Someone i am close to has been constantly digging lately and im starting to wonder if they secretly dont like me.
In december i came into some money as i was taken off a mortgage.
I was restarting. So i ended up renting a modern bungalow with a nice garden. I got a new job right around the corner.
Im really sensible with money and this persons been so awful they have ended up homeless. They have a flat now but have chosen to blow their money and be reckless. They have got into debt. Their flat is a bed with clothes stored in the drawers. A 2 sester sofa, tele and lamp and a few kitchen bits. The walls are unpainted and carpets are scruffy. Ive used some of my money to buy nice things for my house and ive worked hard. People always say it looks lovely.
In terms of above person ive had them stay. They are often here for dinner. They use my garden to relax in and i basically share my home with them. But the last few days its been a constant dig. I spent £20 on solar lights for my fence. They text and told me not to spend too much money. My garden sun chairs were £40 each. They had a dig at that.
This week theyve been here. Im only renting but landlord had new gates put on. They showed instant negativity towards the gates. Then they said my dad has put my washing line in drunk. This person kindly cut my grass and tidied my shed. But everything that they have said this week has been insulting.
I made awful cups of tea two days ago apparently my standards had slipped. I had been making tea for the gate man and he had seen the mans cup on the side. He also had a dig about the cup being mucky when on his 3rd drink and saying it looked like a builders cup.
He looked at my dead grandmas ornament and said it looked creepy.
He was smoking a fag and telling me all the things wrong with my house.
I like spanish cleaning products and he claimed he was itching only when at mine. Nobody else has issues.
My kids make a normal level off mess and it takes less than an hour to put the house together again. He said its because im messy and dont tidy up.
He said my friends grass cutter i borrowed was crap and the wrong cutter. It wad horrible and heavy. So was the strimmer.
He told me i dont have outgoings like trades people. When i asked him how he worked that out he said i dont have fuel or a car to run.
He told me the chocolate i got him to try was horrible because i stated it was nice.
He commented on me getting £2500 a month income as a small part is UC i work 32 hours a week.
Finally i bought a mattress for £300 last week. He said it wasnt comfortable and that he doesnt seem to be able to sleep well at my house!
Is anyone able to suggest why the last few days hes become so negative?