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No holidays - carbon footprint

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Teacherbee85 · 22/07/2024 21:04

I've noticed recently whenever anyone posts about flying to go on holiday they tend to get jumped on by people saying it's bad for the environment.

I don't think I know any of these people in real life - everyone I know goes on holiday at least twice a year.

But on mumsnet a lot of people seem to have stopped due to environmental reasons.

If this is you, when did you make the decision? How do you deal with family and friends who so still choose to fly regularly?

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NoBinturongsHereMate · 23/07/2024 12:18

BorisJohnsonsWigGlue · 23/07/2024 11:26

@perplexedandbemused

The stats state that flights are at their highest demand, with 200 million more flyers since covid. There are about 8k flights in the sky at anytime, sometimes more.

Note the words 'demand' and 'number of flyers'.

Reduce number of flyers, reduce demand, reduce flights.

BorisJohnsonsWigGlue · 23/07/2024 12:20

@NoBinturongsHereMate

My point was, the minuscule amount of people who don't fly at all, compared to the ones who do fly, aren't having any affect on reducing the demand as flights are at an all time high.

The result is negligible.

MotherOfCatBoy · 23/07/2024 12:32

We don’t fly anymore, since 2019. We do go abroad once or twice a year, by ferry and diesel van, or train. We also travel in the U.K. We’re not perfect, but we make good choices or less bad choices where we can. We can’t control anyone else, just our own behaviour.

i won’t point to celebrities or royals or politicians who fly frequently (even though they should be first against the wall come the revolution 😉) because there’s nothing I can do to change them. I can only do me. Similarly, in our friendship group (middle class, doing well), everyone flies. It’s come up once or twice but never divisively.

Other things we do - one child (not through choice, we wanted two, but are now happy, and we definitely didn’t want three); electric car (don’t buy the nonsense about taking 6 years to pay back manufacturing - how long do you think fossil cars take? It’s very similar, all that metal isn’t free - And e batteries can be recycled); solar panels; mostly vegetarian; have a contract for renewable energy only from Ecotricity so even when we use the grid to charge the car, it’s not coal.

On the downside - we have a diesel van and a wood burner, both of which are terrible and we try to minimise; we flew a lot when we were younger; used to eat a lot of meat. In some ways I look back with grief and nostalgia for the 90s and early 00s when we could still do these things with some degree of innocence. Not any more. But as the saying goes, when the information changes, I change my behaviour…

DramaLlamaBangBang · 23/07/2024 12:53

mondaytosunday · 23/07/2024 09:01

@DramaLlamaBangBang it's actually 2.5%, and car travel is four times that. However vapour trails and other pollutants add up too.
The fact remains that much less than 10% of the world's population fly. Even UK and US less than half the population fly in any given year. But it's increasing. Efficiency in the industry is improving by 1% a year, but flights are increasing by 6%.
Trains and coaches are much more environmentally friendly, but it's not always possible to take several days to train it across the US for example, rather than a six hour flight. But maybe that short flight to Brussels or Paris could be avoided (after all getting to the airport, waiting once there etc and it's almost the same amount of time as the train). My DD and I took the train to visit Glasgow earlier this year rather than fly as so many suggested. It was comfortable and scenic.

Yes we did a train trip to Italy last year. It was amazing and far better than flying. But it cost more and took longer. The train journey was part of the holiday. But if you want to go somewhere and flop on a beach for a week then spending 2 days travelling by train to Spain isn't really going to be for you.

Alaimo · 23/07/2024 12:54

BorisJohnsonsWigGlue · 23/07/2024 12:20

@NoBinturongsHereMate

My point was, the minuscule amount of people who don't fly at all, compared to the ones who do fly, aren't having any affect on reducing the demand as flights are at an all time high.

The result is negligible.

Surely that's a reason for why more people should reduce the amount they fly (so it makes a more significant contribution) rather than telling people not to bother?

decemberdecember · 23/07/2024 13:46

MangoMadness999 · 23/07/2024 08:52

I do wonder how many kids these "no fliers" have.

None.

WalkingonWheels · 23/07/2024 15:36

MangoMadness999 · 23/07/2024 08:52

I do wonder how many kids these "no fliers" have.

One. I'd have loved more children, but didn't due to the environmental impact. One was a big decision, but I did everything I could to minimise my carbon footprint. Cloth nappies, homemade clothes, growing my own food, keeping chickens, solar panels, composting/recycling, grey water use etc.

I won't fly (or cruise) for the rest of my life. I don't need to be on a different patch of land to find satisfaction in life. I'd much rather do my bit.

newtlover · 23/07/2024 16:54

WishIhadnotcome · 23/07/2024 06:32

if more people make individual changes it’s adds up. Most of the carbon expended is down to our individual choices added up together. You can make changes individually as well as strategically. But having looked at our individual carbon footprint, flying was by far the biggest impact. Having informed ourselves of the facts, we made the decision that we couldn’t justify it. We do a lot of other strategic stuff too.

Can I ask why you feel the need to argue against the position people have taken to reduce flying? What difference does it make to you? I am curious because this dynamic happens a lot.

I don’t eat meat and people used to tell me all the reasons my choice not to eat meat wouldn’t make any difference. Why? It makes no difference to anyone else if I dont eat meat, don’t fly, drive an electric car, don’t drink much alcohol, yet people will often feel the need to comment on my choices (without me starting a conversation about it) and try and dissuade me. My only theory so far is that it highlights cognitive dissonance/guilt and/or shame, which is uncomfortable to sit with.

I think this is very true
I rarely talk about the choices I make and the reasons because unless the other person is broadly of the same view they often seem to take it as criticism and get defensive or try to undermine your choices
and I would never question other people's choices unless my opinion was asked obviously
better to light a candle than to curse the darkness

Hobbitfeet32 · 23/07/2024 17:08

It’s great to reduce flying but many people would never see their family again.
The people who seem evangelical about not flying also seem to have loads of annual leave/able to take unpaid leave and don’t seem to be equally as passionate about encouraging people to have less children (1 person I know has 3 children but is saving the world by not flying).

ellabella89 · 23/07/2024 17:32

Absolutely cannot relate to this and know nobody in real life who can either. Sure, you can ferry and train to places on your doorstep but there is a whole world out there. What a waste not to see it.

Ariela · 23/07/2024 17:43

We don't fly for animal reasons - someone needs to stay and look after them so we simply don't do holidays.

Phoebefail · 23/07/2024 17:47

ellabella89 · 23/07/2024 17:32

Absolutely cannot relate to this and know nobody in real life who can either. Sure, you can ferry and train to places on your doorstep but there is a whole world out there. What a waste not to see it.

Thanks for this @ellabella89 , By flying I have seen the Khyber Pass, Golden Temple, and the Pyramids. And met and spoken with some of the people along the way.
In Europe I could have seen the historic cities of the Hapsburgs and Romanovs by long hours of driving. But I was in a much more relaxed and receptive mood after help from EasyJet.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 23/07/2024 18:01

By train I have seen Japan, Russia, Mongolia, South Korea and China (as well as closer places like France and Austria). Khyber Pass and Golden Temple are tricky overland at the moment, but possible when the political situation has been calmer - I hope they will be again. Egypt and north Africa can be done by train and ferry.

Starting from the UK, there are 3 continents to choose from without flying. And you see the country rather than just one or 2 tourist sites.

WalkingonWheels · 23/07/2024 18:06

ellabella89 · 23/07/2024 17:32

Absolutely cannot relate to this and know nobody in real life who can either. Sure, you can ferry and train to places on your doorstep but there is a whole world out there. What a waste not to see it.

I'd rather see them online from the comfort of my own home. Google maps is excellent now, and photographs/videos too. My right to "see the world" doesn't trump the importance of the future of that world.

Phoebefail · 23/07/2024 18:07

And we once thought Smug "One upmanship" had died out.
At least no one got 'preachy' about having the better equipped Cortina

pinkspeakers · 23/07/2024 18:17

I've not stopped flying, but I've made a conscious effort to fly less than I would if there were no environmental concerns. Limiting long haul a bit, and trying to do our european holidays by train where it is feasible.

pinkspeakers · 23/07/2024 18:18

A large number of my friends and colleagues seem to be doing summer holidays in europe by train this year. It suddenly seems to have become much more common

pinkspeakers · 23/07/2024 18:21

Doodar · 22/07/2024 21:43

its usually because they can't afford it.the only 2 families I knew who did this were't well off, one came into some cash and off they went 😂

Travelling by train is usually more expensive that flying to the same destination in Europe. The people I know who travel by train tend to be better off.

faffadoodledo · 23/07/2024 18:23

We only fly once a year and are strict about it. I know. I know. It's still flying and it's still bad.
We also take lots of train trips tho, and ferries and driving. None of which are carbon neutral if course.
But the point is we've cut back on flights.
I view it like meat eating / veganism. If we all did a little less no one would have to give up altogether.

GBJustina · 23/07/2024 18:25

The last time we flew was about 8 years ago to India. We are going to Australia next year so obviously can’t avoid flying (realistically)

but

we have opted for places we can easily drive/train/ferry to or make the journey a part of the adventure - we went to Greece via train and ferry and the journey took us through Italy and Switzerland. It was incredible

we also have family and France and more often will euro star/train to see them, as well as take the ferry to Ireland or go to somewhere in the uk

this year we are going to Norfolk for a week in August and then Orkney in September (via ferry)

pinkspeakers · 23/07/2024 18:26

JennyBeanR · 22/07/2024 23:00

I'm always surprised in these threads by how little people seem to have thought about the figures.
2% of global emissions are due to Aviation.
1% of global emissions is from the UK.

Not going on holiday due to your carbon footprint is little more than virtue signalling.

If you want to make an impact with regards to climate change you're better off reducing beef consumption and buying from local businesses. Support the Greens so you can lobby the government to influence trade agreements and put pressure on the US and China.

When you book holidays, support green initiatives in the local community you're visiting. Boycott the US and China. Plenty of other lovely places in the world to visit that aren't increasing coal mine production. The world is large and beautiful, and travel broadens the mind.

committees.parliament.uk/publications/42703/documents/212154/default/
In the UK civil aviation emissions account for 7-8% of emissions.

And I have cut out beef, thank you. I'm working on dairy...
Yes, of course, everything that we do is small. But that's in the nature of individual action for most of us.

midgetastic · 23/07/2024 18:27

Millions of people saying I have a small impact is why we are in such a bad place

You can't fix everything but you can play your part or not as you choose

nutbrownhare15 · 23/07/2024 19:59

Haven't flown since 2018. I can't justify it knowing that flying would be making climate change worse. We still holiday though in wonderful UK locations inc northern Ireland, as well as in Europe to France, Switzerland, Italy and the Netherlands and Belgium via train or ferry. My daughter wants to go to Australia and I've said I'll consider it in about 3 years time but I will need to think about it carefully and look into offsetting.

Kitkat1523 · 23/07/2024 20:29

NoBinturongsHereMate · 23/07/2024 18:01

By train I have seen Japan, Russia, Mongolia, South Korea and China (as well as closer places like France and Austria). Khyber Pass and Golden Temple are tricky overland at the moment, but possible when the political situation has been calmer - I hope they will be again. Egypt and north Africa can be done by train and ferry.

Starting from the UK, there are 3 continents to choose from without flying. And you see the country rather than just one or 2 tourist sites.

Edited

So how many weeks annual leave do you get ?

OhBeAFineGuyKissMe · 23/07/2024 21:49

nutbrownhare15 · 23/07/2024 19:59

Haven't flown since 2018. I can't justify it knowing that flying would be making climate change worse. We still holiday though in wonderful UK locations inc northern Ireland, as well as in Europe to France, Switzerland, Italy and the Netherlands and Belgium via train or ferry. My daughter wants to go to Australia and I've said I'll consider it in about 3 years time but I will need to think about it carefully and look into offsetting.

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