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Would you take the bottle of good wine out of the trolley

93 replies

Neverendingschoolholidays · 12/08/2024 11:20

The other day, I went to the supermarket with my young Dd, I had no coins so we went to look for a trolley not connected to the others. There was one and Dd went to grab it, I was just putting her in when she said there was someone’s shopping in it. I looked down and there was a bottle of very good wine left in it, I’m guessing someone had forgotten it 🤷🏻‍♀️
I took her out and we got another trolley and left it there
What would you have done? Left it there, taken the bottle yourself or taken it inside the shop to a member of staff?

OP posts:
Timeforaglassofwine · 12/08/2024 12:47

godmum56 · 12/08/2024 12:44

but surely you show honesty by handing the wine back too?

Yes I would actually, hence the laughy face. I was just visualising sitting in the car park with a bottle of wine and phoning my dh to pick me and the dc up and it made me chuckle.

RandomUsernsme123456 · 12/08/2024 12:49

If it was in the shop then customer services or member of staff. Outside the shop (ie in the car park near the cars) and it’s very much been forgotten and no one is likely going to claim it - finders keepers.

Pineappleprep · 12/08/2024 12:53

I'd have taken it.

oakleaffy · 12/08/2024 12:54

Hoppinggreen · 12/08/2024 11:22

Taken it in to Customer Services in case the person came back

This. I don't drink, but if it had been coffee, I'd have taken it to customer services, too.

Fluufer · 12/08/2024 12:59

How nice are we talking? £10, £30, £50?
Personally if I'd left anything in a trolley it wouldn't occur to me to go back for it. I would assume it was gone.

ButtonMoonLoon · 12/08/2024 13:07

I would have handed it into customer service.

if I had left something behind I’d be grateful if someone did that for me.

feelingfree17 · 12/08/2024 13:15

Taken it in to the shops Customer Services

notanotheronenow · 12/08/2024 13:18

OfficerChurlish · 12/08/2024 11:30

I'm always conflicted on this one - leave the item where it is so if the person realises right away they'll find it where they left it, or hand it in so it's safe until the person returns? In this case, I'd probably turn it in - mainly because there's so much traffic and even if I left the trolley and took another, the next person would have the same dilemma. But I think what you did was fine.

I wouldn't leave an age restricted product.

Growlybear83 · 12/08/2024 13:24

sweetpickle2 · 12/08/2024 12:16

Am I the only person who would have taken it?

A bottle of supermarket wine, even a nice one, left in a trolley outside of the shop- absolutely would have.

Edited

Me too. I don't believe most of the people who say they would have queued up a customer services to hand it in, or left it in the trolley for the next person who comes along to take.

FanofLeaves · 12/08/2024 13:24

Taken it home and bloody well enjoyed it.

Riapia · 12/08/2024 13:32

Wish there was a lie detector on MN
There would be many of those that have said they would hand the wine in that would be found out.
😉😁😁.

OneTC · 12/08/2024 13:33

Growlybear83 · 12/08/2024 13:24

Me too. I don't believe most of the people who say they would have queued up a customer services to hand it in, or left it in the trolley for the next person who comes along to take.

Yeah but you just tell yourself you'd have to queue to justify that you'd nick it. Actually you'd just walk in and hand it to the first person you saw or stick it on a counter

I don't benefit from another's direct misfortune, the wine is cursed, I'd get drunk and fall out of a tree or something

OneTC · 12/08/2024 13:34

Riapia · 12/08/2024 13:32

Wish there was a lie detector on MN
There would be many of those that have said they would hand the wine in that would be found out.
😉😁😁.

Again honestly that's just the kind of thing a person that steals thinks

easylikeasundaymorn · 12/08/2024 13:50

NeedSomeAnswersPlease · 12/08/2024 11:27

Just left it in the trolley.

The person isn't going to be able to go back and claim it - there's no proof at all that they left it behind. They could just as easily be a chancer looking to get a free bottle of wine!

If someone hands in a bottle of specific name wine, and a second person comes in looking for specific name wine, then of course they'll be able to claim it! They'll have a receipt to show they bought it, and if it's an expensive bottle the supermarket probably doesn't sell many of those in a day, so if the only person (or even one of the only 3) who bought a bottle that day comes back and says they left it behind, of course they'll give it to them, because how else would the bottle have gotten there?

If the person came in and the bottle hadn't been given in I agree it's unlikely the shop would give them a new one, which is why OP should have handed it in to customer services.

MereDintofPandiculation · 12/08/2024 13:54

NeedSomeAnswersPlease · 12/08/2024 11:27

Just left it in the trolley.

The person isn't going to be able to go back and claim it - there's no proof at all that they left it behind. They could just as easily be a chancer looking to get a free bottle of wine!

It would have to be a chancer who could produce a receipt for the same wine

Clafoutie · 12/08/2024 13:57

SpeculatingRooks · 12/08/2024 12:31

I would've given it to the homeless bloke that sits outside our tesco, that would've made his year!
I know it sounds mean and people are going to say..what if someone treated themselves to it with their birthday money..etc but in my eyes if you're careless enough to leave a good bottle of wine in a trolley you can probably afford another one.

Not sure that there is a link between being forgetful and having money!

MereDintofPandiculation · 12/08/2024 13:58

OneTC · 12/08/2024 13:34

Again honestly that's just the kind of thing a person that steals thinks

Agreed. I’m always suspicious of people who think too readily how another person can be defrauding. If an employer is being too nit-picky over your expenses claim it says more about their honesty than yours

Pocketfullofdogtreats · 12/08/2024 14:07

I'd hand it in to customer service. I'd get pissed off if I had to wait, but I still would. I got home from Sainsbury's a few weeks ago and realised I didn't have my fancy magnetic shopping list. It had cost me £3! Went to customer service and someone had handed it in! I'd left it in the trolley.

Pocketfullofdogtreats · 12/08/2024 14:10

I thought this post would be about none left on the shelf but you spot one in someone's trolley (pre-checkout). I might have done that when no sprouts left on Christmas Eve. (Don't think I actually did. Was tempted though!)

dontstopmenowimhavingagoodtime · 12/08/2024 14:19

SeeTheWorldAnotherWay · 12/08/2024 11:45

Really, OP?
REALLY!??
I despair.
All you can really do now is hope that a) you never leave something of (perceived) value somewhere, and b) if you do, it’s not someone like you who comes across it.
Nice role modelling to your kid too.
🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Blimey! What would have said if she'd taken the wine?

Death penalty?

MargaretThursday · 12/08/2024 14:20

Taken it in and handed it to customer services. I have done that.

And if you have a receipt they will give it to you. Dh once left behind in the trolley quite an expensive technology item he'd just bought. We phoned up and they immediately said they had it and come with a receipt.

Funkyslippers · 12/08/2024 14:55

Hedgerow2 · 12/08/2024 11:31

Well of course there is. If op had handed it in and the original purchaser had gone to the customer service desk and been able to describe the wine, surely that's proof enough?

Just showing their receipt would be enough

alrightluv · 12/08/2024 14:57

How bizarre. I'd definitely have handed it in. Hope it wasn't for a celebration.

SeeTheWorldAnotherWay · 12/08/2024 15:25

dontstopmenowimhavingagoodtime · 12/08/2024 14:19

Blimey! What would have said if she'd taken the wine?

Death penalty?

@dontstopmenowimhavingagoodtime Well that would just be ridiculous, wouldn’t it? Almost as ridiculous as finding a left behind item in a trolley and not taking it in to the store you’re entering to hand it in. Because that’s what any reasonable, honest person would do, as another three quarters of the people who voted on this seem to think. It’s called integrity, and I’m thankful to have it.

SpeculatingRooks · 12/08/2024 15:26

Clafoutie · 12/08/2024 13:57

Not sure that there is a link between being forgetful and having money!

Because if it was a treat or something you hardly ever bought you would look after it and not leave it in the trolley! I said careless not forgetful