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Why do husbands act like cxnts

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smxlly · 06/07/2024 23:57

Had a disagreement with my husband. Who is in the wrong - he seems to think it's all my fault.

Some lady made a joke with her colleague and I heard it and laughed. An he came over to speak - but was really trying to talk to my husband. Even to the point to touch his shoulder to get his attention.

He turns to me and said why did you have to laugh she came over and spoke to me. Basically blaming me and he was really pissed off at me (his ocd and doesn't like people on his personal space)

Got out of the shop and because I said it's not my fault she touched you and spoke to you, he told me to shut up and then threatens to leave me in the car park (we were a 3 mile drive from home and I am 6 weeks pregnant), he turned really nasty. He proceeds to tell me to not talk to anyone else in the future and don't make eye contact with strangers. He said I ruined our shopping trip,

I am so pissed off at him for blaming me, I told him if you felt uncomfortable you should have said something to her. I actually think I hate him (maybe it's heightened emotions or hormones) it's like walking on egg shells around him and I'm fucking sick of it.

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Alwaystired23 · 07/07/2024 09:20

I echo what others have said. This is abusive. You need to leave.

ginasevern · 07/07/2024 09:20

I would suggest not having a baby with this man. Your future will not be a good one if you do.

CleanShirt · 07/07/2024 09:25

Twilight7777 · 07/07/2024 00:46

He’s an abusive asshat, leave him! You’ll never be able to trust him not to turn on the baby.

Edit - quoted wrong post!

Choochoo21 · 07/07/2024 09:25

Why do husbands act like cxnts

They don’t, only yours does because he doesn’t like you.

You need to end the relationship asap as this won’t get any better.

I would seriously consider ending the pregnancy too.
This is not a man you want a child with.

CleanShirt · 07/07/2024 09:27

smxlly · 07/07/2024 00:38

I'm glad I'm not the only one that sees his cunty ways. I can't stand him right now.

It's not "cunty ways", it's out and out abuse. Leave now and seriously reconsider the baby.

zeibesaffron · 07/07/2024 10:38

smxlly · 07/07/2024 00:38

I'm glad I'm not the only one that sees his cunty ways. I can't stand him right now.

You now need to do something about it - are you still with him?

Abuse often starts in pregnancy and gets worse - you need to safeguard you and the baby. Please leave this prick of a man and never return!

Staringatthewalljustmeagain · 07/07/2024 12:04

You absolutely have to leave that abusive cunt. You are so vulnerable now you’re pregnant.

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