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AIBU to think that I shouldn't have bothered working and paying into National Insurance for the 35 years I have done so?

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HauntedBungalow · 30/07/2024 20:38

When all I will get is the bare State Pension. Whereas other people who did not make these contributions and/or did not work will get Pension Credit plus all the other nice little add ons like Council Tax Support, free boilers and now Winter Fuel Allowance? AIBU to think I'm a mug for bothering to work all those years?

OP posts:
nietzscheanvibe · 31/07/2024 08:01

Peeler55 · 30/07/2024 22:58

Yes, I don't believe in the needs based approach - its led to all the issues we have, as people always want more and become entitled to the majority of work of others. We should focus on a pay in, get benefits for doing so, including support when struggling based on what you've paid in.

For those who have never paid in, they can't really expect anything.

This has nothing to do with needs, but is core fairness based on what you've done, nobody owes you a living. Those who want to contribute and support like friends and family are free to do so, and that's the model I prefer - make support of others voluntary, don't try and fix all the differences between people.

As I say, not sure why you are correlating this to disability - whatever people do, the more they pay in tax, its only fait they should get access to improved services and those who decide to take a path of doing very little get little back.

It is completely unfair for the OP to work all her life and the person who does SFA to get a similar set of retirement benefits - she should be happy and the other should be regretting it, and maybe shouldn't ever be able to retire at all.

Jeez! What you're suggesting would privilege the wealthy even more so than they are currently, and society would be much more unequal. How would you feel if you needed a medical treatment but were told you're not getting it because you hadn't contributed enough, even though you'd worked all your days? Or that only one of your children will get an education because you haven't contributed enough for the second child?

Most of us are not net contributers, that is, we get more out of society than we pay in - our taxes help to build a functioning society, they provide education and health care, they provide local and national infrastructure and civic amenities, they subsidise low paid (often key) workers; our taxes don't simply pay for "benefits", and you most likely "benefit" more than you contribute.

Your suggestion would take us back to Victorian times... high infant mortality, death by poverty.

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Piggiesinblankets · 31/07/2024 08:03

Muchtoomuchtodo · 30/07/2024 20:41

Have you saved or put money into a private pension at all?

I assume you’re better off than those who haven’t worked for as long as you but that depends on your job of course.

A bit financially maybe but those who worked part time or not at all had a better work life balance, saw the kuds more, got benefits to top everything up. Those that worked full time & worked hard scrimping and saving and putting into a pension to make sensible choices ate now suffering a second time over.

Cappugcino · 31/07/2024 08:03

Everysand · 31/07/2024 05:00

There has recently been a push for people to pay missing years to get the full pension, not such a good idea now, some would have used savings and now will be worse off.

Yeah exactly, it is weird you get more for not having your full stamps than someone on state pension. It'll be different going forward where employer contributions to pensions were made mandatory, but a lot of people retired now worked for decades before this was a thing and so plenty got a paltry lump sum or paltry monthly payments if anything and just the state pension.

Serencwtch · 31/07/2024 08:08

It's insurance though rather than a pension pot.
You've been lucky to be healthy enough to work throughout your life. Had you become seriously ill or disabled you would have received benefits to support you through that. If you had children you would have been supported through that - SMP & child benefit.
It's like any insurance house or car you pay into it so it covers you if something awful happens. You don't get a payout just because you've got 35 years no claims on your car insurance!

Kitkat1523 · 31/07/2024 08:10

take10yearsofmylife · 31/07/2024 04:52

Yes, the baby boomers have much better chance to own a property that cost millions. My Dad didn't earn much, mum never worked, we are siblings of 7, they both retired at 50 owning a property in London living comfortably with their state pension.

You also have generous pension through working for nhs, you can't really compare to most of us.

loads of people work for public services with good pensions……and we don’t all live in London you know…..i never had even a quarter of a million £ house

winewolfhowls · 31/07/2024 08:13

We are not well off and watch the pennies but the attitude of some people here is very depressing. Absolutely obsessed with the people scamming the system, and let's be honest there will be people like this whatever the system under whatever the government. Stop lumping these idle poor in with those that need our compassion.

Paying NI and tax to support those in need is the RIGHT thing to do. Those widowed with a young family, those disabled, those caring, those made redundant and can't get a job due to ageism, those fleeing war, those with long term health conditions. It's a massive list and YOU could be one of them in an instant.

Would you swap places with them voluntarily if you got all these perceived benefits? I wouldn't.

Ponoka7 · 31/07/2024 08:28

saveforthat · 30/07/2024 23:11

Yes, you have to be in receipt of certain benefits.

Then your council is unusual the criteria for a lot of council scemes are having an income under £30k, if your boiler is over fourteen years old. It's £20k and a boiler older than seven in our area. The benefit rule meant that a lot of single home owners were missing out, so the scheme was extended. I'm surprised with the green initiatives you couldn't be accommodated within one of the schemes.

Wordysmith · 31/07/2024 08:31

Bunny44 · 31/07/2024 03:41

Well tbh just because you have children doesn't mean you can access anything.

I lost my job while pregnant and my partner left me (no CM). I've been actively job searching for 7 months.

The only thing I can claim was JSA for 6 months and child benefit which is £103 per month. I have a mortgage, bills and bringing up a baby on my own to fund which comes to at least £2000 a month (live in the South).

Issue is I had been saving up to move to a more suitable house for when my child was born (house is totally unsuitable for young child) so I had a lot of savings. If I didn't have these I'd apparently have been able to claim over £2k a month!! Made me feel really pissed off I bothered saving so hard. I'm now using up those hard earned savings and stuck in an unsuitable house.

It seems unfair that if you can't claim UC you're excluded from so many other things. It seems if you're on UC you get lots of extra help thrown in for free and if you have any savings you're excluded from everything. It's so black and white. Also it feels unfair to be excluded from everything when you paid in so long as the OP said. I've been working since 15 and have never been out of work previously - now in my late 30s.

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Fair point - your situation sounds very tough, from what I understand there’s not much benefits given to people with mortgages even if they are out of work. I hope you find work soon.

That does seem unfair about the savings. I think they need to make the threshold for that much higher so ordinary people with a decent amount of savings don’t get penalised.

It seems unfair that if you can't claim UC you're excluded from so many other things. It seems if you're on UC you get lots of extra help thrown in for free and if you have any savings you're excluded from everything. It's so black and white. Also it feels unfair to be excluded from everything when you paid in so long as the OP said. I've been working since 15 and have never been out of work previously - now in my late 30s.

Yeah I think this is it. It’s very unfair clearly even for some people with kids . As I’ve said upthread I think some people do very well out the benefit system on a long term basis, while some people who need some temporary help get screwed and barely get anything and are in dire straits. Definitely not everyone is living the life of riley on benefits. Something is wrong when someone like you who has been working their whole lives can’t get any help when they most need it.

I hope you’re getting some support from your ex partner? Another thing that irks me is how they let people - usually men- get away with not financially supporting their children.

My JSA applicaction was denied back in 2016 so I wasn’t aware of UC then - not sure if it was around - but I did claim housing benefit (successfully) which was £200 a month, my rent which was bills inclusive was £350 pcm. And I obviously had to pay food and my phone bill too. So it was still a struggle without JSA. I don’t know if the decision was made in error, but I was so exhausted between fighting the job centre which was a long walk away, calling the benefits helpline and being on hold for ages, and looking for work that I just gave up challenging the JSA decision. I kept hoping I’d finally get some hours from my multiple zero hour contracts jobs. I didn’t! The letter just said I wasn’t eligible for JSA 🤷‍♀️and this was after me walking to the jobcentre to sign on weekly for 6 weeks. It was a complete waste of my time and energy.

Dwappy · 31/07/2024 08:34

Mycatsmudge · 31/07/2024 07:48

He’s done well to have contributed little to the pot but still be able to claim a UK pension. I think there is an argument to make benefits based on an individual’s contributions with exemplars for the disabled

But that's the problem. He isn't claiming "state pension". He's claiming pension credits. It's for anyone pension aged who isn't able to claim state pension. And like you say, he isn't able to claim a state pension as he hasn't paid in. So he claims pension credit instead. Which not only tops up any income to state pension amount, it gives extra benefits on top.
And even if he was claiming a full pension, it's all well and good saying you shouldn't be able to unless you've paid in, but what is the alternative? Having people starve?
What do you think people who arrived in this country (legally) from the EU at say age 55 did when they hit retirement age? They hadn't paid enough to get a state pension. So they would have got pension credit.
This is why people are annoyed. The government will tell you to ensure you get enough NI contributions to claim your full state pension. But what they never mention is, if you don't make it, you'll just be able to claim pension credits to top you up to the same amount.

saveforthat · 31/07/2024 08:44

Ponoka7 · 31/07/2024 08:28

Then your council is unusual the criteria for a lot of council scemes are having an income under £30k, if your boiler is over fourteen years old. It's £20k and a boiler older than seven in our area. The benefit rule meant that a lot of single home owners were missing out, so the scheme was extended. I'm surprised with the green initiatives you couldn't be accommodated within one of the schemes.

Exactly so it's low income/benefits. You implied the only criteria was age.

Vic6 · 31/07/2024 08:49

HauntedBungalow · 30/07/2024 20:46

Do we stop having to pay ni after 35 years contributions?

I fucking wish

Me too!

I’m 54 and have full contributions! Still contributing though!

BarHumbugs · 31/07/2024 08:55

Unfortunately OP if you hadn't bothered working and had gone on benefits while the children were young they would have given you NI credits for that time. They'd also have made you look for work once the children were in secondary school, now it's when they're 3. Getting paid to sit on your arse isn't as lucrative as people pretend to think it is.

I'm sorry that you're going to have too much income to get your pension topped up to a lower amount, having slightly more money than other people sounds really awful.

Astrabees · 31/07/2024 09:05

Scenario 1. No or little work, rely on the state. Do you really think this will be a fun retirement? On basic state pension you won’t be able to afford holidays or a car. If you need care or a care home you will get the very least care your local authority can get away with or living in a pretty grotty care home.

Scenario 2. Work, pay pension contributions (best of all have a public sector pension) Yes, you will pay tax, the same as we all do on our income but life will continue much as before.
DH and I have full state pensions, he has a modest public sector pension and I have a private pension that I contributed what I could afford for 40 years. We have a lovely life and it was all worthwhile.

MellersSmellers · 31/07/2024 09:14

That's not unfairness in the system. That's thievery. And have you reported it? No? Then you're complicit.

Sharptonguedwoman · 31/07/2024 09:30

HauntedBungalow · 30/07/2024 20:46

Do we stop having to pay ni after 35 years contributions?

I fucking wish

Be really, really careful here. I honestly thought by NI was paid up to the max years before I retired at 60 (couldn't do my job any more, then Covid, then ill). I have worked all my life and paid NI apart from when I was a student. When I checked my contributions at 66 I was a few years missing cos NI now goes to the new retirement age for me, 66. I get less state pension a week than my friend who retired at 60, a few years before me.

Cappugcino · 31/07/2024 09:34

winewolfhowls · 31/07/2024 08:13

We are not well off and watch the pennies but the attitude of some people here is very depressing. Absolutely obsessed with the people scamming the system, and let's be honest there will be people like this whatever the system under whatever the government. Stop lumping these idle poor in with those that need our compassion.

Paying NI and tax to support those in need is the RIGHT thing to do. Those widowed with a young family, those disabled, those caring, those made redundant and can't get a job due to ageism, those fleeing war, those with long term health conditions. It's a massive list and YOU could be one of them in an instant.

Would you swap places with them voluntarily if you got all these perceived benefits? I wouldn't.

But why don't they scrap paying x years of stamps to be eligible and just say anyone over the age of x gets a state pension? It is strange that if you don't qualify for state pension you can potentially have more via pension credits than someone who does have their full stamps. I don't read most people saying people on pension credits should get less than they do, but more that it should be at least equal?

Dwappy · 31/07/2024 09:35

Astrabees · 31/07/2024 09:05

Scenario 1. No or little work, rely on the state. Do you really think this will be a fun retirement? On basic state pension you won’t be able to afford holidays or a car. If you need care or a care home you will get the very least care your local authority can get away with or living in a pretty grotty care home.

Scenario 2. Work, pay pension contributions (best of all have a public sector pension) Yes, you will pay tax, the same as we all do on our income but life will continue much as before.
DH and I have full state pensions, he has a modest public sector pension and I have a private pension that I contributed what I could afford for 40 years. We have a lovely life and it was all worthwhile.

That's not really what people are complaining about though. They're not comparing private/ work based pensions and state pensions.
In your scenario it would be,

Work hard in low paid job and either not being able to afford to pay in or as was the case years ago not being offered a work based pension. So you only get state pension when you retire. But that's all you get. No help with boilers or heating bills or eye tests or dentists appts or council tax.

Then scenario 2. Rely on benefits most of life. Or work cash in hand so not paying any tax or NI. Don't qualify for state pension. So get pension credit instead and because of that also qualify for loads of free stuff like heating bill payments etc. And end up better off than the person who worked minimum wage their whole life.

Whammyammy · 31/07/2024 09:35

Why do so many people rely on just the state pension us beyond belief.
My husband has 3 private pensions (RAF which he claims now in his 50s) and myself 2.
You need to make your own provisions in life

Cappugcino · 31/07/2024 09:38

Whammyammy · 31/07/2024 09:35

Why do so many people rely on just the state pension us beyond belief.
My husband has 3 private pensions (RAF which he claims now in his 50s) and myself 2.
You need to make your own provisions in life

Because until 2008 employers didn't have to enrol staff onto a private pension scheme (and many didn't), for some retirees thats a substantial portion of their working life not covered. The cost of living also wasnt as high, state pension used to be enough to comfortably enough live on. For people really struggling as well they may have opted out of making contributions to have the cash to hand in the short term; this disproportionately affected low income workers typically and a lot of women.

Houseplanter · 31/07/2024 09:53

Whammyammy · 31/07/2024 09:35

Why do so many people rely on just the state pension us beyond belief.
My husband has 3 private pensions (RAF which he claims now in his 50s) and myself 2.
You need to make your own provisions in life

Why do so many people rely on the state... full stop

Gogogo12345 · 31/07/2024 10:15

Whammyammy · 31/07/2024 09:35

Why do so many people rely on just the state pension us beyond belief.
My husband has 3 private pensions (RAF which he claims now in his 50s) and myself 2.
You need to make your own provisions in life

Maybe as the people who didn't get paid well and were living payday to payday couldn't afford to save extra? Not everyone has a decent paying job with a good pension you know. If you were earning £11.50 and
hour then I doubt there would be a huge amount spare. And if everyone got the " higher paying" jobs then no one will be working as healthcare assistant, supermarket workers and delivery drivers for example And we need these people far more than those Sat in an office making money for their corporation

Karton · 31/07/2024 10:18

It’s tricky. I can understand the need for a safety net. I think it’s the fact that pension credit appears to be a gateway to other ‘free’ benefits that’s the issue. The winter fuel payment has highlighted this.

it reminds me of when my kids were at school and Blair was in government. There was a payment (can’t remember what it was called), to 16 plus teens in education who had parents on a low income. It divided the kids at school into those who got ‘free money’ and those who had to do Saturday jobs and work evenings. It was a bone of contention for the kids who didn’t get it.

holju · 31/07/2024 10:19

I had thought about paying voluntary contributions to top up my state pension but won't bother now as it doesn't seem worth it. I intend to take my small workplace pension at 62 and burn through it in six years.

LBFseBrom · 31/07/2024 10:26

Houseplanter · 31/07/2024 09:53

Why do so many people rely on the state... full stop

I agree with you in theory, Houseplanter, we pay contributions so that we get a decent contribution from the state on retirement and it is a good amount. However, it is not enough to actually live on, pay bills, repairs, etc. it is meant to give support but not keep us solely, which is why other benefits are available.

There are those who never made enough money to be able to put much by. I'm sure most people tried.

In the past a lot of women only worked part time when they were bringing up children, some not at all (my mother didn't), and depended on their husbands. If husbands didn't have a very good job they faced a frugal old age.

I am fortunate that I have a small pension from my work and have inherited my husband's pension which, combined with state pension, means I am OK. I will never be wealthy, we certainly didn't save much, but I am content - and thankful. However that doesn't mean I'm complacent and I do feel sympathy for others who live from hand to mouth, it could have been me. I certainly wasn't always wise with money and rather lived for the moment. We were very hard up for quite a long period when younger, it was awful but we learned from it.

We cannot judge somebody else when it comes to finances.

orangeleopard · 31/07/2024 10:28

Fleetheart · 30/07/2024 21:13

I for one would prefer to work than not work and be supported by the state. No money, dependent on the government: no way to live, no pride. No choices.

Sorry but this is degrading people who can’t work. I’m physically disabled and I’m in debilitating pain each day that I’m unable to work. I would love to work, I miss working so much - but unfortunately I’m physically unable to. That’s not my fault. I’m very grateful I’m able to get benefits to afford me to live. But that doesn’t mean I don’t have pride. This comment is truly vile.

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