and letting the old feminists down because i like being called darlin by kwik foit fitters

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and young lady lol

and even having them put their arm round me to say

we only had the two pirelklis in so i have given you a discount on the firestone too

I find it flattering now since i had dd! I know it's silly and they are sad, letchy old men but if i get whistled my self esteem feels better for it

I like being called these things too.
Makes me feel perky

lol. I was called 'Love' - as in "Sorry, Love, I'll move the van" by the builder next door recently. His mate then called him over, and he fairly sprinted back to me to apologise, and ask if I was offended!! I did think of my old Uni feminists, as I reassured him that I could cope with being Love, these days.

I don't mind being called 'love' but that's because I'm from the North where everyone uses it.

Love is fine, young lady, nope, don't like, reminds me of my mum and because I'm a wee bit vertically challenged certain types of men refer to me as little girl (which incidentally makes me want to hack off their testes with a rusty scapel and force feed them down their throat, oh the rage!). But love is fine, draw the line at sweetheart for some bizarre reason.

It's funny because the real working men who come in with oil/paint/cement all over them are the sweetest, kindest, chattiest most polite customers that i get in the shop i work in. They always say thank you, tell you to have a good day and don't look down on you just because you work in a shop.

i love it when they say ello swedehart in a frank butcher voice

I agree MissSparkle- Only these type of men give up their seat too ime

The day I DON'T get called a cheesey (nice) name or whistled at will be the day I worry about it.

I havent been whistled at for ages...I've been oggled a couple of times but I long to be whistled at! How sad am I.

agree that love and duck normal (and not restricted to women) where I'm from so OK.

I don't much like darlin though. Or flower. Or hen.

Not sad.

An appreciative whistle can make my day (even if it comes from a sweaty, gap-toothed, paunchy old geezer).

Oh I like flower, I used to work with a bloke who always called me flower, in return we called him fossil!

Duchess is allowed though as suitably camp

I call people sweetheart a lot. And no-one has ever objected! Have got some funny looks when I've forgotten where I am and called people 'love' down South, though.

Nicest comment I ever got from a working man (as in, someone working with their hands) was when I was heavily p/g. Took a load of rubbish to our local tip and the guy told his mate to 'fetch the lady a chair, can't you see she's in a predicament'.

My favourite market stall holder, on the other hand, pointed at my bump, held up his hands in horror, and said 'It's not one of mine'! Cheeky sod.

I quite like being called sweetheart, love, pet etc as long as it's on the right context (ie not by the bank manager!)

Can't stand being called dear though, a lot of my elderly patients call me that and it sets my teeth on edge.

LOL at "in a predicament"!

Think it's an association thing though isn't it? I hate sweetheart because I used to work with a creepy dirty old man type who called every female 'sweetheart' in a smarmy voice.

I thinks it's pretty harmless, but I REALLY dislike being referred to as a girl when I am obviously not.

Yeah girl is just bleurgh, hate it, I'm not that far off forty and people still refer to me as the little girl.

I am 33 and although I've been told I look younger than my age I'm still very obviously a grown woman.

I think that's why 'girl' is so irritating. Also, it has patronising connotations.

Little girl would just make me want to scream!

I have never felt so old in my life as when a young (fit) barman called me "my dear" like I was about 80

I loathe being called 'madam'. I'd rather be called 'darlin' any day!