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To wonder what the ban on smartphones across 17 schools in South London will acheive.

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ThatMother2024 · 06/06/2024 21:07

The Guardian reports that 17 schools are uniting to ban smartphones. I have no idea what this is expected to acheive, what the evidence base is and whether kids will just devise some easy workaround.

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noblegiraffe · 05/09/2024 18:58

And the international solution is to not allow phones in schools. Because this is a better solution than allowing kids to still be able to phone each other. They don't need to be able to phone people when they're in school.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 05/09/2024 19:00

ThatMother2024 · 06/06/2024 21:54

Do they do this? Is their evidence that they do this? I don’t work in a secondary school. I have never seen stats or data on this.

Yes of course they do. All the time.

Jjiillkkf · 05/09/2024 19:19

I'd be very suspicious about stats and data on this, who designs the data collection, how its interpreted and why. Nor is it necessary, anyone with eyes and a brain can see that smartphones are as harmful as lead paint to children and young peoole, anyone who argues the contrary is just full of cope.

Werehalfwaythere · 05/09/2024 19:21

I'm assuming it will stop most kids from sitting in class on their phones. Should have been banned a long time ago.

Ponoka7 · 05/09/2024 19:28

@Maray1967 we didn't have phones, but we had phone boxes on every corner. People out and about who were willing to get involved. Police out and about etc. Your son might not need one, with a ten minute walk, but fir others they are useful.

If those girls getting sexually harassed in knowsley by the asylum seekers couldn't have filmed them, it would still be an issue. Or we'd have grooming going on. The ability to film and take pictures can safeguard children against adults.

Chillilounger · 05/09/2024 20:31

I hope they make sure they measure and record what happens properly so it's success or failure can inform future policy. A big missed opportunity otherwise.

Maray1967 · 05/09/2024 21:32

Ponoka7 · 05/09/2024 19:28

@Maray1967 we didn't have phones, but we had phone boxes on every corner. People out and about who were willing to get involved. Police out and about etc. Your son might not need one, with a ten minute walk, but fir others they are useful.

If those girls getting sexually harassed in knowsley by the asylum seekers couldn't have filmed them, it would still be an issue. Or we'd have grooming going on. The ability to film and take pictures can safeguard children against adults.

Yes, I accept that a male child with a short walk home is less at risk, but having phones can also be a risk. A friend of ours had to deal with an assault on his son and his mate and theft of their phones because despite parental warnings they were using them openly on the walk home.

Nacknick · 05/09/2024 21:59

New DfE guidance about this so I expect most schools are updating their policies. It’s a good thing in my opinion

Noonelikesasloppytrifle · 06/09/2024 20:10

notbelieved · 05/09/2024 18:23

I teach. I also have a child with type 1 and a relationship with a number of local type 1 parents. I can assure you that there are schools (or rather, individual teachers within schools) who will happily let children collapse to the floor before allowing them to use their phones to monitor their blood sugar. They are frequently challenged on their having a phone out in class or in the corridor, to the point where frankly, it is a discrimination issue. I mean, imagine having to justify your phone use several times a day to a bunch of people who, if they had bothered to read the emails and look at the photos, would know why you had your phone in your hand.

Schools are not perfect places for children who are unwell. Some schools are, of course, amazing. But many aren't.

Your point absolutely emphasises why phones should be banned from schools. Schools have to challenge because of the sheer volume of issues that arise from their usage. Your DC is a casualty of this. Develop a system where only those with genuine need have them and there would be no need for the challenge.

notbelieved · 07/09/2024 12:06

Noonelikesasloppytrifle · 06/09/2024 20:10

Your point absolutely emphasises why phones should be banned from schools. Schools have to challenge because of the sheer volume of issues that arise from their usage. Your DC is a casualty of this. Develop a system where only those with genuine need have them and there would be no need for the challenge.

Or the teachers concerned can do their jobs properly and know which kids have serious medical conditions? I mean, if you actually think a bit, imagine sending your child to school everyday with a condition that if misunderstood, or ignored, or response is delayed, your child could become seriously ill or worse? Wouldn't you expect staff to have a bit of a clue? Now have staff demand the removal of the device that is monitoring the condition, or better still, have one demand your child puts in insulin when they're hypo (happened more than once...!).

I teach. I know the pressures of the job. I know this is a huge additional pressure. But my child's life quite literally depends on staff knowing what to do. Funnily enough, I feel happier that now he in a school with a type 1 teacher - less margin for stupid errors when he's around.

Noonelikesasloppytrifle · 07/09/2024 12:28

notbelieved 1200 kids in my school. I can't possibly know from the off the medical conditions of each student. It takes time. I would probably challenge your DC but it would only be once and I'm pretty sure for most staff that would be the same. However, my point stands. If there are no phones on site then this removes any ambiguity and would certainly enhance the safety of your DC.

Needmorelego · 07/09/2024 12:34

@Noonelikesasloppytrifle if there's no phones allowed how can that make the "safety" of a child who is monitoring their diabetes better?
Because they can't have their phone?

Superhansrantowindsor · 07/09/2024 12:39

Ive taught kids with type 1 who need a phone for reasons already explained. Even in our massive school it’s only a handful each year group so it is easy to put a small dot on the seating plan to indicate that they need their phone whilst the rest of the class don’t.

Noonelikesasloppytrifle · 07/09/2024 12:40

Needmorelego · 07/09/2024 12:34

@Noonelikesasloppytrifle if there's no phones allowed how can that make the "safety" of a child who is monitoring their diabetes better?
Because they can't have their phone?

Because only those with a medical need can have a phone. Therefore if that child has a phone they need it and there is no need to challenge.

Noonelikesasloppytrifle · 07/09/2024 12:41

Superhansrantowindsor · 07/09/2024 12:39

Ive taught kids with type 1 who need a phone for reasons already explained. Even in our massive school it’s only a handful each year group so it is easy to put a small dot on the seating plan to indicate that they need their phone whilst the rest of the class don’t.

And walking around the corridors?

Needmorelego · 07/09/2024 12:43

@Noonelikesasloppytrifle yes but you said it's impossible to know the medical details of 2000 kids. So if you see one with a phone how do you know they are using it as a medical device? Do you just accept their word for it?
Surely any child could just say their phone is being used as a medical device.

Noonelikesasloppytrifle · 07/09/2024 12:46

Needmorelego · 07/09/2024 12:43

@Noonelikesasloppytrifle yes but you said it's impossible to know the medical details of 2000 kids. So if you see one with a phone how do you know they are using it as a medical device? Do you just accept their word for it?
Surely any child could just say their phone is being used as a medical device.

Exactly - that's my point. 99% of students won't need a phone for medical reasons so they don't have them on site.

Needmorelego · 07/09/2024 12:50

@Noonelikesasloppytrifle so if you see a child with a phone you just assume it's for medical reasons?
Would you then stop and ask them? Surely that's time consuming? Any child could say it is.

Noonelikesasloppytrifle · 07/09/2024 12:52

Needmorelego · 07/09/2024 12:50

@Noonelikesasloppytrifle so if you see a child with a phone you just assume it's for medical reasons?
Would you then stop and ask them? Surely that's time consuming? Any child could say it is.

But if the numbers are that small then it would be very unusual.
At the moment I challenge at least 50 students a day. Now that's time consuming.

Errors · 07/09/2024 13:00

astonssandboxisalittertray · 06/06/2024 22:25

My kids both take their phones to school. (2 different schools). One has a no phones policy, the other provides a pouch which is locked during school time.

There were issues when kids initially got their phones in year 6 (recommended by school as they transition to walking home without parents - London) and kids wrote silly things on WhatsApp or made tiktoks even though they are too young to have the app. Plenty of lessons and talks in school when these things happened and as a result, we've had no issues at all with phone use at secondary school.

My kids travel a long distance to school so need it for when buses/trains don't go to plan. They look at them during the 'sit down' part of their commute and for about an hour in the evenings (child 2 hasn't looked at all tonight as they've gone from homework to sport to shower to bed). I don't begrudge screen time when they rise at 6.15, get home at 6 after a sports match, then do homework and sometimes more sport training before shower and bed. If kids are kept busy then the phone use is limited, functional (eg: meeting up) and regulates to use that of normal for an adult.

I'm baffled as to all of the poor school behaviours listed in the quote. I guess that's a sign of the times in some schools. It's not a phone problem, it's a behaviour problem.

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Nah, kids need to learn to be bored without reaching for a phone or tablet to fill their time.
I think you should read Anxious Generation!

cheerypip · 07/09/2024 13:05

ThatMother2024 · 06/06/2024 22:19

My son’s school takes them at reception, puts them in a pouch and hands them back at the end of the day.

Does this not make the process of arriving at/leaving school really slow?

padsi1975 · 07/09/2024 13:06

Spirallingdownwards · 06/06/2024 21:19

Less being distracted in class when they sneakily look at them.

Less cyber bullying by taking photos during class/school hours.

The inability to film the ones they are bullying.

The inability to film teachers and post inappropriately.

The inability to google answers or use AI to do their set classwork.

I could go on.

I am more mystified that you genuinely could not think of any reasons.

Agreed.

ThatMother2024 · 07/09/2024 13:52

The answers here are a revelation when you work in an office and don’t encounter a huge bunch of teens every day.

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Needmorelego · 07/09/2024 13:55

@ThatMother2024 what's "working in an office" got to do with it?

Pin0cchio · 07/09/2024 13:57

Kids that are less addicted to phones and can actually concentrate.

The whole point is it will empower a generation of parents to actually not give a smartphone at all until older- fantastic.

In an ideal world they'd just have a phone for emergency calls etc until 16+.

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