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Some airlines no longer let babies and small children board first

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royalcassel · 23/08/2024 23:09

What's that all about ? Has anyone else had this experience recently ? I found it quite challenging. Surely it's better for the little people to be seated first to enable everyone else to board quicker ?

OP posts:
TuVuoiFaLamericano · 24/08/2024 07:36

I board last with our kids. Less time on the plane is better...

WednesburyUnreasonable · 24/08/2024 07:36

YaWeeFurryBastard · 24/08/2024 07:34

Says who? I assume that poster meant they put the buggy in the hold but there are plenty of prams which are cabin approved. We’ll be buying and taking one.

Some airlines also allow gate checking for non-cabin approved buggies, which might what OP was referring to - basically they stick it in the hold once you’re boarding rather than taking it at check-in.

exit: just spotted you already mentioned that! I’ll be finishing my morning coffee before posting more, haha.

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 24/08/2024 07:38

RawBloomers · 24/08/2024 00:58

Virgin Atlantic and BA used to allow it a decade or two ago when mine were babies. With a baby I think it can make things easier because of all the paraphernalia you might feel you need. Getting the bag with baby food and extra wipes etc stashed in the overhead locker just above your seat and/or a baby seat strapped in without being knocked by other passengers is helpful for more than just the passenger with the baby.

For slightly older kids, toddlers and up, who are curious and want to run around, in my experience it would normally not be such a good idea except, again, for the added utility of being able to get bags stored nearby.

I think there are safety reasons for putting small kids at one end or the other of boarding - I frequently see them knocked and hit by other passengers who just don't see them. This also happens on trains and busses, but they don't normally have people swinging cases down from overhead lockers.

Edited

Yes, good chaance for the overhead lockers to be filled with buggies, baby/child paraphernalia, leaving no room for anyone else's baggage

Likewhatever · 24/08/2024 07:38

Easyjet do it I think, interesting if they’ve stopped. I can’t see any reason to prioritise children, they’re passengers like anyone else.

Squeezetheday · 24/08/2024 07:39

Early boarding for people with young children is only for the benefit of the airline - if they have loads of people with pushchairs going in the hold they want to get them loaded on and get the doors closed so they aren’t delaying the flight. lol it’s not actually to make the lives of the passengers easier!

LutonBeds · 24/08/2024 07:40

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 24/08/2024 07:36

Tell me you're from the US without telling me you're from the US...

I’m not though.

theworldsmad · 24/08/2024 07:44

Earlier this year we boarded first with swiss air.
I gt the reasoning of boarding last but I was flying solo with a two under two and found it very nice to board first. Toddler could wait in the aisle while I put baby down. I had enough time to put all of our handluggage away, a soft toy and jacket that ended up in my hands was put away. Everything was taken out or put away with me standing in the aisle. I don't need to climb over 3 other people with a gazillion things in my hands and a toddler being in everyone's way. No one was breathing in my neck.
I def preferred it.

notimagain · 24/08/2024 07:46

Squeezetheday · 24/08/2024 07:39

Early boarding for people with young children is only for the benefit of the airline - if they have loads of people with pushchairs going in the hold they want to get them loaded on and get the doors closed so they aren’t delaying the flight. lol it’s not actually to make the lives of the passengers easier!

There’s a bit of that…

Personally I don’t have any issue with families with young children getting on first, OTOH once the kids get to the self propelled/wearing headphones stage I’m not quite so sure.

Anyway to address another point - Europe, summer, aircraft generally aren’t able to start up early anyway so families deciding to board last are not going to delay anything as long as they are onboard maybe two-three minutes prior to the scheduled departure time.

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 24/08/2024 07:48

Pawsfourbyfourbyfour · 24/08/2024 04:12

Me too! There’s no logic to it is there?

So, your 3yr old is in the window seat, you are in middle seat. You expect your 3yr old to make his/her own way to the plane, find its seat and get its satchel in the overheadd locker, then sit quietly until they call the middlexaisle...
Oh but, you cry, parents must board with theirckids..
So, then we go back to those with kids boarding first/last

liveforsummer · 24/08/2024 07:49

My usual airline is Lufthansa, I fly 4-5 times a year and always go first because that's what they ask of me.. I thought every airline does it. Also always get to go to priority family lanes at security and same at passport control. Not because I ask but because I am told to do so.

Fwiw it's an invite not an order so you don't have to do any of it. Using the family land makes sense as gets you out the long queue quicker and out of everyone else's way. Getting on the plane first doesn't. Maybe airlines are coming to realise that so family lanes still exist but priority boarding is scaling back

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 24/08/2024 07:50

Fingerscrossedfor2021HK · 24/08/2024 04:37

@royalcassel I am amused at all of the people feigning to have never heard of families with small children being invited to board first. Every decent airline offers this. I fly very frequently with my children and am lucky enough to always fly business or first class so we get on first anyhow but all of the other families seem to take advantage of the priority boarding. As I see it, early boarding gives me time to settle them in, have a quick diaper change and arrange my bags in a way that allows me access to their bottles, snacks etc without having to get up and down or the overhead locker during the flight. Each to their own, but I would rather wait with my two on board rather than kill time in the lounge beforehand. When you have a 15 hour flight ahead of you, I’m not sure whose unicorn children are magically tired out by an extra 15 mins in the airport before boarding!

Why can't you change the nappy before you get on the plane, fgs?

Bellaboot · 24/08/2024 07:51

I'm amazed how worked up some of these replies are🤣

ineedtogwtoutbeforeitatoohot · 24/08/2024 07:52

Wouldn't it be better to did down last ?

liveforsummer · 24/08/2024 07:52

SandandSky · 24/08/2024 00:53

Surely most of the time it’s prudent to book specific seat anyway so you know you’ll all be together? And then what does it really matter when you get on?

When did you last fly? 😅 it's not a free for all like a bus. If you didn't book a seat it will have been allocated to you at the time of check in which is usually online and well in advance of the flight day. I never book seats, it's an unnecessary cost. You can look at the seat plans and see that there are still rows a available. You will be automatically allocated these if you check in as a family

KielderWater · 24/08/2024 07:54

Squeezetheday · 24/08/2024 07:39

Early boarding for people with young children is only for the benefit of the airline - if they have loads of people with pushchairs going in the hold they want to get them loaded on and get the doors closed so they aren’t delaying the flight. lol it’s not actually to make the lives of the passengers easier!

Why is not being delayed and missing a departure slot not benefitting passengers?

Cityandmakeup · 24/08/2024 07:55

royalcassel · 23/08/2024 23:09

What's that all about ? Has anyone else had this experience recently ? I found it quite challenging. Surely it's better for the little people to be seated first to enable everyone else to board quicker ?

why should they? Also they have longer to fuss

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 24/08/2024 07:57

YaWeeFurryBastard · 24/08/2024 07:31

Passengers in first/business class are paying for a bigger seat, better food and better service, not a child free zone.

Everyone always trots out how much they’d love a child free airline but there’s clearly not that much demand for one otherwise airlines would have seized the opportunity.

Perhaps because if they tried, some parent would be 'absolutely livid that their child's human right to fly on any plane it so desired' was being denied

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 24/08/2024 07:58

YaWeeFurryBastard · 24/08/2024 07:34

Says who? I assume that poster meant they put the buggy in the hold but there are plenty of prams which are cabin approved. We’ll be buying and taking one.

It is just plain selfish

TickingAlongNicely · 24/08/2024 08:00

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 24/08/2024 07:58

It is just plain selfish

Why is that selfish? It replaces the cabin baggage allowance. They fold really small.

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 24/08/2024 08:00

LutonBeds · 24/08/2024 07:40

I’m not though.

Apologies, just the attitude re veterans comes across as wholly american ot perhaps a bit Canadian!

liveforsummer · 24/08/2024 08:03

Fingerscrossedfor2021HK · 24/08/2024 04:37

@royalcassel I am amused at all of the people feigning to have never heard of families with small children being invited to board first. Every decent airline offers this. I fly very frequently with my children and am lucky enough to always fly business or first class so we get on first anyhow but all of the other families seem to take advantage of the priority boarding. As I see it, early boarding gives me time to settle them in, have a quick diaper change and arrange my bags in a way that allows me access to their bottles, snacks etc without having to get up and down or the overhead locker during the flight. Each to their own, but I would rather wait with my two on board rather than kill time in the lounge beforehand. When you have a 15 hour flight ahead of you, I’m not sure whose unicorn children are magically tired out by an extra 15 mins in the airport before boarding!

Change nappy last thing before boarding where there is actual space to move. Have an underseat bag packed with flight essentials so no need to access over head bags. Ime babies and small toddlers fall asleep or are soothed by the sound and vibration of the plane taking off - but only if they haven't ended up getting restless and frustrated first. Learned this the hard way being a single frequent traveller when dc were small!

Ljcrow · 24/08/2024 08:05

Never knew this was a thing! Only been abroad twice with my daughter, once when she was around 6 months, then 6 years. There were loads of families with babies and children though so the majority of the plane would have had to board "first", wouldn't really work!

DoIWantTo · 24/08/2024 08:07

I’d rather board last with my children, much easier and less stressful.

liveforsummer · 24/08/2024 08:07

renthead · 24/08/2024 06:51

All airlines do this for longhaul flights. I don't think I've ever been on a flight where young families are not invited to board after priority boarding is complete. In some situations it makes sense to board early and in others it makes more sense to board at the last minute.

Those who say this isn't a thing are probably taking shorter flights or just haven't noticed.

The whole point of the post is that sometimes this isn't happening now! 😅

Pawsfourbyfourbyfour · 24/08/2024 08:07

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 24/08/2024 07:48

So, your 3yr old is in the window seat, you are in middle seat. You expect your 3yr old to make his/her own way to the plane, find its seat and get its satchel in the overheadd locker, then sit quietly until they call the middlexaisle...
Oh but, you cry, parents must board with theirckids..
So, then we go back to those with kids boarding first/last

You can deliberately misunderstand all you like but it still doesn’t make sense to board the way they do now!

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