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To hate people using ‘me’ instead of’my’

104 replies

soallannoyed · 06/06/2024 17:51

I know I’m being unreasonable but it’s bloody annoying.

OP posts:
ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 06/06/2024 20:42

Saying mi/ me is dialect

Saying would of/could of or brought/bought in grammar

BeautyGoesToBenidorm · 06/06/2024 20:42

@Caramellolly he definitely had a way with words! 😂😂

LakeTiticaca · 06/06/2024 20:43

CleftChin · 06/06/2024 18:20

hence 'I'll do it miself' - it's myself, but pronounced differently

Or if yer in Yarkshire "Al do it mi'sen 😅😅

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 06/06/2024 20:44

LakeTiticaca · 06/06/2024 20:43

Or if yer in Yarkshire "Al do it mi'sen 😅😅

I was going to say that!

😂😂

Or ‘Tha can do it thi’sen’

Bluebell247 · 06/06/2024 20:48

It's 'myself' that winds me up. E.g. "Please email myself". Myself should only be used for emphasis e.g "I, myself, believe..." and even then only sparingly.

'Me' in the context you don't like it is, like others have said, a dialect.

Yuckyyuckyuckity · 06/06/2024 20:50

Similarly I hate it when people pronounce days of the week like 'Tuesdee' 'Sundee' etc. Seems to be an older generation thing rather than a dialect thing but not too sure. Really annoying though.

BouleDeSuif · 06/06/2024 20:55

I love dialects. Words and dialects and language in general are fascinating.

florizel13 · 06/06/2024 20:55

Caramellolly · 06/06/2024 20:27

Wait till you get to Hull and they say 'nerrrrr' for no!

My husband's from Hull but hasn't lived there since he was a child. That is the only thing he still says with a Hull accent Grin

LakeTiticaca · 06/06/2024 20:55

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 06/06/2024 20:44

I was going to say that!

😂😂

Or ‘Tha can do it thi’sen’

Edited

Aye, tha can that!!! 🤣🥰

LakeTiticaca · 06/06/2024 20:57

Yuckyyuckyuckity · 06/06/2024 20:50

Similarly I hate it when people pronounce days of the week like 'Tuesdee' 'Sundee' etc. Seems to be an older generation thing rather than a dialect thing but not too sure. Really annoying though.

Oh well you would hate where I live, Tuesday is pronounced ",Toozdi" 🤣🤣🤣

BardsAreAssholes · 06/06/2024 21:00

I love dialect in speech, it's what makes the language so interesting. Regional words, turns of phrases - it's all part of the richness.

I prefer correct gammar in written English, but there's no point being a cow about it. As long as the meaning is clear, it's still effective communication.

Caramellolly · 06/06/2024 21:02

In Liverpool most people say 'I seen/I done' .

sandorschicken · 06/06/2024 21:02

CleftChin · 06/06/2024 18:20

hence 'I'll do it miself' - it's myself, but pronounced differently

It's 'Al do it mi sen' where I'm from!

NotTHATMelania · 06/06/2024 21:12

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 06/06/2024 20:42

Saying mi/ me is dialect

Saying would of/could of or brought/bought in grammar

Actually saying "could of" or "would of" is NOT grammar, it's pronunciation, too!
The unaccentated form of "have" is pronounced the same as the unaccentuated form of "of": [əv].
The trouble starts when (far too many) people think they should write "could of" rather than "could have".

Too many people wrongly use myself instead of me, and don't get me started on me and I.
The rule is dead simple: if you would say "me" if you were the only person in the sentence you still say me, even if you add someone else: if you would say I, then you should say "........ and I".
He have the cakes to me.
She gave the cakes to Susan and me.
I saw Susan in the park.
Kate and I saw Susan in the park.

Mi, on the other hand, is just pronunciation and nothing to worry about, providing the person being spoken to gets the message.

Gruffallowhydidntyouknow · 06/06/2024 21:15

PeopleGetSoAngry · 06/06/2024 19:50

I know it's just regional dialect etc but I now live in an area of the country where its common to drop 'to' from a sentence eg "I'm going school" or "I'm going Tesco" It just sounds so wrong to me, but I know I'm an arse to care so I'll never talk about it beyond this anonymous forum!

Oh good grief. I really really hate this.

3DayStockpiler · 06/06/2024 21:20

Yeah it's part of our local accent. Sorry we annoy you.
We also say tret instead of treated.

3DayStockpiler · 06/06/2024 21:25

We also go to the Big Tesco's and The Asda. However, we go to Aldi, Lidl and Morrisons (not posh enough to have a Sainsbury's, Waitrose or Booths without going for a day out).

moonshinepoursthroughmywindow · 06/06/2024 21:35

My DH is a Southerner and he normally says "my," but sometime in the last few years he has taken to saying "me glasses" but not "me" anything else. He doesn't know he's doing it. I assume he hears it a lot from someone, maybe at work, as it just doesn't make sense to me that he'd say something that (a) isn't consistent with his accent and regional word choices and (b) he hasn't always said. It bugs me, although "me" for "my" in itself doesn't usually bug me at all.

sandorschicken · 06/06/2024 22:47

3DayStockpiler · 06/06/2024 21:20

Yeah it's part of our local accent. Sorry we annoy you.
We also say tret instead of treated.

They'd die if they spent an hour listening to our Barnsley fuelled conversation!

It's just us accent 'n' all that int it an I love it anorl

CassandraProphesying · 06/06/2024 22:55

soallannoyed · 06/06/2024 18:33

I know. I’m horrified and retract my statement.

Good. Hilarious to note, given my deletion, that Distinguished Commentators are also, apparently, ‘Snowflakes’. Lol.

ALongHardWinter · 06/06/2024 22:58

Doesn't annoy me as much as people who say 'haitch' instead of 'aitch'. Or skelington for skeleton.

ByPeachJoker · 06/06/2024 22:58

YANBU - it's not cute or a lovely play on English to say it.

Saying that it comes across as far less stupid and uneducated as these idiots who say 'we was'.

Sarahzb · 06/06/2024 22:59

Ghastly. How dare they!

buttnut · 06/06/2024 23:02

MiriamMay · 06/06/2024 18:05

What you’re basically saying is that you hate some regional dialects.

this

Jeannie88 · 06/06/2024 23:02

It's just a form of dialect, so it's not worth getting bothered by. What bugs me is 'I would of', especially with 'I would of went' ugh! Also the misuse of past participles to be pedantic. X