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Anyone ever had weird stuff go on in their house?

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Pumpkinz · 12/08/2024 22:00

In the last week, I've had two loaves of bread go missing from my house (one was in a delivery that I put in the cupboard, just mysteriously disappeared. Another my mum brought me to replace the other one, a loaf of sourdough. Randomly gone). Today I got up in the morning and found a scourer next to my sink. I don't use scourers. Never have. Weird weird weird!

Has anyone ever had something weird happen in their home and found a reasonable explanation for it?

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Namechangedforspookyhousepost · 13/08/2024 01:28

I've name changed for this as incredibly outing if any family are on here.

Not my house but my mother in laws, apparently the gentleman who lived in the property before she did, back in the 70s took his own life in the bathtub.
One morning there was a black soot like substance all over the bathroom, it was on everything, the ceiling, walls, floor. This was seen by my partner, his sister, MILs partner at the time and MIL herself, none of them have any explanation for it and it never happened again.

I lived there for roughly a year when me and DP first met, during that time we had lights flickering, floorboards creaking when no one else was in the house although both of those could be explained by it being an old property, perhaps pipes.
Ones that neither myself or anyone else can explain are seeing shadows walking past doors and hearing whispering when nobody was there, the cats hissing at absolutely nothing and refusing to walk into a room, taps turning themselves on randomly.

Never felt in any kind of danger. I wouldn't say I believe in ghosts but I'm very open minded and have absolutely no explanation for those experiences.

Dogstar78 · 13/08/2024 01:37

We've had a few weird things. We have a wind up musical biscuit tin on the kitchen shelf. It started playing by itself. Like a full rotation. Not just a few notes like if jumped near it. My partner saw it/ heard it too.

We foster dogs and they all bark randomly at a wall in the kitchen.

When we joke about having a ghost and we have ballons up for the kids birthdays some will pop.

My phone brightness used to flash if I used my phone in the kitchen. It only stopped when I called out that I knew they were there and it was OK.

SnowFrogJelly · 13/08/2024 01:40

My pink bra disappeared never to be found 😳

MixedCouple2 · 13/08/2024 01:46

Just temporarily put up cameras in the house.

HarrietSchulenberg · 13/08/2024 02:04

Ex-MIL had a neighbour who used to find random blue biro scribblings on her walls. She lived alone and kept the doors locked. They would just appear at random. Happened while MIL was there - she arrived and everything was normal, left 10 mins later and there was scribble on the hall wall. Neighbour used to find blue biro marks on her clothes too despite not actually owning one.
Same house had an empty teacup literally lift itself off the table, move to the edge and smash on the floor in front of bemused MIL.
Neighbour eventually died and new people moved in. MIL often wonders if the same still happens but new neighbours are rather up their own arses and don't speak to anyone so she hasn't been able to find out.

sashh · 13/08/2024 03:33

I had a couple of things like that happen. Then I had a friend sleep over and found out that I sometimes sleep walk.

I had no idea.

peskypanda · 13/08/2024 03:42

Could it be a rats or some other larger rodent moving things around?

LunaNorth · 13/08/2024 05:54

Mmmkaay · 12/08/2024 23:28

Pls do go on...

Not much to say, really! I’ve had a loud hammering once on my bedroom door, when DH was downstairs watching TV and I was in bed.

Then the bedroom door was pushed open once - it couldn’t have opened randomly because it was a new door and we had a new bedroom carpet, and we were in the phase when the carpet pile is still a bit high so it takes extra effort to push the door open. But it just…opened.

Then at Christmas I was baking in the kitchen and saw the silhouetted figure of a man cross the hall from the foot of the stairs to the living room door. I thought it was DH, then I remembered he was in the garden, which he still was (I checked).

And then tonight DH said ‘I saw something cross the hallway.’ I panicked and thought he meant a mouse! I was relieved when he said he thought it was our guest 😂

Rosscameasdoody · 13/08/2024 08:30

Mumoftwo1316 · 13/08/2024 01:15

Do you live near a train line or above the tube? Because we get this vibration thing but only when certain extra fast or large trains go past. It's not vibrating enough to feel but something unstably balanced does move/roll. And we're not near enough the line to hear the train, just get this tiniest of vibrations

No, nothing like that. It does make me jump when the house is quiet and it starts. It’s on the counter in the corner of the kitchen and when it starts it’s sudden, and seems deliberate - the pestle rolls from one side of the dish to the other and makes a fair bit of noise. Similar to another posters’ experience, l’ve actually called out that l know someone is there, and the movement stops. Our dog occasionally goes and sits in that corner and barks, or whines, looking up at the counter. We get random wafts of perfume/cigarette smoke too - the air moves as though someone has walked through the room and left the odour behind them.

CallThatCloudy · 13/08/2024 08:46

Came home after being away for a couple of days, during which time we had physically turned off the robot vacuum cleaner. Decided not to switch it on that evening because the house was clean. Looked at cleaner... it was turned on already. No-one had touched it. Definitely off when we came in. Next day spotted that OH had left the microwave door open in the kitchen (again). Decided to leave it open because it was full of condensation inside. Turned away to fridge, turned back and door was shut. No memory of closing it at all

Now I know in both cases it was just a brain fart, but there's still a little part that wonders...

Whatafustercluck · 13/08/2024 08:47

Dsis used to find used Teabags in random corners of her kitchen. She'd go to bed at night and everything was normal, then wake the next day and find a teabag in the corner of the room.

A friend of mine had a hairdryer go missing. I mean, totally disappear. She turned the house upside down looking for it. She lives alone, too. Even when she moved house and packed everything away for the move, it never turned up.

Whatafustercluck · 13/08/2024 08:50

Oh, I also had an experience where Alexa randomly, without any prompting, began singing Daisy Daisy, becoming increasingly demonic in tone. Freaked ds and I out so much that we completely removed Alexa and she's not been switched on since!

PleasantValleySunday · 13/08/2024 08:56

Whatafustercluck · 13/08/2024 08:50

Oh, I also had an experience where Alexa randomly, without any prompting, began singing Daisy Daisy, becoming increasingly demonic in tone. Freaked ds and I out so much that we completely removed Alexa and she's not been switched on since!

Isn't that the plot of 2001: A Space Odyssey 😂

Whatafustercluck · 13/08/2024 08:57

PleasantValleySunday · 13/08/2024 08:56

Isn't that the plot of 2001: A Space Odyssey 😂

Someone on here suggested it could have been an audio clip from that film. Creepy as hell!

hookiewookie29 · 13/08/2024 09:13

My Mum's house has weird goings on!
She used to wear an eternity ring if my Nan's after she died. After several years it snapped sk Mum put it away in a ring box in a drawer.
Took her shopping one day, when we got back the ring was sitting on the cushion on the settee.
Another time, she went to the bathroom and when she went back into the living room, there was brown goo running down the wall from the ceiling to the mantlepiece above the fireplace. Coving all around the top of the walls so it couldn't come from the loft,and there was no way it could come through the coving anyway. Nothing else on the wall or ceiling, my brother checked the loft and there was nothing. The goo was about the consistency of honey but didn't smell of anything. It's only happened the once and has never happened again.

IncompleteSenten · 13/08/2024 09:15

We are forever losing shit. We joke that we have a kleptomaniac ghost in the house 🤣.

It's a running joke now that whenever me or my husband can't find something we look at the ceiling and scold the 'ghost' and demand they stop playing silly buggers and give it back.

I think that things can be right in front of you sometimes and you can't see them. If you think you've looked somewhere your brain goes nope, not there. If something isn't where you thought you left it you don't see it. Your brain sees what it expects to see. Just like reading back what you've written. Your brain reads what it thinks you wrote. That's why writers need proof readers because you often don't catch your mistakes. You read what you believe is there.

One time we were doing some DIY and the hammer 'vanished'. We did our scolding the ghost thing (we think we are funny but we are not) and next thing we know it's right there.

Did the 'ghost' take it and return it?
Of course not. 🤣

We were convinced it was somewhere else in the room and just didn't see it.

Until we took that second to be daft, sort of a reset I suppose? Fresh eyes, bit of daftness. Then we noticed it. Right where it had been since whichever one of us who had it last put it there.

It's a quirk of the human brain. Especially with the mundane.
You see what you expect to see. You read what you expect to read. You hear what you expect to hear.

Re nowhere in the house, nobody could have taken it etc I lost a rocking chair in a house move.

A teddy bear that was given when I was born has disappeared. I am convinced it's in my sister's house, she's adamant it's not.

I lost a couple of thousand pounds worth of resin jewellery stock. (I make jewellery)

We turned the house and the shed upside down. Went room by room. Methodically checked everything. Moved everything. It was nowhere. Three years later we're clearing and dismantling the shed and what do we find? A huge plastic box filled with my jewellery.

We had never seen it because we were convinced it was sealed in a big bag. We had seen the box but not seen the box iyswim.

We were looking for a bag. We had tunnel vision re that bag. I could describe it! So we didn't see the box. We looked at it, we moved it, but we didn't see it.

Imo people have too much faith in themselves when it comes to seeing what's in front of them.

Don't trust your eyes, basically.

missb10 · 21/10/2024 15:51

Amybelle88 · 12/08/2024 23:28

I know you say your house is alarmed, but if someone was in the attic, couldn't they access the alarm to switch it off before getting to the kitchen?

So is your house alarmed? Or just a bit worried? (Sorry just had to post this due to a notice on a door at university).

SurelySmartie · 21/10/2024 15:57

Rats are very good at moving things around, especially bread. I’ve caught them mid-carrying bread rolls before.

BabyCloud · 21/10/2024 15:57

I think we can do things on autopilot without thinking at times and then later on it confuses us.

CoffeeCantata · 21/10/2024 16:15

Oh ho ho - YES!

We had some classic poltergeist activity about 15 years ago. We are both sceptical people - but we know what we saw, which included 2 instances of objects moving before our eyes. We both saw these things, and they occurred just after one of us had made a complacent statement - such as 'Oh thank goodness all that nonsense has stopped!'. I'm still sceptical but I'm careful what I say while in the house now. And I won't spend a night alone - it affected me strongly.

Lots and lots of minor incidents - bizarre and some quite ridiculous, and a strained atmosphere in the house at the time. If you believe what some people say - that PA is related to an unhappy teenager (especially a girl) in the house, then that would fit our experience.

My daughter also shocked us at roughly the same time with what seems to have been a telepathic incident. My husband was in the sitting room with her (both reading) when a very, very obscure short story he'd read years before by a forgotten author (titled Winterwood) suddenly came into his mind. He had no idea why. My daughter, who couldn't possibly have heard of it, suddenly looked up at him and said 'Winterwood!' When he asked her why she said it she was a baffled as him. It really freaked him out, and still does!

I think that girl might be a bit of a witch...

prospectivenhs · 23/10/2024 13:01

We took in a stray cat about 13 years ago and had him as a pet. He was a very pampered puss for the year we had him but he died suddenly. We buried him and went to the beach that night to throw some stones in the water and say our thought out loud to our cat. When we drove home, we walked through the front doors and found two fluffy white feathers in his cat bed. No one had been home at the time.

twomanyfrogsinabox · 23/10/2024 13:14

I have been known to put things in the wrong places, car keys in the fridge and butter in the drawer by the door, how I had both in my hands at the same time I'm not sure. It's thinking about one thing while doing another and being distracted (I tell myself that anyway). I assume you've looked in all the likely and unlikely places.

Poltergeist? I sometimes joke we have one, things that go bump in other rooms, things that fall when no ones around, things you can't find that must be there.

Loveambala · 24/10/2024 01:36

My bathroom mop just disappeared. Absolutely no rhyme or reason for anyone to throw it out, I live with DH and DD7. Not many visitors (and who and how would anyone walk out with a mop?!)

We've all looked everywhere, no where to be seen.

A few days later, opened a jar of jalapeños and put it in the fridge.
Looked in fridge the next day to use them for lunch sandwich, no where to be found. Checked bins, shelves, cupboards, literally couldn't find it!

murmuration · 24/10/2024 06:06

missb10 · 21/10/2024 15:51

So is your house alarmed? Or just a bit worried? (Sorry just had to post this due to a notice on a door at university).

The strangest thing on the thread to me so far is that @missb10 had to post on a two month old thread due to a notice on a door at a university. What did the notice say?

CoffeeCantata · 24/10/2024 13:37

Loveambala · 24/10/2024 01:36

My bathroom mop just disappeared. Absolutely no rhyme or reason for anyone to throw it out, I live with DH and DD7. Not many visitors (and who and how would anyone walk out with a mop?!)

We've all looked everywhere, no where to be seen.

A few days later, opened a jar of jalapeños and put it in the fridge.
Looked in fridge the next day to use them for lunch sandwich, no where to be found. Checked bins, shelves, cupboards, literally couldn't find it!

It's often the really banal things that spook you the most!

Danny Robbins (of Uncanny fame) said that one of the stories that had unsettled him was about a friend, a young man who lived alone in a small flat and had left his jeans on the bedroom chair one night (as he usually did). When he woke up they were gone, never to be found again. It was a tiny flat, there was nowhere else he'd have left them, he ALWAYS left them there etc etc.

It's that kind of thing...how do you explain it?

There are only 2 possibilities: either it's supernatural or someone got into the flat and took them. Both of these are horrible!