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Would you live in your IL’s annex?

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Corianm · 09/06/2024 19:59

DH and I bought via help to buy scheme but have weirdly found ourselves in a negative equity situation in London.

ILs live in a very expensive area of Surrey. They have a large garden with an annex and have offered for DH and I to move in. I’m very much considering it as the commute is actually almost identical to what it is now. Plus Dh and I could save up for a year or two.

ILs don’t use garden much and would never enter annex without invitation. The annex has a kitchenette, living area and bedroom with en-suite.

Am I mad?

OP posts:
MrsSkylerWhite · 10/06/2024 20:44

@elliejjtiny

In which case, sorry. My apologies . Difficult for all concerned.

Cherrysoup · 10/06/2024 20:47

Are you allowed to rent out your flat?

OVienna · 10/06/2024 20:54

Bs0u416d · 09/06/2024 20:13

The just do it. You can't be too attached to the place. Life is too short. Chalk it up to experience. Move in with your ILs, stash some cash and go from there. If you're considering it then I suspect you already have a good relationship with them.

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