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To think sending a job rejection e-mail at 10.45 on a Saturday night is a bit shitty?

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happygolurkey · 11/08/2024 11:49

This is the second time I’ve had a rejection email for a job application just before heading to my bed. I know it’s on me to not be checking this late on, but my emails were open from earlier that evening and I had just lifted my phone to set my alarm for the morning. In the case of this one last night, I’d had a short ‘informal’ zoom chat with them followed by a formal interview. Then this fairly generic rejection email. What’s getting to me is that on leaving the interview the interviewer specifically said that they would make a decision on the Thursday, but rather than contact applicants at, in her own words ‘unsociable hours they had previously been corresponding’ they’d wait till the next day. So they knew it was a bit shit but did it anyway. I’m guessing the reason they didn’t get in touch on the Friday was they were negotiating with the successful applicant, which is fair enough. But why send it at that time of night, to me it just leaves you with your head burling and unable to sleep, whereas through the day you can distract yourself, do something for your wellbeing, or ‘get back on the horse’ so to speak by looking for something else, working on your cv or taking some positive step of some kind. Am being unreasonable, or is this just the new norm? Am buying an alarm clock today and making sure I’m more mindful of phone use, as I say, I know it’s on me and to manage that, but just think this could have been handled with more consideration. I was thinking of emailing tomorrow morning pointing this out, but wonder if it’s worth the bother. Sorry this is so long. Just feeling a bit crap

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Newuser75 · 13/08/2024 10:31

murasaki · 11/08/2024 12:03

My friend got an email informing her of an upcoming disciplinary at 5pm on Christmas Eve. So she could fret about it 0ver the break. That was nice.

That's horrendous!
However in this case I'm not sure that there is any problem. It's not a special holiday or anything. Someone was probably just working late and trying to get everything done. The time of the email wouldn't bother me in the slightest although I do totally understand why you are upset at not having got the job.
Onwards and upwards!

Sparklesandbeer · 13/08/2024 10:33

Christmas is special holiday for most in UK. Sending redundancies on eve of it is shite behaviour

LlynTegid · 13/08/2024 10:35

Sparklesandbeer · 13/08/2024 10:33

Christmas is special holiday for most in UK. Sending redundancies on eve of it is shite behaviour

I agree. It could be made more difficult to do this in law somehow- perhaps companies having to pay more redundancy pay if they do this.

gottoget · 13/08/2024 13:30

DS got sacked on Christmas Eve - 10pm at the end of his shift. Made worse by his ex-boss phoning him up in January to check he was ok - but spent 15min moaning about all his health problems - what a wanker.

Oblomov24 · 13/08/2024 13:58

I agree, I was made fake / sham redundant on Christmas Eve last year, after 3 years service. Toe-rags.

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