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What to say to explain I can’t do late nights

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Klonc · 28/08/2024 06:35

In a previous thread I mentioned I work for Sainsburys and half of my time is code checking. Sainsburys want to move the times to code checking (reducing food on the date or a few days before) to after 3pm.

I refuse to do these hours which I believe that will be 2-10pm. First hour will be going round the sections and pull off anything with that day’s date, then at 3pm start reducing them! Going to refuse to work these hours as I fought for years to get early shifts and 7 months after getting them. When colleagues were leaving and they did an early shift- I asked “could I take over (name’s Monday shift)? “You are required to do the late night” was the response. I will be working even worse hours.

The store manager has never seen me doing a late night as he started in May.

Working late nights affects my mental health. Plus get a better colleague when working early shifts.

None of code checkers are happy with the new proposals.

The thing my reasons sound like excuses for my manager who has upset many colleagues with his behaviour including me. I refuse to work these stupid hours. Plus I want to leave retail.

So what genuine reasons should I give for refusing to change my hours to go with Sainsburys new code checking system?

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Vettrianofan · 28/08/2024 13:17

I know someone who didn't do night shifts, they were assessed by occupational health and were not expected to do them, like others were in the specific job (where its expected). It was affecting their health. This can be argued for back shifts too. It's not unheard of.

Vettrianofan · 28/08/2024 13:18

Magazinerack · 28/08/2024 10:27

Yes, this is literally what having mental health issues entails. Things others find easy are extremely difficult if not impossible. It’s not a nice way to live.

Thank f*ck for the Equality Act then. Otherwise many would be sacked on the spot due to various health issues that are no fault of their own.

HÆLTHEPAIN · 28/08/2024 13:25

Re: reasonable adjustments. I always thought that the employer had to consider them but not necessarily have to do what the employee wants, IF it doesn’t fit with business needs and they can ‘prove’ that. They do obviously have to give it serious consideration and have a very good reason as to why not. So I don’t think it’s as clear cut as just going to the docs and then it will definitely happen.

CantHoldMeDown · 28/08/2024 13:27

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Vettrianofan · 28/08/2024 13:28

HÆLTHEPAIN · 28/08/2024 13:25

Re: reasonable adjustments. I always thought that the employer had to consider them but not necessarily have to do what the employee wants, IF it doesn’t fit with business needs and they can ‘prove’ that. They do obviously have to give it serious consideration and have a very good reason as to why not. So I don’t think it’s as clear cut as just going to the docs and then it will definitely happen.

Fair enough. The ones I know of must have been very fortunate then.

CaptainCabinetsTrappedInCabinets · 28/08/2024 13:31

ThePrologue · 28/08/2024 06:53

Show your manager your OP. In any event, you appear to only want to work with 'better colleagues', so a change of job completely seems to be your only option. Perhaps Waitrose??

Do not show your manager your OP!

This would amount to gross misconduct in many cases as you are discussing confidential business changes on a public forum!

Vettrianofan · 28/08/2024 13:40

x2boys · 28/08/2024 11:48

My understanding was that they legally had to consider the request but could refuse it f it didn't meet service needs ?
Happy to be corrected but this was part of the reason why I left my job as a nurse when my son was diagnosed with severe disabilities because theu couldn't accommodate my flexible working request it was about 10 years ago though to the law may have changed since then

Apologies, I stand corrected in terms of the employer not having to accommodate, on request of reasonable adjustments🙂 anecdotally others been successful that I know of and I wrongly assumed OP would be able to do the same.

notatinydancer · 28/08/2024 14:14

ThePrologue · 28/08/2024 06:53

Show your manager your OP. In any event, you appear to only want to work with 'better colleagues', so a change of job completely seems to be your only option. Perhaps Waitrose??

😂

Cece92 · 28/08/2024 14:17

I worked on customer service desk in Sainsbury's 2/10 it's actually not that bad it's quieter too. I then moved to hot food after my maternity leave and done 8:5 then 3 x 5-10 shifts. I do agree with your role it should be early shifts as I had done code checking too. However we also had code checkers on back shift. Unless you've signed s contract they can move you to any shift xxxx

notatinydancer · 28/08/2024 14:18

Klonc · 28/08/2024 11:02

Ok what about “For the past few months I have been thinking of leaving retail. Now this change made me want to leave”

Store manager has no rights to ask me why I’m wanting to leave.

You don't have to give a reason.
Just give your leaving date.

Dilemma8188 · 28/08/2024 14:21

Sorry to read this. Working nights is really horrible. Few people have the stamina for it (respect to them!) are you with a union? I would strongly urge joining one, as these companies care little for proper working conditions. Unite or Independent workers of great Britain (if more casual contract), might be helpful.

PolitePearlMoose · 28/08/2024 16:19

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Klonc · 28/08/2024 17:01

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I originally started for Sainsburys doing 10-6 then a couple of years later, they moved me to 1-9, I was OK then as late 20s/early 30s.

Now I realise after doing early shifts 7-3 it has benefitted me from doing more hobbies etc.

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Scirocco · 28/08/2024 17:20

Klonc · 28/08/2024 17:01

I originally started for Sainsburys doing 10-6 then a couple of years later, they moved me to 1-9, I was OK then as late 20s/early 30s.

Now I realise after doing early shifts 7-3 it has benefitted me from doing more hobbies etc.

Benefitting your hobbies isn't really a mental health need.

Needmorelego · 28/08/2024 17:43

@Scirocco it kind of can be a mental health issue.
When I was working in retail I struggled massively with a decent work/home balance which effected my mental health badly.
The awkward and constantly changing times of day I had to work were part of the problem. As was not knowing which day would be my day off from one week to the next. I couldn't plan my life.
My last couple of years at my job were the best. I finally got set days and set hours and it meant I felt I could finally live a life outside of work (which - yes - could include "hobbies").

Sirzy · 28/08/2024 17:47

Klonc · 28/08/2024 17:01

I originally started for Sainsburys doing 10-6 then a couple of years later, they moved me to 1-9, I was OK then as late 20s/early 30s.

Now I realise after doing early shifts 7-3 it has benefitted me from doing more hobbies etc.

Unfortunately your hobbies aren’t the concern of your employer! If business need dictates a change in shifts and your shift pattern isn’t set in your contract then your going to struggle to get them to agree not to for your hobby!

viques · 28/08/2024 17:47

The only “genuine” reason you have is that you say the later shifts affect your mental health. Saying the early shift has better colleagues is not a genuine reason!

If your manager says they can’t accommodate your request because the role requires those particular hours for operational reasons then you will either have to try for another role or resign.

MartinsSpareCalculator · 28/08/2024 17:52

Unless you have a flexible working arrangement, your working hours will be whatever is stated in your contract, which in retail will probably be something like x amount of hours across y days of 7.

Your hobbies aren't really your employers concern so I guess you can ask to stay on your current shift pattern but have to accept that there may be no business need for this, or it may involve undertaking different tasks to those you do currently.

PolitePearlMoose · 28/08/2024 17:54

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Iloveeverycat · 28/08/2024 17:54

Spoke to someone at work today and they said it is just the manager of the store deciding this. Can you go above them.

GRex · 28/08/2024 17:54

Sirzy · 28/08/2024 17:47

Unfortunately your hobbies aren’t the concern of your employer! If business need dictates a change in shifts and your shift pattern isn’t set in your contract then your going to struggle to get them to agree not to for your hobby!

The hobbies will become a concern if the employer can't retain staff. Ideally, staff shouls be able to apply for preferred shifts or changeable shifts, whatever best suits them. Teenagers may like 1-9, older people or those with kids may like 7-3 (school collection), others may prefer the 10-6. Trying to force people to line up to shift patterns that don't work for them just leads to disappointment all round.

StormingNorman · 28/08/2024 17:56

Vettrianofan · 28/08/2024 07:04

If it's for mental health reasons you need to be getting yourself in contact with occupational health then. Discuss your requirements to stay well with them in order to carry on with your current role.

Mental health is code for I don’t want to.

Sirzy · 28/08/2024 17:57

GRex · 28/08/2024 17:54

The hobbies will become a concern if the employer can't retain staff. Ideally, staff shouls be able to apply for preferred shifts or changeable shifts, whatever best suits them. Teenagers may like 1-9, older people or those with kids may like 7-3 (school collection), others may prefer the 10-6. Trying to force people to line up to shift patterns that don't work for them just leads to disappointment all round.

Ideally I agree but that only works if they have enough staff to do each shift. Often shift works means working the less desirable shift too.

a business can’t run around someone’s desire to do a hobby!

GRex · 28/08/2024 18:03

Sirzy · 28/08/2024 17:57

Ideally I agree but that only works if they have enough staff to do each shift. Often shift works means working the less desirable shift too.

a business can’t run around someone’s desire to do a hobby!

When I was recruiting for a 24 hour service some time ago, I hired based on shift pattern. HR demanded the same salary and we had fewer applicants for the late shift, but actually I think they are all still in post. If a role fits for someone, that can happen.

When I have staff who need time off in summer, flexible 9 day week, more challenges, fewer challenges etc, I figure out how to make it work. I find managing an occasional request a lot less hassle than a stream of recruitment and training.

StormingNorman · 28/08/2024 18:04

OP you don’t have any grounds for challenging the change to your hours unless your hours are written into your contract.

You could ask to move to a different role which doesn’t require code checking. Would this help you to stay in an early shift pattern?

Citing mental health because you are “unhappy” about being asked to work different hours which encroach on a hobby is a HUGE disservice to the many people who genuinely struggle with their MH.

It’s like having a little sniffle and telling work you e got pneumonia. You make yourself look stupid and you make everyone with pneumonia look like a liar and skiver.

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