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Need perspective on money situation for a 54 year old

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Moneysitu · 21/06/2024 21:48

Would love opinions please on where I’m at financially. I have friends who are far better off (and boast!) but I feel ok.

house worth about £330k, mortgage £28k
savings £21k
shares worth £9k
car worth £3k

I am a 54 year old female, no dependents as my kids have left home.

OP posts:
Dartwarbler · 22/06/2024 14:17

mynameiscalypso · 21/06/2024 21:50

What about your pension?

At 54 this is one of most important questions!
funny how she missed it off🤦‍♀️
Op, save into your pension as much as possible at your age. Government currently gives tax incentives that’ll outweigh overpaying mortgage for instance.

£900 per month for pension is crap. Sorry but it is. you’ll not be able to retire early on that and will have to wait for 67-69 and state pension . or you’ll be retiring early and using state benefits to top up to a livable income. No one can live on £10800per year- it’s less than a state pension where people struggle.

If it’s a final salary pension think very hard about taking lump sum tax free - it may well be better to forgo that for defined pension paid month with inflationary increments - lump sums can be eroded with inflation or poor stock market performances. A pot of £70k put in a bank will give you around an additional £2500-£3000 per year give or take depending on economics. Once your income goes above personal allowance (which after a few years it will unless next government does away with quantitative easing) It will be taxed on interest till you get it into ISA. if you invest it in share it’ll be also subject to capital gains and dividends tax until you get it into ISAs. You need to do all the maths .

but I think you’re massively under estimating what you need to live on

do you actually have a budget of what you spend for the year? Of so how does that stack up on £10800

Dartwarbler · 22/06/2024 14:25

Moneysitu · 22/06/2024 09:24

I was sending extra to mortgage, but have now diverted that to my ISA, because the mortgage is fixed at 1.54% and the ISA rate is 4.6%. The mortgage deal ends in November 2026, and I'm hoping to just pay it off then.

If I leave the pension till I'm 60, it will give me £1150pm and lump sum £95k, but to be honest I might wait till I'm 65. Depends how I feel, I guess.

I am married. DH is 3 years younger than me, but is definitely retiring at 55, because the job he is in, is VERY stressful, with a horrible shift pattern and a long commute. He is making life or death decisions every day, and has been for the last 20 years, he just can't take doing any more than the next 3 years in that role.

I was married previously, and took a huge financial hit in the divorce. None of my friends have been divorced, so are better off. Many of my female friends are already retired at 55 and are having a great time.

Re income/savings, we spend a lot on holidays. And I should have said that in the winter time, my income drops to about £3k, so my summer income has to support that drop, iyswim.

Both kids went to Uni, and I supported them through those years, so was hard to save much then.

Had many years after divorce where my income did not cover the bills, so I ended up with loads of credit card debt and a huge mortgage. Have spent lots of years paying all that off and getting the mortgage down, so there wasn't much, if anything going to savings for quite a while!

Hang on, a lot of drip feed shit going on here.

Whybother posting if you’re going to say oh, I’m married and not living on my own (which I took first message to mean), and I’m on an income of £5k per month aka £60k salary at higher rate tax band

pay more into your pension- even over paying your mortgage is not going to get you 40% return the government will give you in tax return. Build up pension pot fast with with tax relief whilst it’s still available (before labour reduce to 20%?) and then take as lump sum on retirement to pay off mortgage. The mortgage you’re paying on taxed income at 5-7% (?). Just doesn’t stack up now at your age. Use pension tax benefits whilst they’re still a thing.

Heronwatcher · 22/06/2024 14:28

I don’t think it sounds bad at all but I think what I’d be doing in your situation is work out what income you’ll need/ want going into retirement (including bills, expenses, holidays etc) and then make a plan to achieve that. Otherwise you might find that the drop in income as and when you do retire is quite drastic. If you save now (maybe think about reducing holidays) maybe you could, for example, buy an investment property and supplement your income then?

I also think you need to think about your new partner and his plans to retire early- it sounds sensible given his job but what will his income be? And will he be able to make an equal financial contribution going forward, or will you basically be paying for his holidays etc for the rest of your lives? Quite apart from the finances is he going to be occupied and busy when he retires too?

SeatonCarew · 22/06/2024 14:44

TheHateIsNotGood · 21/06/2024 23:13

Honestly if so many think retiring at under 65 is their aim then there's going to be shitloads of bored, irritated, grumpy people not having enough to do.

There's only so many holidays/breaks you can take and measures to avert the inevitable age-related 'physical declines' to overcome and possibly a few GC to look after whilst their parents (your own dc) struggle to pay their rent.

But carry on regardless and think that over 55 is well past the post for retiring when so many can't even now consider retiring before 67 or later.

Well you can clean up your own shit because no one else will be available to do it for you once you become too decrepit to do it for yourselves. I'm 62ish.

Just to add a touch of balance, I'm retired, similar sort of age, and typing this from my little house in Spain where I spend half the year. We're having an absolute blast, thanks for caring. 🌴🌞😊

Moneysitu · 22/06/2024 14:52

Dartwarbler A lot of advice there, some of which I don't understand. I've never really understood my pension. My friend is a financial advisor, and I had planned to make an appointment with her when I turned 55. I'm wondering whether I should maybe do that sooner rather than later? I'm not even sure whether I can make payments into my Pension? I was in a job for 27 years, which I left when I was 43. That's who my pension is with. I haven't paid anything into my pension since then. Kind of wishing I had now, but honestly there was no spare money for a long time. I could have afforded to, for the last 5 years or so, but didn't.

OP posts:
Dishwashersaurous · 22/06/2024 15:14

So you haven't been paying into a pension for over a decade?

What sort of pension is it? Defined benefit or defined contribution?

What you need to know is what your pension will be when you retire, so at say 65.

Dishwashersaurous · 22/06/2024 15:15

If you are employed then your employer is legally required to automatically enrol you into a pension and make contributions.

You really need to start trying to make more contributions now

Georgieporgie29 · 22/06/2024 15:19

SpindarellaRockafella · 21/06/2024 23:18

I think you might benefit from an independent financial advisor. Someone who can steer you re risk at your time of life and make sure you’re making the most of tax allowances. They can also help you plan for your future. I use someone from sr james place so you could look there. Ensure they are independent and also fully registered and offer full protections etc.

Just fyi St James Place are not independent and are generally not recommend on here by people in the industry.

blueshoes · 22/06/2024 15:26

Dishwashersaurous · 22/06/2024 15:15

If you are employed then your employer is legally required to automatically enrol you into a pension and make contributions.

You really need to start trying to make more contributions now

This.

How are you getting your 5000 monthly income? If it is via paid employment, your employer is required to auto-enrol you into a pension unless you opted out. Pension is one of the most tax efficient ways to save.

blueshoes · 22/06/2024 15:31

Georgieporgie29 · 22/06/2024 15:19

Just fyi St James Place are not independent and are generally not recommend on here by people in the industry.

I agree. SJP have high fees that eat into your returns and a not very transparent charging structure. Generally stay away.

GymBergerac · 22/06/2024 15:40

It's hard to comment because it's all relative...
I'm your age and DH and I each earn less than £30k a year. Three adult kids have moved away. Rented house, no assets or savings, and half a dozen shabby pensions that need to be combined but which won't allow me to retire.
So in comparison to me and anyone in my situation, it looks like you're well set up.... But then against folks earning daft money it's a different matter. I'd feel a lot more confident in your position!

rookiemere · 22/06/2024 17:46

The lump sum can be used to increase income for the years before state pension kicks in.
I'm hoping to retire at 60 and that's what I am planning to do.

rookiemere · 22/06/2024 17:48

If you are self employed you can open up a person pension straight away, I have one with Hargreaves Lansdown.Even if you keep it all in cash instead of shares, you'll not have to pay tax on the money that goes in so it's an instant 40% savings and due to your age, it's pretty flexible when you want to take it out.

NasiDagang · 22/06/2024 18:20

Galatine · 21/06/2024 22:14

Stealth boast warning!

Looks like it!!

Mainoo72 · 22/06/2024 19:00

It’s not a bad position, but your pension is really poor. Surely you’ll need a lot more than that a month? I’d focus on building up your pension as much as you can, especially if you want to retire early.

rainbowunicorn · 22/06/2024 19:21

NasiDagang · 22/06/2024 18:20

Looks like it!!

Comments like this just make you look very childish. This is a forum for adults. People should be able to come on and discuss money, finances, pensions and investments without it being a race to the bottom.

Moneysitu · 23/06/2024 12:14

So, if I leave the pension until I'm 65, it pays out £18k per annum (£1300 pm), plus a lump sum of £122k. Or obviously more per annum if I don't take the lump sum. Is that bad? I thought it was really good! Bear in mind I will have savings and no mortgage. Outgoings would be £1k plus food. DH's pension about £1000 per month, I think.

I'm self employed. Yeah, not paid into pension for the last 11 years. Feel a bit silly about that, but there was no spare cash until maybe 3 years ago, due to clearing debt, putting kids through Uni etc.

OP posts:
greencartbluecart · 23/06/2024 13:05

18k plus state pension plus money for big items ( new bathroom , stairlift, help around the home ) is fine

ThatVoodooThatYouDoooo · 23/06/2024 13:07

Moneysitu · 22/06/2024 07:44

I’m not taking my pension for another ten years probably! So it will be more if I leave it untouched.

monthly income about £5k
outgoings £2k

So what is your question / issue???

You have a spare £3k a MONTH!?

Livinghappy · 23/06/2024 15:18

@ Moneysitu could you live on 18k now?

I assume you will have a state pension at 67

Toddler101 · 23/06/2024 15:19

MidnightPatrol · 21/06/2024 22:22

whether or not your personal financial situation is good, is down to whether it not you can meet your needs / ambitions.

Your mortgage is easy to pay off. You seem comfortable with your retirement savings.

That sounds like a good situation, if you are happy with it.

Agree!

Heronwatcher · 27/06/2024 11:39

Yes agree- how would your life be on 18k a year (plus state pension now). I’d be doing a proper budget to work out how much is going to go on essentials and then whether you have “extra” to pay for things like holidays, days out etc. Petsonally I don’t think it’s bad but I do imagine that your life will perhaps be quite different?

Also what are you going to do with your lump sum- around me if you invested that in a property you could generate a rental income of maybe £800 a month and the value of the property is likely to rise but if you do that and don’t have other savings what would you do if you needed a new car, or boiler etc?

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