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How much would you pay for this bouquet?

239 replies

Disappointedflowers · 12/06/2024 11:34

I ordered a bouquet online to be sent to my DP's and my DM sent me a picture of them to say thank you.
I was extremely disappointed considering what I had spent and said so. Only then did my DM say that she hadn't thought they weren't all that thinking I had probably spent £x amount to which I then said I spent considerably more.
She did say that there was also a hydrangea head that didn't really go with the rest of the arrangement, so she put that elsewhere, and a ridiculous amount of foliage, some of which she used in another bunch of flowers she received and the rest ended up in the green bin as it was too much.
I'd really appreciate some thoughts from you lovely bunch (see what I did there! 😜) as to what you think I should have been charged for these flowers? 🙏🏻

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Puzzledandpissedoff · 12/06/2024 20:11

The reason they get away with this is people don’t want to say they got rubbish flowers and just say thanks!

Yes, this too - heaven help me I've done it myself, while feeling awful about what the giver must have spent

And though true professionals "condition" their flowers, those three pink roses look a bit worn to me, with some wrinkled outer petals looking as if they're starting to discolour

Beachcomber74 · 12/06/2024 20:19

Go M&S or Bloom & Wild next time

Beastieboys · 12/06/2024 20:20

M&S had an arrangement similar to this for about £30 last week

Bowies · 12/06/2024 20:26

They look very high quality and fresh and should last well, but agree I would have expected more stems, particularly roses, for what you paid.

Lordofmyflies · 12/06/2024 20:26

I'd pay max £25 plus delivery. I normally get Arena flowers delivered and pay £25 and there's usually 5 roses, 5 Lillies etc, filler flowers, and foliage. I'd send them an email if that was £70.

wilteddandelion · 12/06/2024 20:30

Maybe £75 in its entirety but it's hard to tell if she's truly chucked most of it out

MillyHilly99 · 12/06/2024 20:37

I'd also say around £30-40

nocoolnamesleft · 12/06/2024 20:44

That arrangement would look a lot nicer, and more expensive, with some taller foliage behind the blooms, framing them. But I guess that's what went in the bin.

OhTediosity · 12/06/2024 21:41

Disappointedflowers · 12/06/2024 11:53

What she threw out was a whole bunch of leaves. I don't think charging £20 extra for filler foliage is really on!

Not all ‘filler foliage’ is cheap. If it was something like eucalyptus there could easily be £30’s worth sitting in the green bin!

AnotherCountryMummy · 12/06/2024 21:56

I don't mean to be offensive, but it looks like something I buy from Sainsburys for £20.

Ifyoucouldreadmymindlove · 12/06/2024 22:13

Disappointedflowers · 12/06/2024 11:51

£70. Plus delivery.

Complain. Jesus. Thats awful.

Mumwithbaggage · 12/06/2024 22:16

She hasn't displayed them very well but that's still a lot of money!

Ilovemyshed · 12/06/2024 22:29

JurassicFantastic · 12/06/2024 11:40

Actually maybe more than £50 now I look at it properly. There's about a dozen roses there plus other flowers and the hydrangea.

There are three roses. The rest are lisianthus

PeonyAndBlushSuede · 12/06/2024 22:33

Disappointedflowers · 12/06/2024 11:51

£70. Plus delivery.

That’s crazy!

They look like a supermarket bouquet that you can get from Tesco/Morrisons.

Willyoujustbequiet · 12/06/2024 22:37

I can't understand anyone saying £60!

That would be £25-£30 where I live.

Cleansheetsandacuppa · 12/06/2024 22:39

£70!
I always wonder if I could bung a bunch from a nice independent flower shop in a box and post it myself! Might try one day soon.
had similar with a birthday cake, mil. Wanted to get posh from a delivery place, it was a agin, a million pounds, dry and yuk. Much better off with a chocolate birthday cake from lidl with extra smarties/ fruit on the top. And she’d have about 30.

LizzieBennett73 · 12/06/2024 22:42

My Mum is a florist and Brexit has nearly destroyed their trade. It's a nightmare getting the flowers in from Holland and prices have trebled. Even foliage is £3/£4 a stem for a lot of it and is often more expensive than flowers. Roses can be anything up to £4 a stem, lilies up to £6. Wholesale prices. Add in the preparation, storage, arranging into a bouquet, then delivering - she is barely scraping by.

I would have got your Mum a hand tied bouquet then she could have just put it on display.

Cleansheetsandacuppa · 12/06/2024 22:44

Sorry to hear about your mum. Brexit was the biggest con around.

TheLizardQueen · 12/06/2024 22:49

£30 max you were ripped off

letthem · 12/06/2024 22:53

These cost me £20 each recently (including delivery)

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Ophy83 · 12/06/2024 23:04

In future try Freddie's Flowers - they show you how to arrange them and you get a lovely selection that lasts a couple of weeks for £25

MossedBase · 12/06/2024 23:09

Florist here....

In all fairness, those flowers would have come as a handtied and your Mum has cut the string and re-arranged them herself taking stuff out in the process. The vase is too short and the wrong shape for the height of those flowers. If you hold a long stemmed bunch at the bottom, the flowers will splay out widely at the top, which gives the illusion of being sparse. Hold the stems too near the top and they will bunch together tightly which will make it look smaller.

In floristry, you pay more per stem for quality and length. The price differential can be substantial. It's why supermarket flowers are so cheap because they are generally short and low grade flowers plus the supermarkets have huge buying power. Some farms will sell all of their stock to a supermarket which will hammer the price down even further. It's like comparing Tesco Value Sausages with Waitrose fillet steak.

Those flowers look like good quality. I would hazard a guess that the fireplace is around the two foot mark so they are also long stemmed. The flower list is...
Hydrangea x 1
Roses x 3
Lisianthus x 3
Delphiniums x 3
Chrysanthemum x 2
Foliage

They're all expensive flowers. I'm not working at the moment so a bit out of the loop on prices but let's just say I wouldn't be putting a hydrangea in a £35 handtied unless it was a few simple stems in brown paper because hydrangeas are £££.

Florist choice is generally the best option because a good florist will choose the best combination available for the budget. The difficulty is £70 can look very different depending on the flowers you use and the person who is making it. In the shop, some customers want quality (i.e. the Neptune ladies who lunch brigade) and some customers want size (generally most blokes who don't care if you use the cheaper stems). It's easier to gauge this face to face but unless someone specifically asks for a compact handtied, I try to make things as large as possible because people don't want to feel short changed.

Flower prices are insane at the moment thanks to Brexit and cost of living. It's a bloody hard way to earn a living and most florists earn either minimum wage or not much more. Lots of shops have gone in the last year or so because a lot of people just can't make the numbers work.

A really good florist an absolute joy to walk into but sadly the majority of the public have no idea what quality looks like in terms of flowers because they've been hypnotised by the car crash that is the supermarket flower stand.

SheepAndSword · 12/06/2024 23:19

@letthem those are pretty and good value

MossedBase · 12/06/2024 23:32

letthem · 12/06/2024 22:53

These cost me £20 each recently (including delivery)

Cheap because you've got short cheap flowers in there like spray carnations, spray chrysanthemums, alstro and bullet roses. Pull that apart and there won't be many stems of each but because they're tied in a certain way and packaged it gives the illusion of looking like more.

Take half of foliage out, remove the lily, rearrange it yourself and stick it in a short vase and everyone will be telling you they could get that bunch in ALDI for £1.50..... Wink

Bobloblaw84 · 13/06/2024 00:13

You’ve just said yourself, half the bouquet was removed?

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