I've recently bought my first house by myself after renting and saving for years. It's a 2 bed terraced house, so by no means a mansion but it's perfect for me and I'm very happy here. It took me years to be able to afford to buy my own home and I'm actually really proud of myself.
My cousin who I'm very close to (no siblings so kind of like a sister) has been making strange comments since I moved in. For example, like a lot of terraced houses, the bathroom is downstairs and she said the other day she couldn't live in a house with that layout. She also mentioned about how the front door opens directly into the living room which apparently doesn't feel safe

and that there isn't any parking and she wouldn't live somewhere without a driveway.
Fair enough, the comments aren't about my house specifically (I don't think), more about terraced houses in general but it just feels a bit, I don't know, bitchy I guess?
I'd love a 5 bed house with multiple bathrooms and a huge driveway but I can't afford that and so I had to buy something within my budget. I also think my house is a lovely first time buyer home. I don’t like using the word “jealous” but that’s how it’s coming across. I know she’s wanted to buy her own house for a long time so maybe she’s disappointed that she’s not in that position yet, but she does prioritise other things though, such as holidays twice a year as where I haven’t been abroad since 2018. There’s nothing wrong with that but most people can’t have everything.
I’m not going to mention it as I don’t want to cause a huge family row, but I do feel quite sad that she’s not happy for me. That’s how it’s coming across anyway and I thought we were really close. I guess I just wanted to vent.