I was sending extra to mortgage, but have now diverted that to my ISA, because the mortgage is fixed at 1.54% and the ISA rate is 4.6%. The mortgage deal ends in November 2026, and I'm hoping to just pay it off then.
If I leave the pension till I'm 60, it will give me £1150pm and lump sum £95k, but to be honest I might wait till I'm 65. Depends how I feel, I guess.
I am married. DH is 3 years younger than me, but is definitely retiring at 55, because the job he is in, is VERY stressful, with a horrible shift pattern and a long commute. He is making life or death decisions every day, and has been for the last 20 years, he just can't take doing any more than the next 3 years in that role.
I was married previously, and took a huge financial hit in the divorce. None of my friends have been divorced, so are better off. Many of my female friends are already retired at 55 and are having a great time.
Re income/savings, we spend a lot on holidays. And I should have said that in the winter time, my income drops to about £3k, so my summer income has to support that drop, iyswim.
Both kids went to Uni, and I supported them through those years, so was hard to save much then.
Had many years after divorce where my income did not cover the bills, so I ended up with loads of credit card debt and a huge mortgage. Have spent lots of years paying all that off and getting the mortgage down, so there wasn't much, if anything going to savings for quite a while!