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Shamima Begum

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Mamabear04 · 07/08/2024 14:30

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cm2n8xv61x3o

I'll admit I actually don't know much about this apart from it being on the news when it happened and I did watch a documentary about it. Do you think she should be allowed to have British citizenship? I mean she was a child when it happened, surely she was groomed? And now stateless, doomed to live indefinitely in a camp with nowhere to go? I think running away to join Isis is of course absolutely awful but surely she should be treated as a child that was groomed? Or am I missing something?

Shamima Begumphotographed at Roj Camp in Syria, where she is currently interred with other women who were members of Islamic State, on March 14, 2021.

Shamima Begum loses citizenship removal appeal bid

The 24-year-old will not be allowed to challenge the removal of her British citizenship at the Supreme Court.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cm2n8xv61x3o

OP posts:
Tandora · 08/08/2024 02:54

YANBU OP, I feel so desperately sorry for her.
How she has been treated by the British state is an abomination , and shouldn’t be allowed under international law.

EsmaCannonball · 08/08/2024 02:56

DragonFly98 · 07/08/2024 15:05

If she was white, blonde and middle class she would have been back in the UK years ago.

Not sure about his hair colour but Jihadi Jack is about as white and middle-class as you can possibly get and he had his citizenship revoked and was tried in the country where he committed his crimes, as tends to happen when you commit crimes abroad.

Tandora · 08/08/2024 02:58

OhmygodDont · 07/08/2024 18:52

The answer to not wanting your citizenship stripped as a duel citizen is not to commit crimes 🤷🏻‍♀️

She was a vulnerable 15 yr old girl. She ran away. Her best friend persuaded her online. She shouldn’t be paying for this for the rest of her life, she more than suffered the consequences of her bad decisions at that time.

KTheGrey · 08/08/2024 05:00

TunnocksOrDeath · 07/08/2024 23:31

If you can't see how distasteful it is to use the law to make your own problem into someone else's problem, when they were not involved in creating the problem, and couldn't have prevented it, then really nothing else I say is going to enlighten you.

As it is, this wrangling by the UK government has made it so-far impossible for Begum to be put on trial for her alleged crimes, and since Bangladesh understandably won't make any effort to take her, she'll stay in the camp in Syria indefinitely and possibly never stand trial, to be either absolved or convicted. I don't see that as a positive thing.

Anyway I've made my point for the last time now. I'm not standing for office so it's of no real consequence if people agree or not.

Oh well if it’s distasteful I guess that Bangladesh should not be allowed to make its own laws. Law by good taste will be a riot, possibly in more than one sense.

TunnocksOrDeath · 08/08/2024 06:23

KTheGrey · 08/08/2024 05:00

Oh well if it’s distasteful I guess that Bangladesh should not be allowed to make its own laws. Law by good taste will be a riot, possibly in more than one sense.

Clearly that is not a logical conclusion from my pointing out that the UK government is not behaving well. I have not proposed changing any laws, in either country, or suggested creating laws by taste.

I don't think that "it's not illegal" is sufficient justification for pushing one's own problems onto others. I expect better of myself, and I expect better of my government.

Moreofthesamenothanks · 08/08/2024 06:37

twomanyfrogsinabox · 07/08/2024 14:56

She stayed willingly when she was an adult, she saw peoples heads being put in bins and didn't care, she helped fit people with suicide bombs, she only wanted to come back after ISIS was pretty much defeated, she would have happily stayed there helping them otherwise. I feel sorry for the child she was, not for the adult she became and I don't want her back in the UK, possibly stirring up hatred.

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Aaron95 · 08/08/2024 06:47

KTheGrey · 07/08/2024 20:13

She had a citizenship under Bangladesh’s rules, not the UK’s. The UK can’t be held responsible for another country’s citizenship laws. They could have different laws if they liked. How is it not fair if they have to keep their own laws?

No she didn't. Until the age of 21 she had the right to apply for Bangladeshi citizenship because her father was born there. She had no guarantee she would get it. It would seem unlikely any application would succeed given that the Bangladeshi government has said publicly they would not allow her to enter the country.

User7171 · 08/08/2024 07:48

Tandora · 08/08/2024 02:54

YANBU OP, I feel so desperately sorry for her.
How she has been treated by the British state is an abomination , and shouldn’t be allowed under international law.

You feel "desperately sorry" for this terrorist?!

Luckily sanity prevails within the British state and international law.

Tandora · 08/08/2024 07:56

Moreofthesamenothanks · 08/08/2024 06:37

This

None of what you say here is anything resembling a fact

Moreofthesamenothanks · 08/08/2024 08:06

Tandora · 08/08/2024 07:56

None of what you say here is anything resembling a fact

She said this in an interview she did years ago. She talked about watchibg beheadings and watching them in a very cold way. Her earlier interviews are very different to her latest approach.

Tandora · 08/08/2024 08:08

User7171 · 08/08/2024 07:48

You feel "desperately sorry" for this terrorist?!

Luckily sanity prevails within the British state and international law.

Yes I feel sorry for her. You may call her a “terrorist”, but actually she’s a human. A human who is living the consequences of a stupid decision she made to run away, age 15.

She lived life in Isis as a domestic slave. She was imprisoned “at home” and subject to relentless sexual, physical and emotional abuse by a violent adult man. She lost three babies.

Now she is stateless, facing the prospect of living the rest of her life imprisoned in purgatory in a Syrian refugee camp, when so many others in her situation who did the same , have been returned home.

She has been singled out simply because she was made notorious in the media, and the British gov decided to arbitrarily strip her of her citizenship to win political points and pacify the mob.

This is nothing like what I call “sanity”.

Moreofthesamenothanks · 08/08/2024 08:14

In this sky interview she describes how she had seen beheadings and was alright with that. It's Sharia law. She seemed to enjoy living under IS rule until they were defeated. She lost British citizenship when she was 19 and at that time still had Bangladesh citizenship which she had until she was 21.

https://news.sky.com/story/she-sounded-largely-unrepentant-what-happened-when-sky-news-tracked-down-shamima-begum-11640713

'She sounded largely unrepentant': What happened when Sky News tracked down Shamima Begum

Sky's John Sparks tracked down the IS bride in a hospital in Syria just hours after she gave birth to a baby boy.

https://news.sky.com/story/she-sounded-largely-unrepentant-what-happened-when-sky-news-tracked-down-shamima-begum-11640713

jakesmommy · 08/08/2024 08:14

I wonder how many of those who are saying they feel sorry for her would have her living with them, she made a choice to travel with her three friends herself to that country, no one forced her to go, I feel no ounce of sympathy for her.

jakesmommy · 08/08/2024 08:18

Ponoka7 · 08/08/2024 01:43

Just to add has anyone read what her ex husband has said previously (he has now changed his tune a bit)? He admits to beating and raping her daily to teach her how to be a good jihadi wife, she was 15. Throw in three pregnancies in camps, births and the death of her babies, were was the time to be the dangerous individual that she's made out to be? It was also a massive failure by the police that those girls were able to fly out of the UK.

I think you mean a massive failing by her parents

OhmygodDont · 08/08/2024 08:18

jakesmommy · 08/08/2024 08:14

I wonder how many of those who are saying they feel sorry for her would have her living with them, she made a choice to travel with her three friends herself to that country, no one forced her to go, I feel no ounce of sympathy for her.

Imagine your son bringing her home as his girlfriend 😬😬

Moreofthesamenothanks · 08/08/2024 08:18

Tandora · 08/08/2024 08:08

Yes I feel sorry for her. You may call her a “terrorist”, but actually she’s a human. A human who is living the consequences of a stupid decision she made to run away, age 15.

She lived life in Isis as a domestic slave. She was imprisoned “at home” and subject to relentless sexual, physical and emotional abuse by a violent adult man. She lost three babies.

Now she is stateless, facing the prospect of living the rest of her life imprisoned in purgatory in a Syrian refugee camp, when so many others in her situation who did the same , have been returned home.

She has been singled out simply because she was made notorious in the media, and the British gov decided to arbitrarily strip her of her citizenship to win political points and pacify the mob.

This is nothing like what I call “sanity”.

She said she loved her husband. She enjoyed living there at first. She liked living under Sharia law. However, IS were mainly defeated and she ended up in a refugee camp. That's when she wanted to return to Britain. Her father lives in Bangladesh still. Millions has been spent on this terrorist sympathiser and lots done in recent years so she will appeal more. She was an adult when she said she watched beheadings and was 'alright with it'.

Moreofthesamenothanks · 08/08/2024 08:22

"But Shamima Begum does not. She embraced life in IS. She was happy.
She says she married a wonderful man in IS (27-year old Dutchman called Yago Reidijk, now being held in a Kurdish prison)."

Barbadossunset · 08/08/2024 08:25

Not sure about his hair colour but Jihadi Jack is about as white and middle-class as you can possibly get and he had his citizenship revoked and was tried in the country where he committed his crimes, as tends to happen when you commit crimes abroad.

So why is SB not being tried abroad? There are plenty of posts saying she should come back and face justice here. Is it normal for people who commit crimes abroad to be tried in UK?

Tandora · 08/08/2024 08:26

Moreofthesamenothanks · 08/08/2024 08:14

In this sky interview she describes how she had seen beheadings and was alright with that. It's Sharia law. She seemed to enjoy living under IS rule until they were defeated. She lost British citizenship when she was 19 and at that time still had Bangladesh citizenship which she had until she was 21.

https://news.sky.com/story/she-sounded-largely-unrepentant-what-happened-when-sky-news-tracked-down-shamima-begum-11640713

You have no idea what she “felt”. was a child who was brainwashed then traumatised. She’d been living this dogma for four years. She was also living in a camp surrounded by people who expressed those beliefs - that was her community and her safety in that context - it was entirely unreasonable for her to be in a state of mind to challenge, speak out , be reflective at that time.

This was a young woman who had literally just given birth, she was intensely vulnerable and in a state of pure survival. She was Just 19 years old. Her two babies had died- she watched them stave to death . she’d be living in conditions of famine and war. she’d suffered three + years of child sexual exploitation and domestic abuse. Of course her affect was flat. You can see in her eyes she is beyond exhausted.

It was quite frankly irresponsible for this white British male journalist to be interviewing her at this time , then taking her words at face value to try her in the court of public opinion and sentence her for life. All they were were words.

Moreofthesamenothanks · 08/08/2024 08:36

@Tandora I don't know what she felt. I do know what she said, as per her interviews.

I think the lawyers and courts were correct. It's been appealed and constantly fought against at an exorbitant cost. She lost again. There are more causes that I'd rather support that a terrorist sympathiser, who clearly states she was ok with beheadings etc etc

stuckdownahole · 08/08/2024 08:38

I agree with previous posters that if she doesn't hold Bangladeshi citizenship, then the UK is making her stateless and should not be doing so.

On a more general point, even an academically successful 15yo girl still has teenage hormones and a need for external validation. ISIS promised her a husband, an exciting one, a freedom fighter, a kind of extremist equivalent of dating the captain of the football team. That's how she got radicalised, because there was something in it for her. She was naive, she was probably sexually driven, and the idea that she is so dangerous that she can't be controlled in a country that until recently allowed Anjem Choudhary to be at liberty is ridiculous.

This is a populist decision and the law courts shouldn't be acting on that basis.

ChesterDrawz · 08/08/2024 08:43

@Tandora

You may call her a “terrorist”, but actually she’s a human.

All terrorists are human. What's your point?

Moreofthesamenothanks · 08/08/2024 08:44

More of her lovely chat

"She said she had been partly inspired to join IS by videos of fighters beheading hostages and also of "the good life" under the group."

When asked about Manchester arena she said 'that IS considered it justified as retaliation for the coalition bombing of IS-held areas'

How about rape, enslavement and murder of Yasidi women, she said well 'Shia do the same'.

Krumblina · 08/08/2024 08:45

jakesmommy · 08/08/2024 08:14

I wonder how many of those who are saying they feel sorry for her would have her living with them, she made a choice to travel with her three friends herself to that country, no one forced her to go, I feel no ounce of sympathy for her.

What a strange comment. Why would she be living with anyone?
Anyway we think she should be brought back and tried. No to live with random strangers from the internet

Moreofthesamenothanks · 08/08/2024 08:46

stuckdownahole · 08/08/2024 08:38

I agree with previous posters that if she doesn't hold Bangladeshi citizenship, then the UK is making her stateless and should not be doing so.

On a more general point, even an academically successful 15yo girl still has teenage hormones and a need for external validation. ISIS promised her a husband, an exciting one, a freedom fighter, a kind of extremist equivalent of dating the captain of the football team. That's how she got radicalised, because there was something in it for her. She was naive, she was probably sexually driven, and the idea that she is so dangerous that she can't be controlled in a country that until recently allowed Anjem Choudhary to be at liberty is ridiculous.

This is a populist decision and the law courts shouldn't be acting on that basis.

She lost British citizenship at 19 when she still legally had Bangladesh citizenship. Bangladesh citizenship was lost at age 21. So she wasn't stateless when she lost British citizenship.

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