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Free breakfast clubs for ALL primary school children? Why?

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Safi7 · 29/07/2024 09:35

I’ve been overseas since the election so a bit out of the loop, but is it true that Labour are going to make it standard that all primary schools must now offer free breakfasts to all children, regardless of need?

Fair enough for children from deprived families - but all children?

Where is the money for this coming from?

Are Labour actually saying that in 2024, its now to much to expect parents to actually bother to feed their own children breakfast? This responsibility can just be pushed onto schools instead - as if they haven’t got enough on? Teachers are leaving in droves as it is. Du much is out in them - the jobs is becoming more like social work in too many cases. Who will staff these breakfast clubs and make sure kids are actually eating?

Surely this is just encouraging lazy parenting - ie parents who can well afford cereal / toast / eggs etc it but just won’t bother if their kids can eat at school instead. Plus children will be dumped at school earlier than necessary, just because parents can now get away with it?

Surely it’s better to direct resources where they are actually needed, rather than turn schools into free cafes? Makes no sense.

OP posts:
Isthisreasonable · 29/07/2024 13:21

Is the OP Jacob Rees Mogg?

Coconutlattes · 29/07/2024 13:21

TheAlchemy · 29/07/2024 13:18

WTAF is this post all about.

When were you a SAHM and was it this century!? Because for the vast vast majority of parents today it is literally impossible to run a household on one income.

It’s not about forcing mothers back to the workplace it’s about supporting families to work to provide for the basic needs of their children. And for many families it is just providing the basics never mind any luxuries.

it has absolutely nothing to do with culture and everything to do with the cost of living in this country. There are thousands of mums out there that don’t want to have to go to work and would much rather be at home with their kids but the simple fact is it is completely and utterly unaffordable.

The government should be focusing on making it affordable to be a SAHP alongside these measures to benefit working parents it should be an equal choice

anotherlevel · 29/07/2024 13:22

There are plenty of people who are living in poverty and who are not entitled to benefits for one reason or the other. But it doesn't mean they are not struggling. Having that extra help makes a world of difference and will help make ends meet.

I suspect though, the other reason is to help working parents get in on time.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 29/07/2024 13:22

TheAlchemy · 29/07/2024 13:18

WTAF is this post all about.

When were you a SAHM and was it this century!? Because for the vast vast majority of parents today it is literally impossible to run a household on one income.

It’s not about forcing mothers back to the workplace it’s about supporting families to work to provide for the basic needs of their children. And for many families it is just providing the basics never mind any luxuries.

it has absolutely nothing to do with culture and everything to do with the cost of living in this country. There are thousands of mums out there that don’t want to have to go to work and would much rather be at home with their kids but the simple fact is it is completely and utterly unaffordable.

Maybe the people staffing the breakfast club don’t have kids, or have kids at that school, or their kids are teens or grown up!

BIossomtoes · 29/07/2024 13:24

Isthisreasonable · 29/07/2024 13:21

Is the OP Jacob Rees Mogg?

Doubt it. He thinks food banks are a good thing. I expect OP would disagree - we don’t want anyone to get something for nothing, do we?

FizzySnap · 29/07/2024 13:25

Gillypie23 · 29/07/2024 12:37

I don't agree with free breakfast club. People on benefits are eligible for fsm. They get vouchers fir the holidays.
I grew up on benefits in a 1 parent family. We were skint always had breakfast. For a some it's a matter of priorities.

Breakfast club is not just about food! When will people learn?

It costs £6.50 per day in my children's school. I'm not skint by any means, but that's too much to pay in addition to after school club. Parents need to work, and lower paid workers are more likely to be doing shifts.

There have been numerous other reasons why breakfast club helps children:
Those with social anxiety
Those who don't have a nut tripod breakfast
Those who don't want to eat straight away

TheAlchemy · 29/07/2024 13:25

Coconutlattes · 29/07/2024 13:21

The government should be focusing on making it affordable to be a SAHP alongside these measures to benefit working parents it should be an equal choice

How do you suggest they do this then?

Notreat · 29/07/2024 13:27

Because many children turn up to school hungry, because children learn better when they are not hungry and because its much easier to run and better for children emotionally if it is a universal offer, no one is singled out, running means tested offers always lead to children who need help missing out.
It's not compulsory parents don't need to take it up if they don't want to.
and it is being paid for by making rich non doms pay tax like everyone else.

BIossomtoes · 29/07/2024 13:28

TheAlchemy · 29/07/2024 13:25

How do you suggest they do this then?

I’m wondering too. I bet we never get an answer.

MrsSunshine2b · 29/07/2024 13:29

Sprogonthetyne · 29/07/2024 11:07

Paying teachers to increase the lengh of the school day would be way more expensive then some minimum wage staff and a few rounds of toast.

And pointless, considering the vast majority of children cannot be engaged in active learning for the ~5 hours they are already in lessons, let alone more than that.

Coconutlattes · 29/07/2024 13:30

TheAlchemy · 29/07/2024 13:25

How do you suggest they do this then?

increase child benefit
lift the 2 child UC child element limit
make maternity pay/leave more/longer (if wanted)
make carers allowance non means tested so there’s no weekly earnings threshold which could help parents who are carers back to work if they felt able
regulate home education a register and more checks to ensure the education is suitable and full time but also if a parent complies with these checks they can , if they are on UC and want to , have their work commitments removed

GreenTeaLikesMe · 29/07/2024 13:30

DustyLee123 · 29/07/2024 09:46

As a kid of the 70’s I had to line up outside the school secretary office to get a ticket for my free school dinner. This set me apart from others who didn’t get free meals, and was quite humiliating. It’s better to offer all a free breakfast, not all will take it up.

These days card systems are used and it's anonymous. You don't need to make stuff free for everyone to avoid stigma any more.

TheAlchemy · 29/07/2024 13:31

Coconutlattes · 29/07/2024 13:30

increase child benefit
lift the 2 child UC child element limit
make maternity pay/leave more/longer (if wanted)
make carers allowance non means tested so there’s no weekly earnings threshold which could help parents who are carers back to work if they felt able
regulate home education a register and more checks to ensure the education is suitable and full time but also if a parent complies with these checks they can , if they are on UC and want to , have their work commitments removed

Absolutely none of these things would replace the salary I get paid to go out and work which is required to keep our household solvent and running but okay….

Piggiesinblankets · 29/07/2024 13:32

TheAlchemy · 29/07/2024 13:20

Going by the logic of some people on this thread we should shut down all libraries as well because why should be pay for people to access free literature when some people can buy their own. 🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃

Libraries are a weekly event for us. Honestly if you aren't bothering to feed your children you aren't taking them to library trips are you?

Notreat · 29/07/2024 13:32

Safi7 · 29/07/2024 10:06

30% of children are in poverty and they are the ones who need help and who the resources should be targetted at.

But in general, it’s parents’ responsibility to feed their primary own kids and get them to school on time.

And if their parents can't/won't don't? Should those children go without?
Governments have a responsibility to care for the most vulnerable and children are some of the most vulnerable in society

HappierTimesAhead · 29/07/2024 13:33

BIossomtoes · 29/07/2024 13:24

Doubt it. He thinks food banks are a good thing. I expect OP would disagree - we don’t want anyone to get something for nothing, do we?

I remember a Tory minister being asked what they were doing about the cost of living crisis and she actually named Food Banks as an example!! It was very Black Mirror.

LiveAtThe · 29/07/2024 13:34

Whatabonkersworld · 29/07/2024 10:08

This sort of thing does my head in. If people can't afford to feed their own children, why should the state (and in a roundabout way, me) provide for them. If you have children you need to take responsibility for them.
I know the mumsnet village worthies will be all over this, telling me how awful I am that I dare to suggest parents be parents, so have at it, I don't care! LOL

so have at it, I don't care! LOL

This kind of response is so immature. How old are you? Did you stick your tongue out as you typed it?

Coconutlattes · 29/07/2024 13:34

TheAlchemy · 29/07/2024 13:31

Absolutely none of these things would replace the salary I get paid to go out and work which is required to keep our household solvent and running but okay….

But it wouldn’t be to replace that as your choice I assume is that you want to work ? But it gives choices to others in various different situations

BIossomtoes · 29/07/2024 13:35

Piggiesinblankets · 29/07/2024 13:32

Libraries are a weekly event for us. Honestly if you aren't bothering to feed your children you aren't taking them to library trips are you?

You think people can’t be bothered to feed their children? Seriously?

Blackthorne · 29/07/2024 13:35

Safi7 · 29/07/2024 09:43

Why would breakfast help with school attendance?
If parents can’t be arsed to take their kids to school, they still won’t bother, especially if its earlier in the morning.

It means they get their children out of the house earlier, don’t have to feed them themselves, don’t have to pay for it themselves, don’t have to talk to them, don’t have to wash up.

It’s off loading more onto schools. Some people have kids but shouldn’t and are not good parents. But those kids still need feeding and raising.

The children themselves may feel happier at school and even if it’s toast and cereal that’s better than nothing or sweets or a bag of crisps. Yes I’ve seen that.

It’s also free childcare for parents who need to leave earlier.

I personally think it’s sad but the morals of who should and shouldn’t have kids won’t be solved on MN so not worth the discussion. Waste of time.

TheAlchemy · 29/07/2024 13:35

Coconutlattes · 29/07/2024 13:34

But it wouldn’t be to replace that as your choice I assume is that you want to work ? But it gives choices to others in various different situations

It’s not my choice I need to work to earn a salary to keep a roof over my kids heads and feed them because we cannot afford to do it on one salary and neither can the vast majority of households in this country.

Sirzy · 29/07/2024 13:37

Ds school offer a free breakfast club (state secondary). When DS started I wasn’t working but upon discussion with the school we decided it was best for him to go into breakfast club. He has high levels of needs and the calmer start of breakfast club helps him settle, he can avoid the hustle outside school and can be in and settled. It gives him a chance to talk to staff if needed before the day starts.

he is tube fed so he doesn’t actually eat at breakfast club but he very much benefits from it and I am 100% his school attendance would be much lower if it wasn’t for it. Him being settled in school has also meant I have been able to return to work.

There are so many reasons why a child may benefit from the breakfast club provision

Coconutlattes · 29/07/2024 13:37

TheAlchemy · 29/07/2024 13:35

It’s not my choice I need to work to earn a salary to keep a roof over my kids heads and feed them because we cannot afford to do it on one salary and neither can the vast majority of households in this country.

Do you rent ? Renting is another big problem with the hugely expensive rents charged by some landlords if that was addressed that would also help a lot of people and drive down the UC credit bill as some housing element payments are extortionate

TheAlchemy · 29/07/2024 13:38

Coconutlattes · 29/07/2024 13:37

Do you rent ? Renting is another big problem with the hugely expensive rents charged by some landlords if that was addressed that would also help a lot of people and drive down the UC credit bill as some housing element payments are extortionate

No I have a mortgage you just live in cloud cuckoo land with no idea how the actual world works.

HappierTimesAhead · 29/07/2024 13:38

Coconutlattes · 29/07/2024 13:37

Do you rent ? Renting is another big problem with the hugely expensive rents charged by some landlords if that was addressed that would also help a lot of people and drive down the UC credit bill as some housing element payments are extortionate

A lot of us have to work to pay our mortgage and cost of living stuff like nutritious food and warm clothing for our children. (Edit to say the government will never offer help to pay our mortgage)