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How can you tell if Americans are "poor"?

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flavourable · 20/07/2024 14:15

Like most of us I watch quite a bit of US drama and box sets but remain baffled about the characters based on things like the house they live in etc...

Can American audiences tell that someone is poor or rich (or in between) based on things such as house size, style of house and other things that are part of TV series?

I know (well think I do so not assuming - please correct if wrong!) that middle and working class may mean different things to UK - but can US viewers pick up more based on cultural norms and things that may need explaining to non-American audiences?

An example is I watched some episodes of True Detective and thought the house was lovely and spacious but everything else in the plot pointed to the fact that this was a "poor rundown neighbourhood with substance issues etc..."

Are there any rules of thumb? Do American audiences get confused my things like this when watching UK or European dramas?

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ForGreyKoala · 25/07/2024 04:18

mathanxiety · 25/07/2024 03:11

Class is primarily about money in the US. Class in the UK has a lot to do with caste.

I've sat in baseball stadiums eating hot dogs from the vendors with people who run law firms, banks, etc. We all stood up for the seventh inning stretch, sang the seventh inning stretch song, sat down again, and continued eating and slurping the beers bought before the stretch, from red solo cups. None of them ever made any bones about humble origins they might have had, or ignominious starts to their careers. One bank CEO started out as a repo man and had lots of interesting stories. The difference between the people I've sat with and others at baseball games is season tickets and nice seats, but they would have fit in anywhere in the stadium with their shorts and Tshirts and baseball caps and even the odd drop of mustard on their sneakers.

Yes, they can afford the sort of lifestyle many would envy - houses, trips, any car they wanted, ability to write a cheque to their children's universities and no worries about financial aid or taking out loans. But they might not give a toss about opera or the sort of furniture the Crane brothers liked.

Money buys whatever lifestyle you fancy. Nobody will turn up their nose at you because you grew up in a modest house and your parents struggled.

That's much the same in many countries. The British class system is very different to most others, and much more damaging and restrictive in my opinion.

No-one where I live would describe themselves as belonging to any class (well some would maybe, but no-one takes any notice of them!)

SuboptimusPrime · 30/07/2024 21:04

Gwenhwyfar · 22/07/2024 20:07

"There is no working class in the US, per se. Nobody uses that phraseology in daily life. There really isn’t a class system like that, or at least not one that is ever discussed. "

I've heard it used on American TV. I know they don't use it as often, but it must be used sometimes or I wouldn't have heard it, and they use middle class to mean ordinary people and upper class often just means rich rather than posh.

The closest that comes to a class system is when people talk about blue and white collar workers, the latter being supposedly lower on the ladder. Even that is debatable since a trained accredited manual laborer can expect exceptional compensation.

Wikipedia has an article that tries to disambiguate the terminology, but I still don’t hear people use the term “working class”, and I’ve rarely heard “upper class”, either. I’m sure this is for reasons of political correctness and also the lack of any defined social hierarchy, i.e. there are no lords and ladies, etc.

Papyrophile · 30/07/2024 21:22

Don't kid yourself. America has a class system as rigid as the UK's. It's not about class as understood in the UK and not just about money either. Success is more likely if you are clever with beautiful manners and charm and intelligence. Look at the Obamas for an example.

Nanaof1 · 31/07/2024 03:12

SuboptimusPrime · 30/07/2024 21:04

The closest that comes to a class system is when people talk about blue and white collar workers, the latter being supposedly lower on the ladder. Even that is debatable since a trained accredited manual laborer can expect exceptional compensation.

Wikipedia has an article that tries to disambiguate the terminology, but I still don’t hear people use the term “working class”, and I’ve rarely heard “upper class”, either. I’m sure this is for reasons of political correctness and also the lack of any defined social hierarchy, i.e. there are no lords and ladies, etc.

Actually, the former would be the "lower class", not the latter. The latter ones are who the peons (former) are supposed to admire and want to emulate.

But, you are correct that blue collar workers can earn as much as a mid-white collar worker, especially in the trades and some factories.

BubbaHoTep · 31/07/2024 03:50

Nanaof1 · 31/07/2024 03:12

Actually, the former would be the "lower class", not the latter. The latter ones are who the peons (former) are supposed to admire and want to emulate.

But, you are correct that blue collar workers can earn as much as a mid-white collar worker, especially in the trades and some factories.

Yes, I switched them around on accident.

Blue is supposedly lower than white, but we all know about labor costs for plumbers, mechanics, and I used to work in aerospace and electrical and mechanical engineers usually end up writing their own ticket, become contractors, travel the world, and retire early. I know many people in that boat. So much for being of a "lower class". 😅

knitnerd90 · 31/07/2024 04:42

Americans talk about class differently and often confusingly. In practice there's an educational divide as well as a financial one. A plumber who works his way up to owning his own business, for example, might have the same income as a well-earning professional, but there will be differences in lifestyle and class. A grad student and someone working at just over minimum wage will have a similar income, but they're also decidedly very different. The problem is that colloquially, middle class gets squashed to mean everyone from "stable working class" to "upper middle class". The very poor and the very wealthy are excluded but everyone else thinks they're middle class. But tellingly people will talk about the "upper middle class" so they're quite aware that "middle" isn't a single thing.

what social mobility in the United States is supposed to mean, I think, is that except for the very very wealthy, your class status isn't fixed in some kind of ineffable way, but by wherever you happen to be at the time. In practice, the actual mobility is less than it used to be because it's harder to climb the class ladder.

Neurodiversitydoctor · 31/07/2024 05:43

SnugglyJumpersMakeItBetter · 20/07/2024 16:44

I watched a documentary about how heavily linked poverty is with obesity in the states, due to corn syrup (?) in absolutely everything pre-prepared and fresh fruit and veg being astronomical.

This was not my experience in NYC, there are loads of stalls (? carts) selling cheap fruit and veg ( presumably either from the surrounding farm land or mexico- it was March).

knitnerd90 · 31/07/2024 06:40

That was, as I recall, a project of a previous mayor (perhaps Bloomberg?) to increase the availability of fruit & veg in poorer neighbourhoods. NYC is not too bad. The issue in NYC (and for other people as well) is more a money one. Fruit & veg are expensive on a per calorie basis and they are perishable. If your children are picky, they're a risk to buy. On top of that, if you rely on SNAP/EBT you get your payment once a month and many people stock up. There is a programme where you get 2x the value up to a certain point when you use your EBT at a farmers' market and this has been shown to help. Many poor families are also time poor and rely on easier to make foods as a result. If you are a canny shopper there are ways to get fruit & veg cheaper, but that may involve time and travel.

There is some evidence that, even when you control for these things, poverty itself is correlated with obesity. We also know more is involved because of things like the incredibly high rates of diabetes amongst Native Americans. Fresh food is definitely an issue on some reservations.

I don't think there's magical qualities to corn syrup though you'll see a lot of stories about it. I think the real issue is that corn syrup makes it very easy and cheap to add sugar. So far, we don't seem to have conclusive evidence that high fructose corn syrup is worse than beet or cane sugar. (Regular corn syrup is 100% glucose. The most common form of HFCS is 55/45, which is almost the same as regular sugar.)

The CDC data is pretty clear on the correlation itself, though it uses educational level rather than income. It's also correlated with race, with white and Asian people having lower rates, then Latino/Hispanic, and Black and Native Americans faring the worst.

Some cities are much worse on access; I recall an article on Atlanta being particularly bad in poorer neighbourhoods as it's sprawling and has poor transit.

CarolinaInTheMorning · 31/07/2024 13:02

knitnerd90 · 31/07/2024 04:42

Americans talk about class differently and often confusingly. In practice there's an educational divide as well as a financial one. A plumber who works his way up to owning his own business, for example, might have the same income as a well-earning professional, but there will be differences in lifestyle and class. A grad student and someone working at just over minimum wage will have a similar income, but they're also decidedly very different. The problem is that colloquially, middle class gets squashed to mean everyone from "stable working class" to "upper middle class". The very poor and the very wealthy are excluded but everyone else thinks they're middle class. But tellingly people will talk about the "upper middle class" so they're quite aware that "middle" isn't a single thing.

what social mobility in the United States is supposed to mean, I think, is that except for the very very wealthy, your class status isn't fixed in some kind of ineffable way, but by wherever you happen to be at the time. In practice, the actual mobility is less than it used to be because it's harder to climb the class ladder.

I think this post is a very accurate description of how we generally view class in the US. It's why politicians can talk with impunity about supporting policies to help the middle class.

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