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Why does his Google history show he was at an industrial estate at night

632 replies

Nachosanddips · 06/07/2024 17:00

Last night I was on Dh’s phone-not snooping…initially at least. I was turning lullaby music off that he and our dc had fallen asleep to.
It showed the travel history of where he’d been/been driving etc. I just thought it was quite interesting at first, don’t think I have it on my phone or if I do, no idea how to access it! I started looking and it was all pretty boring-travel to work, certain shops, cafes etc, a friends house. One entry from last Sunday shows him going out in the evening driving for 30 minutes, it says here no location/location not shown. Then from around 10.30-11.30 pm, it shows a location and when I looked at it, it’s an industrial estate. This is really strange isn’t it?! Making me so paranoid, what would you make of it?

OP posts:
Tregaronableist · 29/07/2024 21:55

Nachosanddips · 29/07/2024 19:51

I found out

I hope you are ok?

Misschananderlerbongg · 29/07/2024 21:56

I hope you’re ok Op!

BlazenWeights · 29/07/2024 21:56

??

NotSoHotMess24 · 29/07/2024 21:56

Hope you are okay OP x

madameparis · 29/07/2024 21:56

Aaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnddddddddd?

Nachosanddips · 29/07/2024 21:57

Sorry was watching Love island (crap) and phone charging, not very exciting, I’m sorry, but also something that pisses me off and is quite embarrassing in his 40’s-buying weed

Sorry it wasn’t more interesting

OP posts:
minipie · 29/07/2024 21:58

Ah OP. Not ideal, could be worse. How do you feel?

Itsmecathy87 · 29/07/2024 21:59

Nachosanddips · 29/07/2024 21:57

Sorry was watching Love island (crap) and phone charging, not very exciting, I’m sorry, but also something that pisses me off and is quite embarrassing in his 40’s-buying weed

Sorry it wasn’t more interesting

I'm glad it's not exciting!
Hopefully a one off

Omlettes · 29/07/2024 22:01

Nachosanddips · 29/07/2024 21:57

Sorry was watching Love island (crap) and phone charging, not very exciting, I’m sorry, but also something that pisses me off and is quite embarrassing in his 40’s-buying weed

Sorry it wasn’t more interesting

How did you find out, did you ask in the end, what was his reaction to you checking his phone?

momager1 · 29/07/2024 22:03

@Nachosanddips I just had a look at mine out of curiosity (never looked before) 2 weeks ago I was at Jumbo (our supermarket close to the house), Yes I more than likely was as it was a monday morning at 9 am , which is my usual day and around the time to go shopping) 15 minutes later I was at the restaurant I used to own. Supermarket is in the Dominican Republic. Restaurant is in Canada. NO IDEA how that happened lol I was in the restaurant 2 months ago, my daughter is still an on call manager (she went back to her job as pharmacist, but they begged her to be on call manager on friday and sat nights. and she makes a ton! of money as she also takes a serving section so for now she is still there.

Josette77 · 29/07/2024 22:03

Buying weed sounds like a better alternative to an affair.

momager1 · 29/07/2024 22:05

momager1 · 29/07/2024 22:03

@Nachosanddips I just had a look at mine out of curiosity (never looked before) 2 weeks ago I was at Jumbo (our supermarket close to the house), Yes I more than likely was as it was a monday morning at 9 am , which is my usual day and around the time to go shopping) 15 minutes later I was at the restaurant I used to own. Supermarket is in the Dominican Republic. Restaurant is in Canada. NO IDEA how that happened lol I was in the restaurant 2 months ago, my daughter is still an on call manager (she went back to her job as pharmacist, but they begged her to be on call manager on friday and sat nights. and she makes a ton! of money as she also takes a serving section so for now she is still there.

should say.. I have two sims. One is dominican, one is canadian and I still use that one and pay as you go when I am up there.

SendNoodles · 29/07/2024 22:08

Thanks for updating. I needed the closure! 🙃

mommatoone · 29/07/2024 22:11

Thanks for updating OP. Hope you're OK.

BustyLaRoux · 29/07/2024 22:13

Not ideal, but could have been worse. Hope you’re feeling relieved. How did you find out?

JaydaVayda · 29/07/2024 22:16

I mean, thats what he told you. Weed and a blowy?!

Doubledded123 · 29/07/2024 22:21

What? Dogging and a burger

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 29/07/2024 22:25

Nice. Hope he shared it with you.

Garlickest · 29/07/2024 22:34

Thank you, OP! I'm sorry you're pissed off with him (understandably) and also glad it wasn't something more nefarious. How are things now?

OldCrocks · 29/07/2024 22:57

It took him an hour to buy weed?

He was trying to get the best price, I guess.

Toptotoe · 29/07/2024 23:22

Sunnydiary · 06/07/2024 17:08

I would drive over myself next time he falls asleep with DC and check it out.

Don’t get out of car obviously…

This - go there the same time of night and see what is there.

Nachosanddips · 29/07/2024 23:24

@OldCrocks They smoked it there apparently (him & pal)
Is it weird that I’m not even that arsed anymore?!
I believe it’s true, but is just off putting and seems a bit sad to me

OP posts:
OldCrocks · 29/07/2024 23:33

Nachosanddips · 29/07/2024 23:24

@OldCrocks They smoked it there apparently (him & pal)
Is it weird that I’m not even that arsed anymore?!
I believe it’s true, but is just off putting and seems a bit sad to me

I'd find it very sad and offputting, agreed. Sounds like he's trying to recapture his lost youth now you have a baby. Hanging around in cars smoking dope in the dark with a mate... Oh well, at least you know now.

LBFseBrom · 29/07/2024 23:34

He shouldn't be driving if he is smoking weed.

ThePearlSloth · 29/07/2024 23:38

Josette77 · 29/07/2024 22:03

Buying weed sounds like a better alternative to an affair.

Or a better excuse.

(sorry - it may well be true! But from what I know of weed smokers they don’t smoke the whole lot there and then in a car park and then drive home… and wouldn’t he smell of it…?)

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