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Strict uniform policy-skirts but no shorts

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Sleepdeprived42long · 26/05/2024 22:43

DS moving up to high school next year. Received details of the school’s uniform policy and word from parents with older kids is that it is strictly enforced.

Uniform is trousers or skirts, shirt with collar buttoned to top and tie visible at all times, blazer worn at all times outside class.

My DS lives in shorts to school. He hates wearing trousers-finds them too hot all year round!

AIBU to think that it seems unfair that girls can wear skirts and trousers but realistically most boys will be restricted to trousers? Or am I missing an obvious reason why skirts are acceptable and shorts aren’t?

My DS has sensory issues with clothing and noises (but no ASD diagnosis as no other symptoms) and is already hating the no shorts, the button to neck requirement of the shirt and the tie!

School say this is policy and children not in uniform will be sent home to change or given change from clothes school have as spare.

To be clear-this is a state school.

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Needanewname42 · 22/09/2024 11:49

BogRollBOGOF · 31/08/2024 11:29

Shorts would be a very smart addition to secondary uniforms.

There's nothing smart about having to buy trousers for length then yoink the elastic in 8 inches (on a supposed "slim fit") so that the rear end is just ripples of bunched up fabric.

Shorts, you can buy for the waist and the job's a good 'un.

Poor DS has to endure hot, itchy legs (autistic, sensory processing disorder) and bulky tabs of elastic digging in at his waist. This consumes a fair percentage of his emotional capacity to get through the day in a hyper-stimulating social environment.

He shuts down for two hours after school each day before he's fit for anything else. That pushes everything else in life later including things like homework.

Watch out for Slim Fit as opposed to Slim / Skinny leg.

M&S and Next do Slim fit as well as the leg styles, not always easy to find in the websites but they do exist.

Needanewname42 · 22/09/2024 11:59

Another thing to try is go down a size but longer length.

TBH it would be much easier if they sold them like mens trousers, waist & leg length, rather than age, slim, regular and plus,

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