”Be more like men isn’t a feminist position.
It’s not really as simple as that, is it?
In some instances, being more like men was and is exactly what feminism is about. When women campaigned for the vote, they wanted the power men had, for example. Men had all the rights and freedoms, and women wanted them too.
Women quite rightly wanted to compete in sports like men could. They did want to be ‘more like men’ in that men were able to, say, compete in a marathon.
Most of the time, men have taken the best stuff for themselves and women have to fight for their share.
Women aren’t crap versions of men; they don’t want crap versions of human activities such as sport.
There’s no reason why women should have a prettied up version of gymnastics where they’re judged on appearance rather than skill. They are just as capable of being judged on skill as men are.
Quite a lot of the time, the way to work out whether something reeks of misogyny is to ask ‘are the men having to do this bullshit too?’ If the answer is ‘no’, there may be a clue there.