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Some airlines no longer let babies and small children board first

302 replies

royalcassel · 23/08/2024 23:09

What's that all about ? Has anyone else had this experience recently ? I found it quite challenging. Surely it's better for the little people to be seated first to enable everyone else to board quicker ?

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theescapeladder · 24/08/2024 00:59

Beezknees · 24/08/2024 00:57

The UK is a European country!

Geographically yes.

Culturally - definitely not.

CouldNotStayAway · 24/08/2024 01:02

@royalcassel I quite liked boarding first when dc were young, it meant I could settle them without the worry of standing in the way of everyone else trying to get seated.

Beezknees · 24/08/2024 01:05

theescapeladder · 24/08/2024 00:59

Geographically yes.

Culturally - definitely not.

I can't say it's something I've ever experienced in other European countries when I've travelled with DS. Maybe it depends on the airline!

GildedRage · 24/08/2024 01:05

Certainly most airlines in Canada will request persons flying with small children and those needing assistance to board first.
I wish airlines improved on overhead and carry on baggage size and seated people starting at the back.

ZenaZula · 24/08/2024 01:05

As a mum of four that has travelled by air many many times, families with small children are always called after business class and disabled passengers before the rest of economy. Always. We do travel more long haul though so maybe it’s just long haul flights? Emirates, BA, Virgin, Etihad, Qatar, SAA, Ethiopian, Thai and a few others. It might be because we travel with more bits on board like pushchairs, car seats, so much hand luggage and then having young children to mind. I think it makes it easier for both the families and other passengers to let our circus on before the plane is full 😅

Negroany · 24/08/2024 01:09

I've always wondered why they don't load planes by the window seat tickets first, then call for all the middle seat tickets, and lastly the aisle seats - that way people aren't sitting down then having to bob up again and get in the way when the window person for their row arrives, everyone can just get settled knowing no-one will come and disturb them. It would be a lot quicker and calmer.

Hateliars34 · 24/08/2024 01:14

I've always been asked to board first with children, but hate it. The kids are bored and complaining for longer!

If I'm not carrying a push chair I try to go last and keep my fingers crossed for no delays.

Omlettes · 24/08/2024 01:22

SoulMole · 23/08/2024 23:16

Apparently I'm lumbered with being responsible for them until they're 18.

Which airlines make you board first? I make a point of leaving it to the last minute as I can't face extra time on a plane with them.

So are the rest of us stuck on the plane with you and your spawn

Gogogo12345 · 24/08/2024 01:32

royalcassel · 23/08/2024 23:09

What's that all about ? Has anyone else had this experience recently ? I found it quite challenging. Surely it's better for the little people to be seated first to enable everyone else to board quicker ?

Id rather board last with small kids . Less time for them to be cooped up on plane

Gogogo12345 · 24/08/2024 01:34

lazzapazza · 23/08/2024 23:31

Why should they. It makes much more sense to board young children last so they have less time sitting there getting restless.

I have never for the life of me understood why people want to be first on the plane. It's absolutely bonkers.

To get your seat all sorted, put your belongings away and have a glass of champagne perhaps

ChampagneLassie · 24/08/2024 01:44

royalcassel · 23/08/2024 23:54

Oh ok. So it wouldn't cross your mind if you were asked to board first ?

I fly Lufthansa a lot, they always ask. Also the last BA flight I took, they also asked children to board first.

Same with easyJet I think and Wizair a couple of years ago.

My usual airline is Lufthansa, I fly 4-5 times a year and always go first because that's what they ask of me.. I thought every airline does it. Also always get to go to priority family lanes at security and same at passport control. Not because I ask but because I am told to do so.

I agree quite a few airlines do it but I think it’s an offer not an order. As others have said I find it easiest to wait to be the last on. With Ryanair/easyjet I always pay for near front seating and luggage so I know I’ve got that but I like to minimise time little one trapped on plane. So if it works for you and yours I’d just ask.

Eejitmum101 · 24/08/2024 01:46

@Omlettes planes are public place, for transportation of everyone
if you don’t want spawn on your flight, here’s a great business idea, open your own airline, without children. Least you won’t have to worry about entitled kids boarding first!
next year if we fly, it be the first time doing it with said child, and yes I think boarding last would be great I don’t need to go on first as I’m not entitled

Dibblydoodahdah · 24/08/2024 02:14

ZenaZula · 24/08/2024 01:05

As a mum of four that has travelled by air many many times, families with small children are always called after business class and disabled passengers before the rest of economy. Always. We do travel more long haul though so maybe it’s just long haul flights? Emirates, BA, Virgin, Etihad, Qatar, SAA, Ethiopian, Thai and a few others. It might be because we travel with more bits on board like pushchairs, car seats, so much hand luggage and then having young children to mind. I think it makes it easier for both the families and other passengers to let our circus on before the plane is full 😅

I flew business long haul with BA last week and families with children under 5 were called before business passengers.

HelenaWaiting · 24/08/2024 02:23

theescapeladder · 24/08/2024 00:56

Well, I did say it's common courtesy in European countries so there must be a reason why you didn't expect or can't comprehend it.

I'm off to bed so have limited time for a lesson in bon ton, but prioritising children while traveling in Europe is part of a range of social niceties, like letting people get off the bus before getting on and giving your seat up for the elderly.

Weren't you lecturing everyone on common courtesy? Maybe it's just me, but I think you're extremely rude.

mitogoshi · 24/08/2024 02:24

The only airline I have heard call preboarding for families is BA

QueenBitch666 · 24/08/2024 02:35

In all my years of travel I've never encountered this. If you're so concerned about your children's behaviour you shouldn't be flying with them. Just a thought 🤷‍♀️

MonsteraMama · 24/08/2024 02:48

theescapeladder · 24/08/2024 00:56

Well, I did say it's common courtesy in European countries so there must be a reason why you didn't expect or can't comprehend it.

I'm off to bed so have limited time for a lesson in bon ton, but prioritising children while traveling in Europe is part of a range of social niceties, like letting people get off the bus before getting on and giving your seat up for the elderly.

This might be the most cunty reply to anything I've ever read on this website and that's saying something.

So bravo on your "social niceties" I guess. Serving you well.

cariadlet · 24/08/2024 03:06

I still see families with young children being called to board first. I mostly fly long haul and with a variety of airlines.

It's not compulsory - anyone who prefers to board as late as possible can still do so.

When dd was little, we always used to board first. I liked having time and space to sort ourselves out. But she wasn't a fidgety flier so it suited us.

DrinkElephants · 24/08/2024 03:33

Easyjet allow this, you get free speedy boarding included if you have a baby or young child.

Airtentmamma23 · 24/08/2024 03:37

Doesn't happen in school holidays (I've noticed).

cariadlet · 24/08/2024 04:03

Airtentmamma23 · 24/08/2024 03:37

Doesn't happen in school holidays (I've noticed).

It depends where you're flying and with whom.

I'm a teacher so only fly in the school holidays and see it regularly, most recently at the beginning of this year's summer holidays.

Soontobe60 · 24/08/2024 04:10

Molga · 23/08/2024 23:44

The last couple of flights we were on, early boarding meant standing at the front of the queue for the buses. First onto the bus, last off! Plus about 2/3 of the passengers had priority boarding (it came in some deal with a luggage allowance) so it was absolutely meaningless.

We just hang back instead.

We had this last year on Ryanair. Almost everyone had priority boarding which meant, in effect, that they got to queue up in a tunnel and down the steps whilst those not with PB got to stay sat in the departure gate until the queue moved.

DiscoBeat · 24/08/2024 04:11

We always ignored that and let them stretch their legs a bit longer at the gate before boarding. Not sure what the benefit is.

Pawsfourbyfourbyfour · 24/08/2024 04:12

Negroany · 24/08/2024 01:09

I've always wondered why they don't load planes by the window seat tickets first, then call for all the middle seat tickets, and lastly the aisle seats - that way people aren't sitting down then having to bob up again and get in the way when the window person for their row arrives, everyone can just get settled knowing no-one will come and disturb them. It would be a lot quicker and calmer.

Me too! There’s no logic to it is there?

Baseline14 · 24/08/2024 04:13

When my DC was a toddler my DH worked abroad so we were back and forth on our own to see him. We always headed to the toilet when they started boarding to try and avoid plane toilets (never worked) and to get pjs on because we flew overnight. So we would always be one of the last on to save the amount of time stuck in a seat.

I guess the one problem is the potential of the overhead locker being full later and it would be a pain in the bum not having your bag to hand with all the kid paraphernalia. I tend to put it under the seat in front.