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to suggest that every single parent with a child at private school apply for a state school place asap?

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sarjd · 05/06/2024 15:12

let's see how that works.

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WindsurfingDreams · 06/06/2024 00:36

YourPinkDog · 06/06/2024 00:35

So parents who can not afford the extra £69 a week only have to apply for bursaries? Why all the upset then if they can get a 100% bursary just by putting the time in?

Exactly. Cut down on the chicken nuggets and they 'll be laughing all the way to the bank

Nanaof1 · 06/06/2024 00:38

LunaBunaD · 05/06/2024 15:18

Well with over 1 million unfilled school places, and only half a million in private education I am sure they'd find a way to make it work. It might mean some families having to move because the space they have been offered is too far away, so I'm not sure it would hurt the people you want it to.....

That is just crazy to me. Having to move because your local school is full is unimaginable.

YourPinkDog · 06/06/2024 00:41

@Nanaof1 you will not have to move. Your child may have a long way to travel to school though. Or home education is always a choice.

Caerulea · 06/06/2024 00:42

Mum1976Mum · 06/06/2024 00:26

Well you have to put the time in to make sure that she excels at something - academic, sports etc. Then you are more likely to get a bursary. But most parents can’t be arsed to do this and then are resentful to those of us who have.

There are multiple reasons why and next to none of them are 'can't be arsed'. They will, however, be things around the fact that privilege is largely a closed group, those within it coach one another. The children are coached at school by the same system in order to keep them in that system.

The Plebs are very carefully kept out of being In The Know. The gatekeeping is excellent! Really very effective. And if some plebs make it through their experience amongst the childen of The Elite often isn't very good at all.

But honestly, the main reason is most of us just do not want our kids going to private school. And some of us make that decision based off of real world experience of people who have been through private school (and it's a lot!). I can safely say I've not met a single person who's made me want to move my kids from State school. That includes my own DH & several friends.

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DorisDoesDoncaster · 06/06/2024 00:45

Urgh can’t anyone see that this is what the party introducing this policy wanted us all to do. To fight over over it with each other, to detract from the other crap they want to bring in or the important stuff that they don’t want to deal with.

Politicians are not interested in any of us plebs on this forum.

All they care about is their own families, careers and wealth (and very generous gold plated pensions after they’ve served, funded by us tax paying plebs). Oh, and their very highly paid after dinner speaking engagements.

Power, status etc etc.

They have enjoyed inflation busting pay rises (paid by us) whilst us plebs have been told by our employers, no sorry no money left.

Aladdinzane · 06/06/2024 00:53

"But most parents can’t be arsed to do this and then are resentful to those of us who have."

Nah, we just want you to pay VAT for your luxury and stop getting your privilege subsidised by the rest of us.

Maybe private schools should run courses on "how to win friends and influence people" for parents.

DorisDoesDoncaster · 06/06/2024 00:54

urgh

Aladdinzane · 06/06/2024 00:54

@Mum1976Mum

You sound delightful.

That private education really did well for you.

LiveAtVillaVillekulla · 06/06/2024 00:57

@Aladdinzane please explain how you are subsidising my children's education, exactly? My taxes pay for state school places that we are not taking so isn't it the other way round, I am subsidising your state school?

Nanaof1 · 06/06/2024 00:59

YourPinkDog · 06/06/2024 00:41

@Nanaof1 you will not have to move. Your child may have a long way to travel to school though. Or home education is always a choice.

Like I said, that is just totally crazy to me. The fact that someone would have to travel a long way to a public school for their child is mind-boggling. As for home education; if people pay tax dollars for education and a school, they should be entitled to go to a school that is, at least, relatively close to them (within the same town/city).

Aladdinzane · 06/06/2024 01:00

@LiveAtVillaVillekulla

As previously stated, you are possibly making some small contribution towards the cost of educating state pupils, but then so is everyone who pays tax. In the same way that choosing not to put VAT on private school fees is a cost to the state and is effectively subsidising the places.

YourPinkDog · 06/06/2024 01:01

The private school parents who have been posting such ridiculous hyperbole and scaremongering about a small weekly increase, have cemented my support for Labour's policy.

Aladdinzane · 06/06/2024 01:03

@YourPinkDog

Indeed.

It is amazing to see what they really think of the rest of us.

DorisDoesDoncaster · 06/06/2024 01:05

Wake up people, this is what is going on in this thread:

divide and rule
phrase of divide

  1. BRITISH
  2. the policy of maintaining control over one's subordinates or opponents by encouraging dissent between them, thereby preventing them from unitingin opposition.
  3. "the politics of divide and rule in society"
LiveAtVillaVillekulla · 06/06/2024 01:07

DorisDoesDoncaster · 06/06/2024 00:45

Urgh can’t anyone see that this is what the party introducing this policy wanted us all to do. To fight over over it with each other, to detract from the other crap they want to bring in or the important stuff that they don’t want to deal with.

Politicians are not interested in any of us plebs on this forum.

All they care about is their own families, careers and wealth (and very generous gold plated pensions after they’ve served, funded by us tax paying plebs). Oh, and their very highly paid after dinner speaking engagements.

Power, status etc etc.

They have enjoyed inflation busting pay rises (paid by us) whilst us plebs have been told by our employers, no sorry no money left.

You are absolutely right, the private/state school debate crystallises the old class hang ups + this is all our kids we're talking about! Whilst we're busy arguing with each other, we are not questioning the general incompetence and vacuousness of our 'leaders'.

LiveAtVillaVillekulla · 06/06/2024 01:25

Aladdinzane · 06/06/2024 01:00

@LiveAtVillaVillekulla

As previously stated, you are possibly making some small contribution towards the cost of educating state pupils, but then so is everyone who pays tax. In the same way that choosing not to put VAT on private school fees is a cost to the state and is effectively subsidising the places.

I see, some people do not have children and a portion of their taxes go to subsidise education. But that doesn't explain how no VAT means private education is subsidised?
I pay taxes on my money before I can pay school fees (of which, btw, 20% -yes 20%- go to fund assisted places at our school) it's not money that's funnelled into education without tax implication. And do you really believe that VAT levied on private education will improve anything for anyone? It's just a tax that makes the class warriors very happy, that will be its only achievement.

Nanaof1 · 06/06/2024 01:36

DorisDoesDoncaster · 05/06/2024 15:39

Surely it’s just easier to petition your private school to stop giving out free or subsidized places. Such schools should also start charging the state schools for any use of their facilities and grounds etc, instead of giving it away for free.

This should help to bring the cost down so that you only have to pay for your own child to attend. The VAT will then be levied on a lower cost per child.

I know millionaires who have claimed hardship and managed to get 50% off their child’s fees - the other parents end up paying for the millionaire’s child. Disgraceful.

Your idea of private schools charging for using their facilities is a good idea. Not sure what state schools use private school facilities but they should charge for use.
It is also silly if they are not paying attention to who they are giving reduced fees to, or paying attention and just greasing palms. Some will still need help but the private schools can tighten up the considerations, such as household income, etc.

The U.K. powers-that-be are doing a great job and playing the ends against the middle. They have obviously succeeded, going by MN.

Hedgeoffressian · 06/06/2024 01:55

sarjd · 05/06/2024 15:12

let's see how that works.

Private school is a luxury. It’s not essential to a child’s education. Therefore it only seems fair that VAT is added to the fees. If you can’t afford the fees with the VAT added then you clearly can’t afford to keep sending your children to private school and will have to send your children to a state school like the rest of us do. Those who can afford to pay for a private education for their children will just continue to do so.

GivePeaceAChance · 06/06/2024 02:16

Aladdinzane · 05/06/2024 23:36

It was me that came up with the figure of 58 pounds, I calculated that using the IFS study's figure for the average private school fee for 2022-23.

Again though, if a family paying 18k a year for a student to go to school can't find the 69 pounds a week extra to fund this, then they have made poor financial decisions and totally overstretched.

It’s £163.00 per week that a parent will need to earn to pay the extra for one child.

allowing for having to pay tax and ni and assuming parents are in the higher tax bracket
Assuming average fees of £18,000 from the 2022/23 figures
Assuming 15% tax will be passed on to parents as Labour have predicted
Assuming an average of 10% loss of students. That’s taking Labours predicted 3-7% and ISC figures for numbers receiving bursaries @21% and picking a reasonable mid range %.
The loss then shored up by the remaining 9 students.

Its basically a required increase in salary of
£8,500 for one child
£17,000 for two.

etc.

GivePeaceAChance · 06/06/2024 02:24

YourPinkDog · 06/06/2024 00:14

13% of pupils in private schools UK-wide are at boarding schools. So if parents are really struggling with the average increase in costs of £69 a week, many of these parents can move their child to a day school instead, or utilise flexi boarding instead.

Average salary increase required to pay for one kid is
£8500 pa.
see above post

GivePeaceAChance · 06/06/2024 02:28

GivePeaceAChance · 06/06/2024 02:24

Average salary increase required to pay for one kid is
£8500 pa.
see above post

As an aside people use boarding schools in order to fit in with work or family living arrangements.
Many for example work abroad on a term time or random basis.
The armed forces use boarding for their kids( wonder if Labour have factored in the extra cost to the MOD as well)
People don’t live round the corner and use boarding….obviously

IAmNotASheep · 06/06/2024 02:34

LiveAtVillaVillekulla · 06/06/2024 01:25

I see, some people do not have children and a portion of their taxes go to subsidise education. But that doesn't explain how no VAT means private education is subsidised?
I pay taxes on my money before I can pay school fees (of which, btw, 20% -yes 20%- go to fund assisted places at our school) it's not money that's funnelled into education without tax implication. And do you really believe that VAT levied on private education will improve anything for anyone? It's just a tax that makes the class warriors very happy, that will be its only achievement.

It’s really just a way of pitting people against each other.

Its like the Brexit bus. That huge ££££ figure and everyone shouting why can’t we have that, why do we give all that money to Europe and Wam…..Brexit. It reeled them in . That’s what this policy is doing…reeling people in.

IAmNotASheep · 06/06/2024 02:36

DorisDoesDoncaster · 06/06/2024 01:05

Wake up people, this is what is going on in this thread:

divide and rule
phrase of divide

  1. BRITISH
  2. the policy of maintaining control over one's subordinates or opponents by encouraging dissent between them, thereby preventing them from unitingin opposition.
  3. "the politics of divide and rule in society"

Exactly

GivePeaceAChance · 06/06/2024 02:42

Aladdinzane · 06/06/2024 00:53

"But most parents can’t be arsed to do this and then are resentful to those of us who have."

Nah, we just want you to pay VAT for your luxury and stop getting your privilege subsidised by the rest of us.

Maybe private schools should run courses on "how to win friends and influence people" for parents.

Or maybe a class in how to be polite for some state school parents.
Understanding what a subsidy is
and that Education is essential in all societies and is not a luxury.

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