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To be really sick of supermarkets treating paying customers like scum

416 replies

OptimismvsRealism · 25/07/2024 14:34

Sainsbury's traps you in the self service pen of shame until you scan your receipt like a good little girl

Tesco won't take the security tags off your wine until you've not only paid but they've examined your receipt in detail to make sure your wine is paid for - sort of a performance so you remember your place

Waitrose makes a bit song and dance about doing the rescan of self scanning shops (I don't do self scanning because why would I sign up for this extra work?)

Just in Lidl and my wine set off the security alarm even though I've had the tags taken off and the security guard chased me out the door to try to get me to show him inside my bags (er no fuck off pal)

Aldi staff try to look in your shopping bags as you queue

Does anywhere NOT get a kick out of treating their profit drivers like filth any more?

I will probably just have to live off UHPs from the local Greggs at this rate

OP posts:
S0livagant · 27/07/2024 13:16

Needmorelego · 26/07/2024 23:38

@Sunshineandpool many average medium sized towns don't have anything as fancy as an actual bakery to buy a nicer loaf of bread from.
It's the supermarket or convenience/corner shops as the only options.
Although Morrisons do some really nice fresh bread.

Edited

Many do though. Our small town has three bakeries, the next nearest has two. We have a local butcher as well, there's another two a 15 minute drive away, then another 25 minutes away just off the top of my head.

Needmorelego · 27/07/2024 13:18

@S0livagant lucky for you 🙂

S0livagant · 27/07/2024 13:23

Needmorelego · 27/07/2024 13:18

@S0livagant lucky for you 🙂

We have a strong culture of shopping small and local around here. Plenty of allotment growers giving away and swapping produce too. Eggs at farm gates. Farmers market. I could potentially only go to the supermarket fortnightly if it got too unfriendly.

Greenlittecat · 27/07/2024 13:30

Oh it's you again. You lead a very hateful life OP - you don't like old people, bikes, queuing and now supermarkets.

Needmorelego · 27/07/2024 13:31

@S0livagant my mums town has a monthly farmers market and a food fair a couple of times a year.
People complain about it because it's "far too expensive" 🤣🤣🤣

S0livagant · 27/07/2024 13:43

Needmorelego · 27/07/2024 13:31

@S0livagant my mums town has a monthly farmers market and a food fair a couple of times a year.
People complain about it because it's "far too expensive" 🤣🤣🤣

Ours isn't for what you get, non upf bread and fruit and veg that is fresh and tastes of something. I save by what I don't buy at the supermarket, I mostly stick to basic ingredients.

Gogogo12345 · 27/07/2024 13:48

Needmorelego · 26/07/2024 23:38

@Sunshineandpool many average medium sized towns don't have anything as fancy as an actual bakery to buy a nicer loaf of bread from.
It's the supermarket or convenience/corner shops as the only options.
Although Morrisons do some really nice fresh bread.

Edited

Really? I live in a smallish/ mefium town We have 4 independent bakeries plus Wenzels Greggs and Gails

As well as at least 3 butchers, 3 farm shops and a greengrocer

mrandmrsrobinson · 27/07/2024 13:49

I won't shop in Boots anymore

Needmorelego · 27/07/2024 14:45

@Gogogo12345 oh everywhere has Greggs.... usually several branches.
Except they don't sell loaves of bread anymore.
(can't comment on the other 2)

Needmorelego · 27/07/2024 14:46

@mrandmrsrobinson why?
What's Boots done to you?

Gogogo12345 · 27/07/2024 14:53

Needmorelego · 27/07/2024 14:45

@Gogogo12345 oh everywhere has Greggs.... usually several branches.
Except they don't sell loaves of bread anymore.
(can't comment on the other 2)

Well Gails and Wenzels def sell bread as do our independent bakers Not surprised about the greggs though. Only ever seen school kids and workmen in it

ALovelyCupOfNameChange · 27/07/2024 15:10

Nearest Gail’s is 10 miles
independent bakers in the same town
wenzels 7 miles

butchers, 7 miles but you have to pay £3.50 to park

supermarket is 3 miles

whichfan · 27/07/2024 15:13

S0livagant · 27/07/2024 13:05

Ours has no barriers and I've been to plenty of others without them too.

me too! but not for years.

Where?

but this poster is saying they actually stopped them being installed

whichfan · 27/07/2024 15:15

Greenlittecat · 27/07/2024 13:30

Oh it's you again. You lead a very hateful life OP - you don't like old people, bikes, queuing and now supermarkets.

Edited

and the rest

Seems. Seems very unhappy. Even when away on holiday the OP is bitching (about Britain that time)

In fact one of the threads was entirely about how utterly unhappy she is.

Well if you dwell on stuff like this…

PointsSouth · 27/07/2024 15:19

OptimismvsRealism · 25/07/2024 14:40

Really. How do you think scanning your little receipt like a good girl good girl can I have a biscuit stops theft?

If it's not to stop theft, what's their reason for doing it?

S0livagant · 27/07/2024 15:19

whichfan · 27/07/2024 15:13

me too! but not for years.

Where?

but this poster is saying they actually stopped them being installed

Several towns in the SW. A family member's local overground in SE London.

S0livagant · 27/07/2024 15:20

I can understand a community not wanting them. They change the look of the station and look less welcoming and open.

PonyPatter44 · 27/07/2024 15:27

Maybe @OptimismvsRealism has the look of a dodgy shoplifting type, and that's why they seem to struggle so much with every single supermarket they've ever been in.

I use the Scan & Shop thing at Sainsbury's, even though it annoys me, but it is just so bloody quick! No queuing, no faffing about, just go up to one of the S&S checkouts, pay and bugger off. We don't get "penned in" at our Sainsbury's, although sometimes you have to scan your receipt to get out of the gate at the self-service tills in morrisons. It's morrisons though, so the gate is usually broken!

whichfan · 27/07/2024 15:27

S0livagant · 27/07/2024 15:19

Several towns in the SW. A family member's local overground in SE London.

i am in SE London! which one?!

whichfan · 27/07/2024 15:29

S0livagant · 27/07/2024 15:20

I can understand a community not wanting them. They change the look of the station and look less welcoming and open.

W. T. F.

S0livagant · 27/07/2024 15:32

whichfan · 27/07/2024 15:29

W. T. F.

Same as supermarkets. My local Tesco used to look open and welcoming to walk in without gates.

S0livagant · 27/07/2024 15:33

whichfan · 27/07/2024 15:27

i am in SE London! which one?!

Anerley

whichfan · 27/07/2024 15:35

S0livagant · 27/07/2024 15:32

Same as supermarkets. My local Tesco used to look open and welcoming to walk in without gates.

It is Tesco.

whichfan · 27/07/2024 15:40

S0livagant · 27/07/2024 15:32

Same as supermarkets. My local Tesco used to look open and welcoming to walk in without gates.

indeed

to shoplifters

S0livagant · 27/07/2024 15:40

whichfan · 27/07/2024 15:35

It is Tesco.

Yes, it is Tesco? Now they look unwelcoming with barriers up. I am ND and it makes shopping a more stressful experience for me.