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Neighbour outside pressure washing in his back yard

97 replies

alwaysraining123 · 26/06/2024 21:05

At 9pm on a school night. Live in a terraced house. Kids trying to get to sleep but balmy night anyway. What do you think?

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Demonhunter · 26/06/2024 22:27

garlictwist · 26/06/2024 21:23

My neighbour is playing the drums with the windows open. I am trying to read in the garden and I feel incandescent with rage! (But too English to do anything about it).

About 15 years ago I had a neighbour who played instruments so loud in the evenings in the summer. He seemed to switch instruments every week! I started posting a weekly facebook post with Instrument of the week, with people guessing what it was by clues. Only way I could stop myself kicking off!

Beamur · 26/06/2024 22:31

It might not be illegal but it would drive me insane.

WalkingaroundJardine · 26/06/2024 22:31

Stick your head over with a look of (faux) concern and ask “is everything OK? I was in bed and heard the noise from from your yard and thought I should check.”

So hopefully he will feel a bit embarrassed and get the point that it created a disturbance.

Mynaddmawr · 26/06/2024 22:33

I think that's rude and can understand why you're annoyed. I never do noisy jobs (especially outside!) after 7ish because I live in a terrace and its antisocial. I would politely mention it next time you see him, something like, sorry to bring this up but I think you probably don't realise how loud the pressure washing was the other night, would you mind doing it a bit earlier in future so it doesn't keep the kids up. Hopefully he's just been a bit thoughtless and if you mention it it won't happen again 😊

LetsHopeSo · 26/06/2024 22:34

I'm on holiday in Europe, a large group of teenagers from a Northern European country came to this hotel and apartment resort a couple of days ago for a festival.
They have been noisy, disrespectful, above our apartments are shouting, scraping chairs etc. I have given them a few death stares but it has made them worse. Considering we are an hour ahead here, would IBU to tell them all to shut the f**k up??!!

ButWhatAboutTheBees · 26/06/2024 22:36

Noise restrictions are its fine until 10pm
Which means that's considered a fair time

LetsHopeSo · 26/06/2024 22:36

So in response to your question OP, if it hasn't stopped by now I would be dropping hints to him about how long it's going to last although I'm not good with confrontation!

ISeriouslyDoubtIt · 26/06/2024 22:40

Janehasamane · 26/06/2024 21:58

But that’s not considerate, it’s selfish, you think others should not do what they wish so you don’t get disturbed. It’s the definition of selfishness.

No it's not! Being considerate is thinking of others when deciding to do a particular thing, and not doing it if it might disturb others, even if it's most convenient to you to do it at that time.
Being selfish is doing something that is likely disturb others eg pressure washing at 9pm, but not giving a shit and doing it anyway.

alwaysraining123 · 26/06/2024 22:40

Thanks all, he stopped about 10ish. Still pottering in the garden though in the dark. He’s obviously a night owl. Ps he just moved in.

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alwaysraining123 · 26/06/2024 22:43

ISeriouslyDoubtIt · 26/06/2024 22:40

No it's not! Being considerate is thinking of others when deciding to do a particular thing, and not doing it if it might disturb others, even if it's most convenient to you to do it at that time.
Being selfish is doing something that is likely disturb others eg pressure washing at 9pm, but not giving a shit and doing it anyway.

Agree completely. I have a pressure washer too and restrict when I use it. We normally wait until our neighbours go out!

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brunettemic · 26/06/2024 22:45

What a ridiculous question. He’s in his garden and it’s hardly late. Just how far away from a house with children do you have to be these days to make any noise whatsoever?

OperationGoldDawn · 26/06/2024 23:01

alwaysraining123 · 26/06/2024 21:19

It’s obviously worse because we have all our windows open trying to cool the house down.

if you want it cool usually its better to keep all windows closed and curtains closed to stop the heat

alwaysraining123 · 26/06/2024 23:05

OperationGoldDawn · 26/06/2024 23:01

if you want it cool usually its better to keep all windows closed and curtains closed to stop the heat

I guess until the air temp is cooler outside then it’s time to open the windows (unless someone is pressure washing 😂)

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NotSoSimpleHere · 26/06/2024 23:06

alwaysraining123 · 26/06/2024 22:43

Agree completely. I have a pressure washer too and restrict when I use it. We normally wait until our neighbours go out!

The thing is that pressure washing isn't something that happens that often, so I'd just deal with it. It's not like it's every day.

Our neighbour has acquired an annoying daily habit. I'm buying a speaker so I can cover the noise with radio. Normally I wouldn't have audible music from my property but they can hardly object since they've made it necessary.

OperationGoldDawn · 26/06/2024 23:07

alwaysraining123 · 26/06/2024 23:05

I guess until the air temp is cooler outside then it’s time to open the windows (unless someone is pressure washing 😂)

that too, people can be omg at times

Summertimer · 26/06/2024 23:10

It’s fine, but I wouldn’t call it a ‘back yard’ in the UK unless you have some kind of Victorian terrace like in Corrie

krystalweedon · 26/06/2024 23:13

My neighbour loves his pressure washer and is out there with it any excuse. it is effing annoying. But he is lovely in all other ways, so I put up with it. He never does it past around 8pm tbf.

FeelingHotHotHotFeelingHotHotHot · 26/06/2024 23:15

alwaysraining123 · 26/06/2024 21:05

At 9pm on a school night. Live in a terraced house. Kids trying to get to sleep but balmy night anyway. What do you think?

STARTING pressure washing at 9pm is a dickhead thing to do. YANBU. It is a very annoying noise.

alwaysraining123 · 26/06/2024 23:16

Summertimer · 26/06/2024 23:10

It’s fine, but I wouldn’t call it a ‘back yard’ in the UK unless you have some kind of Victorian terrace like in Corrie

Edited

😂 I am from Manchester

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Tumbleweed101 · 26/06/2024 23:34

I wouldn't be impressed either and none of my household are trying to sleep yet.

However, this week I've found that time has been weird and it feels much earlier than it actually is. I think everyone is making up for lost time after all the wet weather we've had.

I'd be reluctant to complain about that kind of thing as they are unlikely to be an ongoing noise issue. I'd always be more worried about adult socialising noise in the evening such as loud music and hot tubs etc.

Winnits · 26/06/2024 23:36

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the2andahalfmillion · 26/06/2024 23:46

mm that’s quite late for what is a noisy appliance but give the guy a chance, maybe he has folk coming round tomorrow evening or something for a housewarming and wants it all looking nice. Incidentally when my kids were ages between about 3 and 7 they thought it was a great ruse to complain about environmental noise preventing them from going to sleep. And then miraculously they turned 8 and … comatose logs.

OperationGoldDawn · 26/06/2024 23:49

Summertimer · 26/06/2024 23:10

It’s fine, but I wouldn’t call it a ‘back yard’ in the UK unless you have some kind of Victorian terrace like in Corrie

Edited

there are many Victorian terraces, across the country

ageratum1 · 27/06/2024 00:01

In our area the council say the hours of quiet are 11pm to 7a, I dont think you can expect them to be quiet ay 9.30 pm!!

ZenNudist · 27/06/2024 00:03

I couldn't get worked up about this for a one off...