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Lucy Letby ( To understand)

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PassingStranger · 02/07/2024 20:11

What made her kill these babies. Been in the news again today.

It's hard to understand?
Presume as she is in prison and not a hospital, she is not mentally ill?

Will anyone try to find out, I guess if people don't admit they are guilty it's hard too.

Instead of people saying give me 5 mins in a cell with her, surely it's better to stop this happening or maybe it's not possible?
Why does she want to be one of the most hated women in the universe and not give a shit about the babies families and even her own parents?

So much better to be known for doing something nice and have people like you?
AIBU to wonder why she took this road in life?

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Mirabai · 02/07/2024 22:32

Ger1atricMillennial · 02/07/2024 21:50

I know it's not a popular opinion, but I followed the trial and some of the evidence was really problematic. I am extremely suspicious of the doctor that had his face plastered all over the media as a whole "Saviour" of the situation.

I would be concerned that there will be an enquiry into the running of the NHS trust and it will demonstrate that there were systemic issues that might throw some of these convictions into serious doubt.

There’s growing swell of deep concern about the complete lack of scientific evidence for either a. Murder/s or b. Any link with LL.

For anyone interested: the Rachel Aviv article in the New Yorker is the place to start. And the podcast: “We Need to Talk about Lucy Letby”. There is also a highly critical blog by a retired doctor here: https://jameganx.notepin.co/
Now the case is no longer sub judice I think more analysis will follow.

OperationGoldenDawn · 02/07/2024 22:33

there was a criminal profiler i believe im not sure who was that said something similar to you could be good and no one will remember your name, but do something omg and you will gain infamy and make the history books @PassingStranger

Mirabai · 02/07/2024 22:35

IdisagreeMrHochhauser · 02/07/2024 22:24

Two of the babies were given insulin when there was no medical need for it. That's not incompetence. Or if it was that's incredibly incompetent to a level of manslaughter by gross negligence. She was the only nurse present for every single suspicious death that made it as far as court.

Some of the babies were bruised and bleeding from tubes shoved down their throats.

This wasn't an incompetent nurse.

There’s actually no evidence they were given insulin. That’s simply inference made from the insulin vs c peptide levels. There are other explanations which were not given to the court.

OperationGoldenDawn · 02/07/2024 22:35

ByNavyOtter · 02/07/2024 22:30

Sorry to clarify I and my friends are in a similar position- it's not meant to insult, I love my life but I'm trying to say that's the difference between a normal person and someone like her where she would've expected to amount to something of a massive, phenomenal scale hence being the hero in some of the awful situations described. I meant it wasn't enough for her and for someone like that it never would be.

i guess would something be like eg most would be happy with a eg 1st from an average university, but to some they would think omg i want a 1st from oxford to feel i have achieved something ?

Tunnocksandtablet · 02/07/2024 22:36

TheGander · 02/07/2024 22:06

@Tunnocksandtablet that story about your relative is interesting, although of course rather sad . As a healthcare professional I am sure I have come across people deploying similar strategies, maybe to give themselves a sense of importance and validated grievance. I can’t help thinking that if we didn’t have a supportive welfare state, they wouldn’t be pulling these stunts.

It’s possible, of course. But I think if my family member was struck out of the NHS the crowdfunding for expensive interventions would actually feed the beast. She has a dipped her toes in that area already.

theDudesmummy · 02/07/2024 22:39

Lack of capacity and being detained in hospital are two completely separate things.

QuillBill · 02/07/2024 22:39

Correct me if I am wrong, but didn't she have nothing in her life, no boyfriend, husband, girlfriend or kids or pets, NADA - just work?

This isn't the case at all, she had loads of friends. From school, from university and from work. Sone of their texts were read out in the trial.

She had her own home and a decent job like lots of women her age. Not having a husband and children is normal at that age when you you have been to university.

mrlistersgelfbride · 02/07/2024 22:39

I think it was because deep down that she felt she would or could never be a parent or have a happy relationship (see doctor affair) that she decided to do what she did.
Also agree about the drama it would have created and given her attention that she craved from the doctor.
I will never understand.
I know people won't agree with this...but I feel sorry for her parents to be honest. She was their only child, obviously a clever woman who could have had a fruitful happy life.
Terribly sad.

QuillBill · 02/07/2024 22:40

Also she had two cats.

KomodoOhno · 02/07/2024 22:43

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bottleofbeer · 02/07/2024 22:45

Lack of capacity has EVERYTHING to do with being detained under the mental health act. It is literally the foundation of the decision to detain.

PossumintheHouse · 02/07/2024 22:46

The fact is there is nothing to explain her behaviour. You could speculate until you're blue in the face, but there is nothing you could definitively say. It sounds shit and simple, but that's pretty much it.

IdisagreeMrHochhauser · 02/07/2024 22:49

Two medical experts testified that insulin injected into the feed bags would have given the results found. Even Lucy Letby agreed they'd been given insulin. She just denied it was by her. If her defence team couldn't find a medical expert willing to give a more plausible explanation then I pay more heed to that than internet conspiracists.

PassingStranger · 02/07/2024 22:49

mrlistersgelfbride · 02/07/2024 22:39

I think it was because deep down that she felt she would or could never be a parent or have a happy relationship (see doctor affair) that she decided to do what she did.
Also agree about the drama it would have created and given her attention that she craved from the doctor.
I will never understand.
I know people won't agree with this...but I feel sorry for her parents to be honest. She was their only child, obviously a clever woman who could have had a fruitful happy life.
Terribly sad.

The stupid thing is the attention from the doctor would have been shortlived.
He now couldn't give a shit about her and she won't ever see him again.

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OperationGoldenDawn · 02/07/2024 22:49

PossumintheHouse · 02/07/2024 22:46

The fact is there is nothing to explain her behaviour. You could speculate until you're blue in the face, but there is nothing you could definitively say. It sounds shit and simple, but that's pretty much it.

actually there is quite a bit of research in why seemingly good people do bad things etc

Tunnocksandtablet · 02/07/2024 22:51

ilovesushi · 02/07/2024 22:23

I find it impossible to fathom, but that does give some insight into a possible mindset that could lead down that road. What I don't understand is what happened to these people (LLs) to turn out that way. Did no one spot the escalating strange behaviours? Why did no one intervene?

The strange behaviours are just strange, inconsequential in my limited experience of one. You just think a bit of an oddbod to begin with, then they get a bit more and a bit bigger. And then things you feel you should believe don’t really add up but they’re not enough to challenge, they’re just about could be true, maybe some of them are true but which ones? As I said, my example harms herself not others, but I can sort of see how a situation like this could snowball into something very horrible with all the bystanders wondering at what point they should’ve realised

OperationGoldenDawn · 02/07/2024 22:51

This is a good book to begin with

Lucy Letby ( To understand)
Tunnocksandtablet · 02/07/2024 22:54

Username1010 · 02/07/2024 22:05

Have any of her family spoken to medical people re faking being ill? Esp when she was a teen and she was in their care?

No. But therein lies a whole other can of worms. Could take over this thread unpicking the family dynamics.

Username1010 · 02/07/2024 22:58

Tunnocksandtablet · 02/07/2024 22:54

No. But therein lies a whole other can of worms. Could take over this thread unpicking the family dynamics.

I’m interested because I suspect a young person I know is similar. I am guessing the young needs psychological help.

PadstowGirl · 02/07/2024 22:59

ByNavyOtter · 02/07/2024 20:38

Dont know but I suspect her being a pathetic loser who would never amount to anything and knowing it probably played a little bit of a part

I don't understand what you mean by this? Why are you saying that she never achieved anything or would amount to anything? She was a qualified NICU nurse. She had supportive and loving parents. She ostensibly had a good career and life ahead of her.
Instead she chose to murder babies, we need to work out what went wrong to try to prevent this happening ever again.

Demonhunter · 02/07/2024 23:00

Psychopathy isn't a mental illness but a mental disorder that isn't treatable/preventable and can present differently in different people and therefore can be hard to detect. That's what many of these serial killers clearly have.

Twolittleloves · 02/07/2024 23:01

5128gap · 02/07/2024 20:34

She may not be hospitalised because she may not be thought to benefit from medical intervention, but I struggle to see how she could be judged to be of sound mind. Mentally and emotionally healthy people do not murder multiple babies for no apparant gain other than the pleasure of power or attention. I don't believe in 'pure evil'. It's a vague religious concept not a human condition. Human beings commit evil deeds. Where they do so for no apparant reason, there is something broken and twisted in their minds.

Yes I never understand the whole divide about whether people are 'mentally unwell' or not in criminal cases.....anyone who was mentally sane and sound would never dream of committing murder.
I think it lets alot of people off the hook when you start bringing all that into it (eg; the Nottingham murders)
If someone commits a serious crime, whatever their situation, they need to pay the price.
I'm very glad they haven't gone down the mental health path with Letby, or she would probably wouldn't have been receiving the harsh sentence and treatment she deserves (although personally I think the death penalty is the suitable treatment for people like her)

I do feel for the parents in the sense that she was their only, seemingly beloved child and she has turned into a monster....how do you ever move on from and come to terms with that....it sounds like they were (as far as we know) decent people who tried their best as parents.They were in denial for way too long though...it was an insult to those parents of the babies how they seemed to stand by Letby, despite the evidence being undeniable.

CountFucula · 02/07/2024 23:02

Confused by posts speculating on this outcome - she was pretty much caught in the act. No way she’s innocent - as the jury previously and today have concluded.

edited for better punctuation!

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