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2 year old dummy addict- says he doesn't like dummy anymore

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dummyfairie · 30/05/2024 21:39

I'm very surprised and shocked at what's happened with my 2 year old and his dummy addiction.

He's usually walking around with a few in his hands, popping them in and out of his mouth to try them out. He definitely has his dummy too much. He absolutely adores it.

Anyway, since yesterday, he's just refused it entirely.

He says he doesn't like it.

What's this about? Has anyone ever had a child just decide to stop on their own ? He's not had it in nursery for months. But when he's with me, he has it a lot. We take it out of his mouth regularly and do tell him he's a big boy and doesn't need it.

Has anyone else's child just decided to give it up on their own ?

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dummyfairie · 01/06/2024 08:44

Beepbeepvroomvroom · 01/06/2024 08:38

It sounds like you want him to have it more than him! I would really take it as a positive and don’t hold him back. If he’s old enough to run around at the park etc then he is definitely old enough to not need a dummy. You could try replacing it with a teddy comforter - at least than won’t harm his teeth or speech like his dummy could.

I'm just a little shocked and surprised as I wasn't ready for him to just give it up like that.

I really enjoyed watching him suck on it and just seemed to make him so happy. He's also my last baby, so it's also letting go of the fact that he's no longer a baby.

Also, he's really going through the tantrum stage at the moment and it really really helps calm him down when he's having a meltdown ( together with cuddles ).

But I need to let it go. It's a godsend really that it's happened this way. Like I said, I know what it's like when they just don't want to give it up.

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Utterlyb · 01/06/2024 09:43

OP@dummyfairie "I really enjoyed watching him suck on it and just seemed to make him so happy. He's also my last baby, so it's also letting go of the fact that he's no longer a baby." ...Op i think you've hit the nail on the head about why you are posting!

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