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Some airlines no longer let babies and small children board first

302 replies

royalcassel · 23/08/2024 23:09

What's that all about ? Has anyone else had this experience recently ? I found it quite challenging. Surely it's better for the little people to be seated first to enable everyone else to board quicker ?

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Starlightstarbright3 · 25/08/2024 19:14

I have travelled a lot with D’s with Sn’s .. we had the option to be seated first or last tbh didn’t make much difference - you are either hovering around the gates or sat on the plane getting restless .

ThinWomansBrain · 25/08/2024 19:18

I rarely fly, but I thought you could pay for priority boarding if you wanted it?
Or is it that because you've been given free child places, you assume that your entitled to free priority boarding as well?

BIossomtoes · 25/08/2024 19:55

ThinWomansBrain · 25/08/2024 19:18

I rarely fly, but I thought you could pay for priority boarding if you wanted it?
Or is it that because you've been given free child places, you assume that your entitled to free priority boarding as well?

Neither. It used to be accepted airline policy that children under a certain age - I think it was about seven - were boarded first. All the flights we took when ours were little adopted it.

fetchacloth · 25/08/2024 20:40

Edingril · 23/08/2024 23:17

Not seen it for years thankfully

I agree. As other PP have said it's better for the young children to board later then they've got less time to be fidgety on the plane.

sabbii · 25/08/2024 21:01

royalcassel · 23/08/2024 23:09

What's that all about ? Has anyone else had this experience recently ? I found it quite challenging. Surely it's better for the little people to be seated first to enable everyone else to board quicker ?

Have never ever seen priority boarding for this, the only exemptions is for medical reasons.

phoenixrosehere · 25/08/2024 21:14

sabbii · 25/08/2024 21:01

Have never ever seen priority boarding for this, the only exemptions is for medical reasons.

I only see it on long haul flights. Kids are going to get fidgety regardless on them.

Gogogo12345 · 25/08/2024 21:20

sabbii · 25/08/2024 21:01

Have never ever seen priority boarding for this, the only exemptions is for medical reasons.

It used to be commonplace for under 12s when my eldest 2 were young in the 90s /2000s.

But I don't see it's any big deal tbh. It did have an advantage then on low cost airlines as there wasn't pre-booked seats and it was first come first served

YaWeeFurryBastard · 26/08/2024 06:21

ThinWomansBrain · 25/08/2024 19:18

I rarely fly, but I thought you could pay for priority boarding if you wanted it?
Or is it that because you've been given free child places, you assume that your entitled to free priority boarding as well?

Why be so catty? Nobody is assuming they’re entitled to anything and no plane offers free child places 😂 tickets cost almost the same or the same as adult ones.

You cannot pay for priority boarding on most carriers (unless you go up a class) only on budget airlines like Ryanair, easyJet etc.

notimagain · 26/08/2024 06:50

sabbii · 25/08/2024 21:01

Have never ever seen priority boarding for this, the only exemptions is for medical reasons.

You may not have seen it but nevertheless some airlines definitely do still offer priority boarding for families with infants (e.g. BA), and I’m pretty sure at least one other legacy European carrier also offers it.

It might be something some carriers aren’t keen on because it conflicts with pay for priority boarding, so if people mainly/only travel out of the LoCo heavy airports it’s maybe not something they have seen but it very definitely does still exist.

motherofbabydragon · 26/08/2024 07:30

i always assumed that it takes so much longer to get settled in with a baby considering any extended long period will require multiple snacks, toys/games/books, drinks all taking a considerable time to unpack from the hand luggage then on top of that possibly depending on the age of the small child everything you will need for a diaper change, then i have seen these inflatable little seat extensions things so they can fully stretch out their legs. that all will need a significant time to set up and is easier to do while the plane is still empty

PurBal · 26/08/2024 07:35

The only benefit to boarding first is to ensure you can get your bags on and stored near to you (changing/snack/toy bag etc). But if I'm flying with children I'm probably taking checked luggage so don't need overhead anyway.

OhTediosity · 26/08/2024 09:04

motherofbabydragon · 26/08/2024 07:30

i always assumed that it takes so much longer to get settled in with a baby considering any extended long period will require multiple snacks, toys/games/books, drinks all taking a considerable time to unpack from the hand luggage then on top of that possibly depending on the age of the small child everything you will need for a diaper change, then i have seen these inflatable little seat extensions things so they can fully stretch out their legs. that all will need a significant time to set up and is easier to do while the plane is still empty

Not all airlines allow those inflatable extensions but those that do require them to be stowed during takeoff and landing, so extra time during boarding isn’t helpful.

motherofbabydragon · 26/08/2024 12:33

@OhTediosity i did not know that but makes sense. it does still take longer though to get young kids settled into their seat with all the other items required at hand

iamtheblcksheep · 26/08/2024 12:54

By your own theories OP you should get on last. The less time your DC are on board the better. There’s nothing worse than sitting listening to a child scream because they’re bored out of their minds.

motherofbabydragon · 26/08/2024 13:16

@iamtheblcksheep going on last will likely cause frazzled parents trying to rush the whole process on a crowded plane where there is not a lot of room to for example temporarily put the big massive hand luggage while trying to unpack 5 toys 3 snacks 2 devices to put into the storage compartment at the front to then be able to put the rest of the luggage in the overhead, then make sure the child is settled safe and comfortable in their seat reasonably occupied to not cause a fuss which would all have been so much easier on an empty plane and not rushed

Yazzi · 26/08/2024 13:31

sabbii · 25/08/2024 21:01

Have never ever seen priority boarding for this, the only exemptions is for medical reasons.

Emirates, Qantas, Etihad, Qatar Airways, Singapore Airlines and BA all offer it. That's just what I've flown.

I think most people on this thread are talking in theory, or from a flight 20 years ago. Most families with very young children- including mine- utilise this service. It's very helpful.

Yazzi · 26/08/2024 13:34

motherofbabydragon · 26/08/2024 13:16

@iamtheblcksheep going on last will likely cause frazzled parents trying to rush the whole process on a crowded plane where there is not a lot of room to for example temporarily put the big massive hand luggage while trying to unpack 5 toys 3 snacks 2 devices to put into the storage compartment at the front to then be able to put the rest of the luggage in the overhead, then make sure the child is settled safe and comfortable in their seat reasonably occupied to not cause a fuss which would all have been so much easier on an empty plane and not rushed

Exactly- the irony of everyone on this thread saying parents should be engaging their kids on a flight- it's much easier to do so from the start without inconveniencing the passengers around you if you were able to have a moment on a mostly empty plane to sort out what you need to keep down from your hand luggage, something that is easily achieve by, I don't know... priority boarding

Gogogo12345 · 26/08/2024 13:48

motherofbabydragon · 26/08/2024 07:30

i always assumed that it takes so much longer to get settled in with a baby considering any extended long period will require multiple snacks, toys/games/books, drinks all taking a considerable time to unpack from the hand luggage then on top of that possibly depending on the age of the small child everything you will need for a diaper change, then i have seen these inflatable little seat extensions things so they can fully stretch out their legs. that all will need a significant time to set up and is easier to do while the plane is still empty

Why not just take a smaller bag with stuff you need for the flight and pop it under the seat in front? Seems common sense to me. No unpacking involved before getting seated

Change the nappy BEFORE boarding.

And those " seat extender" are banned from majority of airlines

motherofbabydragon · 26/08/2024 13:52

@Gogogo12345 you can’t tell when you will need a nappy change and good luck on a long haul flight. also any parent of a young child will let you know just how much stuff you have to take for just in case.

notimagain · 26/08/2024 13:59

TBH personally over the years I’ve never seen the problem with priority for family with infants boarding…can’t understand why some people on this thread seem to be getting a bit bent out of shape over it.

What can grind even my gears though is getting stuck on arrival because somebody needs to stand the aisle to help with all the books, crayons and cuddly toys need finding and packing…..

I know sometimes connecting flights mean some families do need to try and rush off but sometimes it does appear to be a case of thinking first on must mean first off.

Gogogo12345 · 26/08/2024 14:04

motherofbabydragon · 26/08/2024 13:52

@Gogogo12345 you can’t tell when you will need a nappy change and good luck on a long haul flight. also any parent of a young child will let you know just how much stuff you have to take for just in case.

It would be bloody bad luck if a nappy urgently needed changing between boarding and take off though. Especially if you had done it 5 mins before you boarded. And yeah I would say I've got a pretty good idea how much stuff to take on a plane for young kids. I've had 3 of them and all been taken on long haul flight. And before iPads were the norm as well so more stuff then

motherofbabydragon · 26/08/2024 16:31

@Gogogo12345 i guess the nappy situation can depend on the baby. mine would scream the plane down at one drop or wee 😅

Jc2001 · 26/08/2024 19:03

royalcassel · 24/08/2024 09:37

Wow some of these replies are so nasty.

I always take my cabin approved buggy with me and put it above our heads. I tend to get off the plane last with my kids, as I also find that easier. Yes, it means they're on the plane longest- but it makes the whole process easier for me, especially when I travel alone with them. Which I do a lot.

I don't take any other overhead luggage with me when I fly with my kids. So the only thing that goes in the overhead compartment is the buggy. I don't see why I shouldn't be allowed to do that ? It's my luggage allowance.

Some of you are so mean spirited. It's nothing to do with being ' entitled ' it's about having different needs to adult passengers.

Anyway I think the theory stands that perhaps this was not offered recently as the flight was full of kids, so there was no point in making that distinction anyway.

Haha yeah. Considering this site is called mumsnet there seems to be a lot of people who hate or resent mums or children.

ParrotPirouette · 27/08/2024 12:25

All the flights I’ve been on in the last 5 years have asked for parents with children under 12 to board first.
they have all been long haul BA flights though 😃

riceuten · 27/08/2024 13:53

lazzapazza · 23/08/2024 23:31

Why should they. It makes much more sense to board young children last so they have less time sitting there getting restless.

I have never for the life of me understood why people want to be first on the plane. It's absolutely bonkers.

Usually to bag the luggage space