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Divorce- is there a way to cut her out?

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cookiecrazylady · 11/07/2024 14:53

Name changed for this as very outing but long time user.

Ok so I’m looking for controversial advice.
How best to cut a spouse out of profiting on the sale of a property.

My 23yo brother is disabled and got a big payout at 18 which he used to buy a house. It’s worth £250k he met a girl and they decided to get married. All seemed perfect until she convinced him to let her take out a £50k mortgage on the property but she was working so in her name (he was a student). She swiftly spent it, I’m talking £8k earrings, £3k handbags, £4K holiday (with her friends not him)…etc the whole family were raising eyebrows at this point but nothing we could do. 3 months after the wedding she left him. He was devestated, he really loved her. Now she’s demanding £50k cash over and above the mortgage being paid off.

Brother knows he’s been stupid but he has some mild learning disabilities and I do believe she just pulled the wool over his eyes so hard. Is there any way to avoid her getting anything other than the debts/mortgage cleared?

He’s taken legal advice but they only focus on how to proceed with her requests, I suppose I’m looking for a loophole or way out for him although I suspect it doesn’t exist.

Thanks

OP posts:
Makeyourownstory · 25/07/2024 18:36

MereDintofPandiculation · 11/07/2024 15:25

Dyslexia if diagnosed is “an actual diagnosed learning disability”

This is inaccurate, if you are based in the UK. Dyslexia is a learning difficulty. See Mencap for further information.

edit - sorry failed to read all responses but seen this was discussed. I’m passionate about people recognising the difference between the two.

MereDintofPandiculation · 27/07/2024 14:26

Makeyourownstory · 25/07/2024 18:36

This is inaccurate, if you are based in the UK. Dyslexia is a learning difficulty. See Mencap for further information.

edit - sorry failed to read all responses but seen this was discussed. I’m passionate about people recognising the difference between the two.

Edited

Yes, I'd acnowledged I wads wrong on this. But dyslecia is recognised under the Disability legislation. And I'm passionate that it should be recognised as something that can have far reaching problems and isn't confined to difficulties with spelling.

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