Its the twits who spoil it for the rest of us that are too blame. Everyone is too scared to pull up someone who isnt doing their job. They will hear all sorts such as childcare is too expensive, its only a one off, I have personal problems etc etc. The excuses are far and wide and around the childcare issue - dont apply for a role knowing you dont have it in place

That's ridiculous, people's circumstances change during the course of their employment. I had excellent childcare in place, until I didn't due to a whole set of circumstances. Should I have resigned my position or, as I actually did, negotiate with my employer to find a way forward that suited us both? From her point of view she kept a very knowledgeable, skilled employee and from my point of view I continued with my meaningful job in a senior role. Win:win for both of us.

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 30/08/2024 12:27

Youcantellalotofthingsabouttheflowers · 30/08/2024 12:19

Small kids are a huge distraction. What planet are you on? Would you send your child to a childminder who worked from home? Would you employ someone who worked as a childminder at home?

No you wouldn’t.

That's the exact same argument you used earlier. Try a new one, because we've already had this discussion.

You wouldn't employ someone already working as a childminder. But you can't not employ someone with children.

You can implement whatever policies you think are right for your own business. But you're kidding yourself if you think all small children are the same distraction to all parents, and more so than someone who is inherently lazy deciding that they'll do the tea round for 15 staff members every 1.5 hours instead of doing their job.

I get paid to come up with solutions to problems. To give my knowledge and experience. To find problems. To make decisions. If I do that with a child painting next to me, or with someone in the office persistently asking me how to do their own job (from my own, very real, experience), does it matter? As long as my output is the right quality and at the right time?

MichaelandKirk · 30/08/2024 12:31

Its the people who dont tell their employers that their circcumstances have changed or worse not told them in the first place that they are planning to try and WFH PLUS look after their children because blimey - look how much money I can save?

I will keep my head down, not be proative and do the minimum I can get away with. It might or might not work but for many it has. That is why they keep doing it.

MichaelandKirk · 30/08/2024 12:36

I am laughing my socks off at the PP who says everyone on a team call waves and says hi to my 2 year old. Really - clients with an issue or who want to take about a recent bid you have sent in just smiles and waves.

This is what I mean about people deluding themselves that its all OK because they literally block out that it might not be!

Shakeoffyourchains · 30/08/2024 12:37

Did we ever get an answer on how the anti-WFH brigade are measuring productivity?

Youcantellalotofthingsabouttheflowers · 30/08/2024 12:38

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 30/08/2024 12:27

That's the exact same argument you used earlier. Try a new one, because we've already had this discussion.

You wouldn't employ someone already working as a childminder. But you can't not employ someone with children.

You can implement whatever policies you think are right for your own business. But you're kidding yourself if you think all small children are the same distraction to all parents, and more so than someone who is inherently lazy deciding that they'll do the tea round for 15 staff members every 1.5 hours instead of doing their job.

I get paid to come up with solutions to problems. To give my knowledge and experience. To find problems. To make decisions. If I do that with a child painting next to me, or with someone in the office persistently asking me how to do their own job (from my own, very real, experience), does it matter? As long as my output is the right quality and at the right time?

Edited

Bullshit. All small children are a distraction, they need to be taken care of, otherwise you could just lock them in the shed.

Useless argument comparing someone doing a tea run in the office 😂

Not fair on the child having a half present parent and not fair on the employer having a half present employee.

Caring for small children is a whole job in itself.

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 30/08/2024 12:41

MichaelandKirk · 30/08/2024 12:36

I am laughing my socks off at the PP who says everyone on a team call waves and says hi to my 2 year old. Really - clients with an issue or who want to take about a recent bid you have sent in just smiles and waves.

This is what I mean about people deluding themselves that its all OK because they literally block out that it might not be!

That was me. I don't have external calls. Only my colleagues and seniors. Who I have always cleared it with if I need to have her with me. And who chat to her.

I also said I don't have her at home with me, because I know it wouldn't work for me. She's been there on odd occasions because she's been poorly and stayed home with me. I've only not taken the day off because I was needed.

My point in that post was that it depends on circumstances. In my kind of role, and in my company, having a school child home through the six weeks isn't frowned upon, because it doesn't impact how we work.

A later post I made also states that companies can have whatever policy around it they want. But that the poster stating they would let employees go for needing a bit of flexibility was deluding herself that there no distractions to people other than children.

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 30/08/2024 12:44

Youcantellalotofthingsabouttheflowers · 30/08/2024 12:38

Bullshit. All small children are a distraction, they need to be taken care of, otherwise you could just lock them in the shed.

Useless argument comparing someone doing a tea run in the office 😂

Not fair on the child having a half present parent and not fair on the employer having a half present employee.

Caring for small children is a whole job in itself.

Again....do you only measure input? Quality of output isn't something you care about?

If you were reading my posts properly you'd see I said that I actually don't do it myself (except for when she's poorly and I still need to be at work). But that I don't see the issue with someone needing their kids at home through holidays if their output is the same.

You'd just sack good workers though, by your own admission. Although judging by your style, you won't be able to attract and keep the good ones.

dol1 · 30/08/2024 12:45

Pleasebeafleabite · 30/08/2024 07:25

I am a team manager. I have worked for a long time though now and I think that, whilst people genuinely think they work their hours in their heads, most the time they don’t really.

Compressing five days into four typically means people working nearly 9 hours a day. How many will realistically do those hours?

@Pleasebeafleabite unless you own the company, I really hope you get some sort of life outside work very soon.

theemmadilemma · 30/08/2024 12:49

All this thread is really doing is rinsing out the fact that it's not a one size fits all issue.

In some roles, for some people, flexibility around childcare during working hours and flexibility of working hours may work wonderfully and be hugely successful for both employer and employee.

For some people, they will rip the piss, navigate through probation on best behavior, and then be difficult to remove, and cause endless issues for the employer. And thus make the employer reconsider doing it again.

Youcantellalotofthingsabouttheflowers · 30/08/2024 12:53

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 30/08/2024 12:44

Again....do you only measure input? Quality of output isn't something you care about?

If you were reading my posts properly you'd see I said that I actually don't do it myself (except for when she's poorly and I still need to be at work). But that I don't see the issue with someone needing their kids at home through holidays if their output is the same.

You'd just sack good workers though, by your own admission. Although judging by your style, you won't be able to attract and keep the good ones.

No I sack people who cannot do the job. They are not good workers if they cannot perform the tasks due to whatever reason.

TravelInsuranceQ · 30/08/2024 12:53

Pleasebeafleabite · 30/08/2024 07:25

I am a team manager. I have worked for a long time though now and I think that, whilst people genuinely think they work their hours in their heads, most the time they don’t really.

Compressing five days into four typically means people working nearly 9 hours a day. How many will realistically do those hours?

tbh it sounds like YOU wouldn't do 9 hours a day if you worked compressed hours but ime most people do actually do the hours they should - even if they're WFH.
Just because you're not disciplined enough to do it doesn't mean that others aren't.
I work compressed hours WFH and work more hours that I am contracted to do.

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 30/08/2024 13:02

Youcantellalotofthingsabouttheflowers · 30/08/2024 12:53

No I sack people who cannot do the job. They are not good workers if they cannot perform the tasks due to whatever reason.

So let's reshape this.

You're my employer (god help me). I work, I produce exactly what you want, to the standard you want, with zero issues or complaints, in the timeframe you asked for it.

My kids are at home.

What's your issue?

LivingDeadGirlUK · 30/08/2024 13:08

sandgrown · 30/08/2024 07:26

I used to do compressed hours and hated it . The four days were very long, which was a nightmare with childcare/school. I spent the 5th day catching up on all the household stuff I was too tired to do on working days so nothing gained.

This is what I don't get too, my school wraparound care only goes till 5:30 so I couldn't do compressed hours, certainly not in the office. I may be able to do them at home with a break to pick up kids.

I have in the past worked 5 shorter days and half a day on the weekend from home as and when I could fit it in, it was really good and allowed me to work around childcare.

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 30/08/2024 13:09

I WFH at my employers request. Productivity went up when we all worked at home during Covid so WFH has stayed in place.

We now use hot desks on the 1 day per week that we're in the office. It all works really well. My day in the office is my least productive day, I find it very noisy!

People who get annoyed about others working from home and claiming that 'they don't do the hours' are probably just thinking about how they would behave if they had the chance to WFH.

WFH offers great opportunities for those who physically can't get into an office and literally opens up a world of opportunities to everyone. Being able to WFH has given me opportunities in countries outside the UK. WFH also means that companies get the best person for the job not the person who lives closest to the job.

WFH has clearly worked so well for many businesses, that now a 4-day working week is being considered. I'm not sure I'd want to work longer days but just because it's not something I'd choose to do means that I'd want to stop others doing it.

I think it's great that alternatives to the working week are being looked at.

oldwhyno · 30/08/2024 13:10

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 30/08/2024 09:48

2 day weeks! More leisure time and less commuting. What’s not to like?!

Yes! Let's flip the oppressive capitalist 2 day weekend 5 day working pattern right on its head!

Youcantellalotofthingsabouttheflowers · 30/08/2024 13:10

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 30/08/2024 13:02

So let's reshape this.

You're my employer (god help me). I work, I produce exactly what you want, to the standard you want, with zero issues or complaints, in the timeframe you asked for it.

My kids are at home.

What's your issue?

The people I let go DID NOT do this! How many times do you want me to say it? They had kids butting in on meetings, in the background on calls, they were making snacks, wiping arses, doing jigsaws, chatting, and taking care of their small kids. Kids have no place in a work environment whether that be at home or not.

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 30/08/2024 13:12

Youcantellalotofthingsabouttheflowers · 30/08/2024 13:10

The people I let go DID NOT do this! How many times do you want me to say it? They had kids butting in on meetings, in the background on calls, they were making snacks, wiping arses, doing jigsaws, chatting, and taking care of their small kids. Kids have no place in a work environment whether that be at home or not.

But I'm asking you. If it doesn't impact an employees output, what is the issue?

You are swerving.

LoobyDoop2 · 30/08/2024 13:12

FFS. Why go to the trouble of starting a thread when you haven’t bothered to read the story? They’re going to give people the right to ask to work compressed hours. Employers can still say no.

luckylavender · 30/08/2024 13:15

@Pleasebeafleabite - it's 2024 now, it's time there was more flexibility. For the record I am a 62 year old senior manager. No everyone wants to wfh / from the Office. Some people love hybrid, others hate it. Same with compressed hours. In any combination some people are lazy and others are not. Time we stopped with the tired old clichés.

Youcantellalotofthingsabouttheflowers · 30/08/2024 13:17

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 30/08/2024 13:12

But I'm asking you. If it doesn't impact an employees output, what is the issue?

You are swerving.

It will always impact an employee’s output in one way or another. Always.

Having small children present when you are working WILL impact your productivity AND your child’s welfare. You cannot do both at the same time to the best of your ability

You can deny that till the cows come home and make out you are Superwoman and can manage both but in reality, you are delusional.

Shakeoffyourchains · 30/08/2024 13:17

All the supposed problems with WFH that have been mentioned on this thread appear to be issues with individual performance rather WFH in general.

I've been stumped for a while trying to understand why so many are so aggressively opposed to WFH when the benefits to the employee are clear. Then I noticed that the majority of complainers appear to be in senior/management positions it all made sense.

The issue isn't WFH at all, it's that bad managers, who have been able to hide their inadequacies while everyone was in the office, are now having to actually manage individuals and they can't cope with it.

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 30/08/2024 13:18

Youcantellalotofthingsabouttheflowers · 30/08/2024 13:17

It will always impact an employee’s output in one way or another. Always.

Having small children present when you are working WILL impact your productivity AND your child’s welfare. You cannot do both at the same time to the best of your ability

You can deny that till the cows come home and make out you are Superwoman and can manage both but in reality, you are delusional.

So you absolutely will refuse to take circumstances into account?

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