@RosesAndHellebores
But it works in reverse too. My last apppointment, scheduled for an infusion that had to be given within ten days of a two year course of injectables, was arranged two months in advance. I took the day off work and scheduled in some other personal care stuff. The apt was on a Friday.
Yes, OH has had similar with his chemo infusions. The oncologist is very particular about the days they have to be done and it involves meticulous scheduling of a blood test x days beforehand and then each infusion has to be a specific number of days after the previous one and each course within y days of the blood test.
The amount of times they phone up to try to change an appointment by a day or two is ridiculous, usually trying to bring them forward from afternoon to morning, and completely disregarding the effect on other infusions before and after, I.e. if his infusions are scheduled Monday and Thursday (to allow time between for "recovery", they try to reschedule the Thursday one for Tuesday and he has to patiently explain to them every sodding time that it has to be a certain number of days before/after and he can't have two chemo infusions on successive days and then leave it almost a week before the next. They always act surprised as if they've never heard of it before and didn't think about the effects of a change - these are oncology dept staff. The mind boggles!
Same with his blood test appointment. He has to remind them that he can't have the blood test in the morning of the afternoon appointment as there isn't time for it to be processed, results sent to the oncologist, oncologist to approve the drug issue and then the drug to be issued, all within the same day. Again the staff on the oncology dept don't seem to understand that each step takes a little time to do. They must be doing blood tests, infusions, etc, many times each day, so it beggars belief they can't work it out for himself that things have to be done in a specific order, on specific days, etc.
He often jokes he'd be dead by now if he was elderly/confused who wasn't on top of it himself as he'd be constantly missing appointments, attending on days when the treatments couldn't happen, etc. Every sodding month they mess up something. None of this is the actual treatment itself, it's the piss poor attempt at administration/management of the treatment.
He DNA'd last month because they made an appointment for him to pick up his drugs on the wrong week and didn't even tell him - no phone call, no ping on the app, no appointment letter. Even if he'd turned up (maybe using a Ouija board to get the message), they couldn't have issued the drugs as he'd not had the required blood test that week so the oncologist wouldn't have issued the prescription. So he's a "statistic" for last month, but 100% the fault of the muppets making the appointments.