To feel shocked about this comment from one woman about another.

[PassingStranger]

I was party to a conversation the other week.. one woman was talking to another woman about the way another woman was dressed. Who was known to her. She then went on to say she told me she'd been raped.
Woman 2 says it's not surprising the way she was dressed.
I was shocked to think woman 2 could say that.
A woman should be able to wear what she wants.

I was taken aback and couldn't find my voice to say something. I wish I had. But by the time I'd thought of what I wanted yo say the conversation had moved on. I didn't really wish to get into conversations like that either. Very heavy.

My point is though, who would have thought a woman would say that and imply a woman was raped because of what she was wearing?

Are alot of women like this?
First time I'd heard it.

Women can be misogynist too. 10 minutes on Mumsnet will show you that.

Very true!!

@Velvetcatfur Men use rape and sexual assault to keep a woman in her place or take her down a peg or two . They also stir up other women and feed their jealousy encouraging to be violent and nasty to women who have got one over on them in some way . It's about control not sex .

This is so spot on in my experiences.

Victim blaming police and by blaming you it was their excuse not to have to do anything about it . Police were always victim blaming and brushing things under the carpet back then .

The majority of rapes and sexual assaults are carried out by someone that the victim knows . I believe that these crimes have been planned by these men for sometime . People do what they think they can get away with .