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If anyone works in the nhs please can you shed any light on this holiday allowance?

106 replies

nalzer · 08/06/2024 18:06

I want to know if my ex (Dd’s) dad is telling me the truth.

He says if he doesn’t use his holiday allowance then he doesn’t get to roll it over or get paid for it. Surely you get paid for holiday if you don’t take it?? That’s what’s always happened in my work but I work in the private sector in finance.

He is basically saying he hasn’t been able to take the leave and now will lose it and not be paid for it either. Is this right? He is a fellow if that makes a difference.

OP posts:
Dymaxion · 08/06/2024 21:37

It's very much use it or lose it in my Trust, although, there is always some Manager discretion. I asked for AL and was denied due to high sickness levels ( not mine ) and my manager allowed me to carry a few days over, which I took in the first month on the next AL year.

hettie · 08/06/2024 21:40

He is a medic or another profession? The medical contract is different to agenda for change (everyone else).

Blushingm · 08/06/2024 21:41

He's right- if we don't use it then we lose it

bridgetreilly · 08/06/2024 22:22

nalzer · 08/06/2024 18:48

Thanks everyone. I just don’t know whether anything he tells me is the truth anymore. He hasn’t taken one day off to be with dc at all and I have had to cope with it all (I also work long hours). He does have form for not taking leave but ffs he has a child, surely you’d WANT to spend some of it with them

In that case you need a court order mandating his custody arrangement. He has leave; he can and should take it. But if he’s not willing to, he should at least be responsible for arranging/paying for some of the childcare, or the maintenance should be adjusted accordingly.

Hotchocolateandchristmas · 08/06/2024 22:28

I work for the NHS and we aren't allowed to carry leave over. We have to use it or lose it and are encouraged throughout the year to book leave.

Kit543 · 09/06/2024 12:50

bridgetreilly · 08/06/2024 22:22

In that case you need a court order mandating his custody arrangement. He has leave; he can and should take it. But if he’s not willing to, he should at least be responsible for arranging/paying for some of the childcare, or the maintenance should be adjusted accordingly.

CMS takes account of how many nights a year he has DC so this should be already being taken account of if your using their service i.e less than 52 nights a year then you should be eligible for the full amount without reduction, depending on your income you may also be eligible for childcare help via universal credit

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