No one wants to leave their child at risk from measles, or anyone else's child. I had it, I was hospitalized with it [as a young adolescent when it can be much more serious.]
However, the Cochrane report, the government's own post Wakefield study into MMR safety, concluded that there was insufficient evidence either for or against to prove MMR was safe. This was hailed by the media as conclusive proof that MMR was safe, as few journalists actually bothered to read the whole report, if you want to talk about believing hype and propoganda.
Wakefield's hypothesis was that only a very small subset of children are at risk from MMR, he never said that MMR was risky for the majority of children. So we are talking about MMR causing maybe 7% of all autism cases, a percentage which can be hidden in large scale statistical studies.
Now, the government, and many people here perhaps, feel a small number of children devastated for life by the MMR is a risk worth taking for the greater good of public health. Why does it have to be either/or? No one wants to risk having their career and character destroyed by continuing research into MMR safety, post Wakefield. So the research is not being done. It is rather flippant to say, ah well, autism does not kill. It can severely handicap a child who otherwise may have had a normal life - having to witness that tragedy every day must be extremely painful.
I'm sorry, but i think it is disingenuos of people to say they gave their dc MMR not just for their own safety, but for the safety of public health. If you knew your child had medical issues which made MMR more risky for that individual child, I don't believe you would go ahead and do it anyway, for the sake of public health. There is a little bit of research being done out there, when parents are abandoned by their gps and local consultants, and their child is suffering, that can help you make the right decision, or help you post MMR to give an affected child the best chance of improvement. But it is hard to find. If your child or a child you knew was the one damaged by the MMR, even if that child was one only a few hundred in the population, you may have a different attitude towards the whole debate.
Ironically if the government and medical insitution had not been so furious that their status quo had been challenged, and had listened to parents whose chidren had been damaged [and the few doctors brave enough to back them up] we may now hae been in a better situation for the whole of public health.