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Do any of arch-lockdowners regret it?

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Refractory · 04/07/2024 01:12

Just that really.

I haven’t really been on MN since 2020 because I found the near complete support for lockdown far too upsetting.

the lockdowners in my life seem to not think about it much. For them, it’s just over.

with hindsight do you wish you’d been more sceptical?

would love a civil conversation about this.

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ThursdayTomorrow · 04/07/2024 18:49

Do you not remember the death rates and how the NHS was overwhelmed OP?

Beautiful3 · 04/07/2024 18:53

EverythingYouDoIsaBalloon · 04/07/2024 17:17

Glad you're having fun. Meanwhile there are people on this thread talking about the deaths of their loved ones. I'd say that was about as 'real life' as it gets. But hey, you feel free to dick about and post childish emojis if that's what floats your boat, because hey, it's not real life, right?

Well done I hope you feel better now 👏 Do you not have a life? Because you seem to enjoy talking to me a lot lately! 😄 🤣 😂

YourMommaWasASnowblower · 04/07/2024 18:56

Where oh where is the OP?

OTTOverTheHill · 04/07/2024 19:15

behindthemall · 04/07/2024 08:23

I didn’t leave my house/gardens from 23rd March to 31st May, and I would do it again in a heart beat (although I now have a dog so I’d have to do the daily walks).

In fact, I’d voluntarily sign up for it as a social media experiment if the option presented itself.

So no regrets here.

You sound quite proud of your ‘achievement’!

WitchyWay · 04/07/2024 19:25

Gogogo12345 · 04/07/2024 10:32

Obviously you are not including the people who died of other things because they couldn't get medical care as their GP wouldn't see them in person or the people who had treatments stopped " cos covid" then. Or dont they count as they didn't have covid?

They were fewer than those dying of COVID. As I said, there were no winners.

AllyCart · 04/07/2024 19:41

Butchyrestingface · 04/07/2024 18:18

Lol.

"On your scorecard, please rate your favourite Lockdowns from 1 to 5."

1 was the best by far.

godmum56 · 04/07/2024 20:04

Arraminta · 04/07/2024 10:14

We did follow the rules, begrudgingly. It shocked me how fanatical and deranged people behaved though. You assume most people are fairly normal and sensible but then you scratch their surface and underneath madness lies. Easy now to understand how the atrocities of WWII happened due to the twisted compliance of 'average' people.

COVID was only dangerous to a tiny fraction of people. Tiny. Hundreds of millions suffered in order to protect this tiny fraction and that was crazy. The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few.

if the fraction was that tiny, where did all the bodies come from?

Whatevershallidowithmylife · 04/07/2024 20:07

I stuck to the rules even though I didn't support them. I wouldn't do it again. I also hated every bloody minute of it and didn't learn how to make banana bread or anything, nor did I clap. Stresses me out majorly to think about it still,

scalt · 04/07/2024 20:09

Most of it was made up with no scientific basis. Social distancing. Masks.
Plastic barriers in shops. One way aisles. Weird rules about restaurants.
Some of the scientists have even admitted that the figure of "two metres" for social distancing was made up on the spot, with no basis in science. "Social distancing" is the mother of all oxymorons.

And Gove saying "you shouldn't go out for more than an hour": he made that figure up on the spot, it was widely quoted, and became part of lockdown legendary lore. The government made no attempt to correct the record.

So much was simply made up on the spot. The police didn't know that they were expected to enforce the nonsense until Saint Boris told the public so.

Kinshipug · 04/07/2024 20:15

godmum56 · 04/07/2024 20:04

if the fraction was that tiny, where did all the bodies come from?

Do you not understand fractions?

Singersong · 04/07/2024 20:18

YourMommaWasASnowblower · 04/07/2024 18:56

Where oh where is the OP?

Why oh why are people so concerned about the OP?

He/she is not needed at all for this discussion, as evidenced by the fact it has gone on for over 20 pages.

Soukmyfalafel · 04/07/2024 20:20

I generally followed the rules, but was equally skeptical about the extent of the later lockdowns, and did not have the vaccine as I was mainly at home even after lockdowns were lifted, and had already had COVID.

I found people shouting at other people about rules horrible, especially considering what Boris and friends got up to. That madness was almost as bad the pandemic itself and created a hostile environment when it was the last thing we needed.

Some old hags were bitching behind me in a cafe in a really nasty, bitchy way because I happened to not see an arrow on the floor and went the wrong way (I had a buggy in front of me) and I regret to say I just told them to fuck off. They deserved it. They did not have to be so nasty about it. I had not long lost a family member to COVID yet there was people like this practically wanking over the opportunity to play policeman. I do hope they feel a bit embarrassed with themselves now.

Ihopeithinkiknow · 04/07/2024 20:20

We followed it and kept ourselves hidden away for about a year and a half but my son had Cystic fibrosis so was classed as vulnerable, we had the best time though lol my son bought a pool table and we just spent proper quality time with each other. He died in an accident in 2022 aged 22 and im so so thankful that we had lockdown and we were able to spend all that time together

Gogogo12345 · 04/07/2024 20:32

WitchyWay · 04/07/2024 19:25

They were fewer than those dying of COVID. As I said, there were no winners.

My mother was one of those few. In fact on the day she died they were STILL swabbing her trying to find covid. If she had caught it in her last 2 days they would've tried putting her down as a covid death when she was dying anyway

behindthemall · 04/07/2024 20:39

OTTOverTheHill · 04/07/2024 19:15

You sound quite proud of your ‘achievement’!

No achievement. Just a homebody who enjoyed
lockdown with an anecdote relevant to the OP.

Arraminta · 04/07/2024 21:07

godmum56 · 04/07/2024 20:04

if the fraction was that tiny, where did all the bodies come from?

Erm, despite the number that died they still represented only a tiny fraction of the human population overall. Do you understand that?

Whenwillitgetwarm · 04/07/2024 21:08

Not going to read all the posts but what on earth is an ‘arch-lockdowner’? Is it someone who basically obeyed the law at the time? If so then yes I guess I’m ‘arch’. I did manage to go abroad in 2020 and 2021, just in the small windows it was permitted. I wore a mask on the plane and did my 2 metres. I followed the advice of the experts etc

Interestingly my favourite Christmas was 2020 when it was just my little family. No travelling around and forced big group shit. Just the 4 of us playing games, eating, watching movies, adults having favourite drinks, listening to music. We all got dressed up in our best clothes for dinner, then later put our trackies on. It was great. So chilled.

However, I’ve moved on and have a full life. It was a weird chapter of my life, and it’s funny to think those years will be cemented in history as a novel event, but I don’t dwell on it.

The only person know who dwells on it is my DB1 who has mental health issues and is a conspiracy theorist. He mainly stays in his room (still lives with DM in his 40s) smoking weed so may as well have stayed in lockdown anyway.

YourMommaWasASnowblower · 04/07/2024 21:28

Ihopeithinkiknow · 04/07/2024 20:20

We followed it and kept ourselves hidden away for about a year and a half but my son had Cystic fibrosis so was classed as vulnerable, we had the best time though lol my son bought a pool table and we just spent proper quality time with each other. He died in an accident in 2022 aged 22 and im so so thankful that we had lockdown and we were able to spend all that time together

Your post is both heartbreaking and heartwarming in equal measure.
Im sorry for your loss, but glad for you that you were able to embrace and enjoy that time during lockdown together.

Lockdown was a positive memory for me too and we made the best of it.

Ihopeithinkiknow · 04/07/2024 21:49

@YourMommaWasASnowblower Thank you. It would have been my sons 25th birthday tomorrow so me and my daughter are gonna get the pool table out and have a few games where I will be laughed at because I'm bloody terrible at it lol my 14 year old daughter is better than me and she holds the cue like a javelin haha

YourMommaWasASnowblower · 04/07/2024 22:17

@Ihopeithinkiknow You sound like a lovely family. I hope tomorrow is all that you want it to be and you get to reminisce about the good times you all had together. Your attitude is admirable 💐

Penguinfeet24 · 04/07/2024 22:21

Hmmm interesting one. From a selfish point of view I don't regret it because it kept me and my family safe throughout that first wave, however I see the damage it's done to the economy and the world in general and I wonder if it was worth it. Don't think I'd be saying that if I'd lost family to it though.

Winniethepig · 04/07/2024 23:44

PregnantWithHorrors · 04/07/2024 18:46

There was absolutely shitloads of science behind the legal definition of a substantial meal, I'll have you peasants know.

Still remember DH going on a pub crawl and it wasn't the pints that made him sick... it was the substantial scotch egg meals that did it. 🤦‍♀️

Willyoujustbequiet · 04/07/2024 23:46

Ponderingwindow · 04/07/2024 01:19

As someone with an extremely fragile household member, I wish people were still taking more precautions. Our lives are quite difficult because people will not stay home when they are contagious.

some days the selfishness makes me pretty angry. Everyone deserves to be a part of the world, even the medically fragile.

This.

I don't regret it at all. It saved lives.

Just a pity the government thought it was one rule for them....

Winniethepig · 04/07/2024 23:47

Dotjones · 04/07/2024 15:55

I still believe the lockdowns were far too lenient. We needed to be locked down sooner, harder, and for longer. I really enjoyed the first lockdown in particular because people observed it better and there were fewer people claiming exemptions. It was nice not to have to go out, for the street to be quiet with few cars outside. The later lockdowns were never as good.

You could still make your own lockdowns for yourself. Don't let the governments current advice on it being fine to leave your home fool you. You can create your own personal lockdown. Flowers

Gallowayan · 04/07/2024 23:51

No regrets. Lockdown was an evidence based strategy to slow down the spread of the virus until a vaccine was found. It worked saving thousands of lives. It should have been introduced earlier.

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