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What can I do about this?! Neighbour issue

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TiredTilly · 13/08/2024 23:04

Im in need of some help I don’t really know what steps to take next. Starting beginning of this year ive been noticing dog poo outside my house every 2 weeks or so. Then dog poo inside my drive, like all the way in, and now dog poo intentionally right at my front door even on the bottom of the door. It’s driving DH insane his stepped on it a few times at night. his been insisting on cameras but landlord is refusing to allow it. It looks as if it’s intentionally placed outside our house and I’m really not sure why. Does anyone have any advice on what to do or have experienced similar? Is it a criminal offence can I file a complaint? I’ve watched neighbours walking their dogs around our area quite a few times and they always pick it up. Live in an area that’s quite secluded it couldn’t possible be someone that’s not part of the drive area. Thanks in advance.
posting in aibu for more traffic sorry 🙁

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Emmz1510 · 17/08/2024 14:13

TiredTilly · 14/08/2024 18:51

You’ve covered everything thank you so much.
going to get Velcro to stick the camera on the door and do a free standing on the windowsill.
I called the police they explained what to do and make sure to get proof. They said it’s absolutely a hate crime because they’ve even smashed my peephole on the door so I can’t see through it.
thank you guys ❤️

Excellent. Sounds like the police were helpful and hopefully you’ll get to the bottom of this.

GinandGingerBeer · 17/08/2024 14:24

I'm really sorry you have had to put up with this. Given the harsh sentencing that's going on at the moment I think you can have confidence that the police will support you. They are rightfully coming down hard on these racist animals.

JillMW · 17/08/2024 15:25

If foxes are eating from dustbins or being fed their poo will not be black as it is when they are eating bloodied kill it will be just like a dog’s. The pattern sounds like foxes, they start outside, then come in the garden and then will use the door step or the window sill. Often you will not see them even when they are bringing their young to visit.

abs12 · 18/08/2024 04:47

Sorry OP. This is so horrendous. Sounds like you have a plan in place which is great and the police really will support you.

I wanted to add that we set up a windowsill canera which was cheap and gave notifications via an app. It worked a treat, no issues after.

I did want to say that you almost sound apologetic and that you should move etc. It's not you and you should never have to alter your behaviour or let your confidence or enjoyment of life become eroded by someone else. You don't deserve that, they do. So, be brave, be confident and do whatever you need to in order to get this resolved quickly. There is support out there for you and you deserve that support ❤️

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