I work part time partly so I’m home to look after our DC 2 and our childcare costs are very low but also as due to my health I wouldn’t be able to work full time anyway. My husband earns over 3x what I do, he pays all the rent but we get it really cheap as it’s a property one of my relatives owns, more of a token gesture than anything else. We both pay the same amount into the joint account, everything we split down the middle, with him paying for a few more takeaways or small items. He can be generous with money but recently I’ve noticed him offering to pay less and less and spending lots on unnecessary items for himself, it’s like he’s being thrifty because he’s already bought these big extravagant expensive things for himself, think gaming and gadgets, and I often don’t find out about them until they’ve turned up in the post. He’s spent about £2,000 in the last week. We’ve recently booked a holiday for October and due to our DC needing some fairly expensive new items, that we will pay 50/50 for, I’ve expressed that I’m concerned that I’m not going to be able to save up enough spending money now and he’s not even offered to pay a bit more given his higher income but I’m not sure of this is reasonable of me to expect this?