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To think I did nothing wrong?

56 replies

starostaa · 21/06/2024 15:17

Friend introduced me to two of her friends around 6 years ago and we’ve done loads of things as a four since then, I’d consider them friends and not “friend of a friend”.

I had a spare ticket to a gig last week and I invited one of them as I didn’t want to go alone and I knew she liked that music.

Original friend has messaged to say she’s upset. She doesn’t even like the band (don’t think she dislikes them but) and said I should have asked her first.

OP posts:
lemonsaretheonlyfruit · 21/06/2024 17:21

@LonginesPrime

Thank-you. Exactly that.

SmellsLikeMiddleAgeSpirit · 21/06/2024 17:28

That’s a little bit different though, @lemonsaretheonlyfruit : the length of your respective friendships is a bit of a red herring in your case; it’s more that you’re being left out of some fun opportunities when you it appears you’d need and appreciate it more. I can see that that would hurt, even if your friends aren’t doing anything “wrong”.

Aria999 · 21/06/2024 17:31

That's weird. You made friends with someone you met through her, now they are also your friend and you asked them to socialize with you. That's pretty normal.

Noseybookworm · 21/06/2024 17:34

Is your friend 5? Tell her to grow up 🙄

Wills890 · 21/06/2024 17:54

KellyJonesLeatherTrousers · 21/06/2024 15:20

I can see why she’s upset to be honest, I think I would be.

Why?? Are you 5...? People can have other friends.

TwattyMcFuckFace · 21/06/2024 18:01

You did nothing wrong OP.

You've been friends with the woman you invited for 6 years.

Your original friend is just that, not your pimp!

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