How the hell do you get one ( My DS has been rejected. He's 4, non verbal, can't use the toilet, according to nursery assessment he has the social and emotional development of a child half his age. He struggles with changes or different routines. He recently had a settle at school and would not enter the area where the other children were meaning one of the TAs had to stay with him but apparently some shit expert pannel have decided he will be fine.
I'm clearing going to have to delay his start date as no way will he cope with no support.
Nursery applied for the EHCP but we fully backed them. Everyone, Senco, doctor, speech and language therapist were convinced he'd be accepted first time.
I can't work out how to appeal or if I have to pay or how much.
I'm exhausted and nursery put so much in to applying for it. I don't know what to do and keep crying.
How much worse does he need to be to get help? Anyone appealed successfully (the %l looked low on the website)?