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To ask what your life would look like on 60k

278 replies

Thecherryhotel · 31/07/2024 06:42

What do you think your life would look like if you and your partner earned around 30k each per annum? Would you both work full time or would one of you be able to go part time? Would this be enough to support you and the children you have? Would it be impossible? How would you feel?

OP posts:
Nw22 · 31/07/2024 07:07

We could survive but no holidays or savings.

Birdseyetrifle · 31/07/2024 07:08

I’m a single parent on just under that income, with a little debt and a mortgage plus paying into a pension, it’s not a luxurious lifestyle at all.

It seems a great income and 10 years ago would have been brilliant. Not so much now.

S0livagant · 31/07/2024 07:08

Isthisreasonable · 31/07/2024 06:52

It would make my life hugely better

Same. I'm on less than £25k.

SparklyCyanNewt · 31/07/2024 07:10

When me and my husband earned 30k each it was bloody miserable. Could only pay bills, mortgage, childcare and basics. I had to get second job.

BCBird · 31/07/2024 07:10

That more than I on now as single person with a small mortgage free house in cheap part of country, so I'd be fine. Would save the extra.

PotteringAlonggotkickedoutandhadtoreregister · 31/07/2024 07:10

Long term, I’d be fine. Short term would be hard as we juggled / cut our cloth / off loaded expenses.

Londonrach1 · 31/07/2024 07:11

Slightly more than we earn now. Probably save Abit more but make no difference.

S0livagant · 31/07/2024 07:12

I'm not getting the 'we'd have no holidays'. We camp for a tenner per adult and a fiver per child.

Olympicfantastic · 31/07/2024 07:13

Name changed for this. My salary is £60k. Take home £3400. Fixed outgoings £2100. Single parent, no debt at all, own my car outright. I top up my salary with consultancy work of about £1700 a month. Full time hours over four days to give me a day to consult.

I’d downsize without my consultancy work as I wouldn’t want to have my mortgage payment on my salary.

Icanwalkintheroom · 31/07/2024 07:14

We would have to change our lifestyle significantly and I imagine the adjustment would feel tough as we moved, budgeted & cut out lots of luxuries.

MyKidsAreTooNoisy · 31/07/2024 07:15

S0livagant · 31/07/2024 07:12

I'm not getting the 'we'd have no holidays'. We camp for a tenner per adult and a fiver per child.

Good for you, but that will sound like shit for a lot of people. Not that hard to get surely.

Badgerandfox227 · 31/07/2024 07:15

Think this very much depends where you live, what stage in life you’re at, and if you’ve always had this income. We are higher income, so we have a mortgage and other outgoings already that reflect that.

Fluufer · 31/07/2024 07:17

That's significantly less than our current household income. Would mean a significant paycut for DH and significantly more hours for me. We would have to completely overhaul our lifestyle - put kids in childcare, and move miles and miles away to a cheaper area. Presumably, DH would no longer be commuting to London, so it would be manageable. We have lived on less.

NashvilleQueen · 31/07/2024 07:17

Are you researching an article OP? It's a very odd question.

TheTerribleMaster · 31/07/2024 07:17

That's our joint income now. 3 kids, SE London. It's tight. We have debt.

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 31/07/2024 07:18

while you can camp for very little, it does presume you own all the camping equipment.

we’re another family who would cope but would struggle.

Tigerbreadbum · 31/07/2024 07:19

This is roughly our household income currently. It’s very tight most months as we have 2 young dc in childcare but without us we’d be comfortable

EllieQ · 31/07/2024 07:19

Our current household income is £55k (one FT & 1 PT), so that would be an improvement. We have a small house (monthly mortgage payment is £930), one child at primary school so lower childcare costs, and live fairly frugally (no expensive hobbies or designer clothes).

We are comfortable at the moment though I’ve noticed the cost of everything creeping up, but we’d struggle to move to a larger house (would love a spare room for wfh) and can’t afford a holiday abroad every year. But I don’t worry about paying bills or buying food, or having a few treats each month, and I know that makes us better off than a lot of people.

CormorantStrikesBack · 31/07/2024 07:20

We’d be ok, household bills are about 1k a month not including food or petrol. So we’d have money left over.

ItsAlrightDarling · 31/07/2024 07:21

Well it would be a lot less comfortable than currently, so we’d probably have to downsize and reduce our outgoings significantly. Why do you ask?

ItsAlrightDarling · 31/07/2024 07:23

S0livagant · 31/07/2024 07:12

I'm not getting the 'we'd have no holidays'. We camp for a tenner per adult and a fiver per child.

And that’s fab for you. I absolutely hate camping, would rather stay at home. We also have no camping gear, so that would be a significant outlay if I were ever to change my mind.

S0livagant · 31/07/2024 07:23

MyKidsAreTooNoisy · 31/07/2024 07:15

Good for you, but that will sound like shit for a lot of people. Not that hard to get surely.

It's still a holiday even if not someone's first choice. I wouldn't deprive my kids of a holiday because I didn't like camping myself.

flyinghen · 31/07/2024 07:23

We would be fine, just have less savings per month.

At 60k you would now get child benefit rather than just on the two 30k each couple

ItsAlrightDarling · 31/07/2024 07:23

S0livagant · 31/07/2024 07:23

It's still a holiday even if not someone's first choice. I wouldn't deprive my kids of a holiday because I didn't like camping myself.

Haha, my kids also hate camping.

TerrazzoChips · 31/07/2024 07:23

I’m a solo mum on just under £80k. Being part of a couple bringing in £60k would be much easier tbh.