Divorce over workwear in bed

[grisen]

Lighthearted obviously but…

tonight after a short day at work my husband decided to get into bed, that I just washed yesterday, in his work clothes. To make this worse he’s a chef and we argue about this nearly everyday.

AIBU to divorce him over this?
outside of this he is usually okay, but he grew up in a very dirty home.

I used to date a chef, and it is fucking knackering work, so I get that he’s tired…. But it’s very very grim indeed to get into bed in your kitchen clothes.

Not that one should have to, but if you aren’t minded to murder or divorce him, i suppose you could train him as one would a child? Naice shower gel as an incentive, pop his fresh pjs out for him on the towel rail etc etc …?

I couldn’t be arsed, personally. I probably genuinely would be divorcing him. But thin is why im pushing 40 and eternally single. I chuck ‘em back for the slightest transgression 😁

No no no no no! But I’m acutely aware of smells and the smell of cooking/food in my bed which should smell of summer meadows/fresh air would drive me to absolute distraction!

Do you have a patio?😁

Absolutely divorce, my son is a chef. Sometimes I'm at eviction point with him, especially when it's been fish night 🦀🦞🦐

This.

Shellfish are your friends here:

1. buy oysters
2. bury at end of garden
3. when nice and juicy mix in with his seafood salad
4. feign nausea and administer emetic
5. cry piteously in front of police

FFS don't get caught:

Or just retain for fantasy purposes. Every time you feel you just might do it, up his life insurance. You'll look like suspect no. 1. It's a sobering thought.

Plan B

Explain to him that his chef's whites will get washed with your indigo undies if he doesn't keep them out of the sack. If you haven't got indigo undies get some and hide the blue clothes dye. My ex had pink undies for years until he got the message.

Or a separate bedroom

Go all Hyacinth Bucket and make him strip at the door

Light-hearted addition... I always used to think lab coats were sexy. Until my beloved DH came home at lunchtime in his to try and be sexy and I found out he'd been working with e-coli all morning... (Apparently it was the harmless variety but I still didn't want it on my sheets!)

Why would anyone do that?!

Have you been watching this season of The Bear 😆

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Yuk that’s disgusting and surely far too warm?? It’s warm where I am just now (west of Scotland) and that would be unbearable.

Yes because this person was definitely being serious about murdering him

😂😂😂

I chuck ‘em back for the slightest transgression 😁

Same 😆

Loving all the murder /insurance plots 😂

Reading the posts about it being too hot unfortunately don’t ring true for us as we have left the uk and are currently experiencing high winds and rain.
And I have to say that as much as the murder plots are making me laugh it’s off the table as he is a wonderful dad when he’s home.

I read the title 'workwear in bed' and immediately thought of a naughty nurse uniform.
Is it just me?

Outdoor clothes on in bed is not on, let alone a semi-clean bed.

It seems awful. Anyone needs to wash, and apart from any rings, no need to wear anything in bed.

Mine worked in A/E and would come and remove his trousers, leave his t-shirt on and jump into bed after a night shift! When I complained, he would say I was unreasonable!
😏

He got into bed, intending to sleep, in his chef whites?! You don't just mean he took off his jacket and trousers and got in with his pants and a t-shirt or whatever on?

How can that be comfortable if you mean the former?