dinner buying drama

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i stay at my boyfriend and his mums house, i texted my partner to say id bought extra so he could take some to work, and i said in what i thought was a small jab and no big deal ‘make sure your mums boyfriend doesn’t take it to work tomorrow’ as i wanted him to be able to have it for his own lunch. he’s acting like i was going to actually police the leftovers…😂

he has then said im being funny about sharing food and not to offer to buy food for the house anymore!

aibu to think it’s an over reaction?

sunday evening i arrived

where in hell did you get our ages from? you’re incorrect anyway.

where did i get your ages, by you saying you were not a teenager.

as all of this is so juvenile, but is soooo easily sorted by you not staying over at his mother's home so often.

the two of you are dating, not living together.

and in your opening post you refer to him as boyfriend - which he is, then you call him partner - no, partners live together 24/7

but apparently neither of you can scrape together the money to rent somewhere together so you can be ' partners ' as you are in a min wage job - but that still brings in £x a month so you must already have a lot of expenses / outgoings for one so young. of course maybe he doesn't feel ready for you both to be living together ?

Still think it’s absolutely fucking cheeky to “make a dig” at someone whose house you spend half the week in, free of charge. Grow up.

You didn’t spend the weekend together.?

hmm ok. Sure.

I also think having a dig at the person whose home you continually stay at use their facilities, is really bloody ungrateful and rude.

just go home.

train ticket home - beginning to sound like a long distance relationship.

I’d not go as often, either. If I thought the mother didn’t like me, I’d not go at all. I’d think she was only putting up with me for the bf. I couldn’t be there in those circumstances.
It was perhaps a bit tactless to say that, but I think he has also overreacted, especially if the mother’s boyfriend is likely to take it. Just don’t make him any more lunches and if you do take something, ensure it would be enough for all. He doesn’t sound the best bf material, anyway, if he wants to be with his mum rather than your house, moody etc . Tread gently and watch for red flags for a while.

You have your own house, but he prefers you to stay at his Manmy’s. Get the running shoes on and run and keep running.