Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Shops are not playgrounds

80 replies

Graveltone · 26/05/2024 19:25

Wish some parents would understand that shops are not playgrounds! Kids play with the toys, swing on the barriers, run around etc.

This is obviously more an issue when the schools are on holiday.

OP posts:
CelesteCunningham · 26/05/2024 22:55

SquashPenguin · 26/05/2024 22:51

I used to work in the Disney store years ago, and I shit you not, people would drop their kids in there and ask us to watch them whilst they went off shopping like we were some sort of crèche.

Edited

Jaysus. And I thought working in Claire's Accessories was bad.

HighOnMaiden · 26/05/2024 23:03

Friday afternoon I was in B&Q. It was especially busy being it’s a bh weekend and helpfully they have one solitary self serve till open and no manned ones at all.
The queue is five deep whilst a woman with two kids under five decided it was the perfect time to performance parent a bit of gardening. She stood there smiling away whilst trying to get a very distracted child to scan the plants they had chosen. Child was more interested in the M&M machine. I was a bit bemused by it all and so was the assistant who eventually went over to ‘help’ get her out of the way. Unfortunately this only encouraged the woman who then had the kid telling the ‘nice lady what you’ve chosen!’

finally a second self serve till was opened. By the time I got through and paid the woman was just about to finish when I heard her say ‘ohh I forgot these! Can you help me?’ As she waved two rolls of weed control fabric at the exasperated assistant. Not even joking when I say there was an audible groan from what remained of the queue.

Time and a place and that wasn’t it. Reinforced why I shop online wherever possible though 😂

EatTheWehrmm · 26/05/2024 23:06

Ikea is definitely a great playground.

Allfur · 26/05/2024 23:10

Auburngal · 26/05/2024 22:21

“My child has rights to ride on a scooter” screamed a bitch to a security guard at another supermarket.

No he doesn’t

To be fair I think kids have as much right to ride a scooter as the next person, they're not prolific killers

Lavenderblossoms · 26/05/2024 23:12

Allfur · 26/05/2024 23:10

To be fair I think kids have as much right to ride a scooter as the next person, they're not prolific killers

Hopefully, not in shops though?

Allfur · 26/05/2024 23:14

Lavenderblossoms · 26/05/2024 23:12

Hopefully, not in shops though?

They're not killing people in shops now are they?

porridgecake · 26/05/2024 23:37

Abouttimeforanamechange · 26/05/2024 20:21

They also aren't date spots, social clubs or libraries, but that doesn't stop adults smooching, chatting away in front of the cheese fridge or reading every magazine on the rack.

None of which are likely to cause injury to other people, unlike children racing sround, or charging around on scooters. I was once knocked to the ground in the street by a boy who ran into me from behind. A frail elderly person could have been seriously injured. (Now waiting for someone to say that old people should stay at home so that children can run around wherever they please.)

My elderly neighbour was knocked to the ground by a kid rollerskating. He didnt even stop. She broke her hip and didn't recover. She died of pneumonia.

Graveltone · 27/05/2024 05:52

porridgecake · 26/05/2024 23:37

My elderly neighbour was knocked to the ground by a kid rollerskating. He didnt even stop. She broke her hip and didn't recover. She died of pneumonia.

Her injury and subsequent death should have made it into the media. People who die from resulting from being run over by mobility scooters do like this https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-somerset-65383596

Person riding mobility scooter in public

Taunton woman died after mobility scooter knocked her over

A coroner warned that the use of mobility scooters should be regulated to prevent future deaths.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-somerset-65383596

OP posts:
TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 27/05/2024 08:27

DdraigGoch · 26/05/2024 20:30

I've never seen anyone having a snog in a supermarket.

No, they should just BUY their Frozen Yoghurt at the supermarket and then take it home to have it. (the yoghurt)

https://www.ifancyasnog.com/stores

Stores — Snog Frozen Yogurt

https://www.ifancyasnog.com/stores

KimberleyClark · 27/05/2024 08:36

Allfur · 26/05/2024 23:10

To be fair I think kids have as much right to ride a scooter as the next person, they're not prolific killers

Not in a shop though?

LakeTiticaca · 27/05/2024 08:47

Allfur · 26/05/2024 23:10

To be fair I think kids have as much right to ride a scooter as the next person, they're not prolific killers

Not in a supermarket though,,
The M6 might be a better bet 🤣

thenewaveragebear1983 · 27/05/2024 08:51

DdraigGoch · 26/05/2024 20:30

I've never seen anyone having a snog in a supermarket.

I saw a couple having a full on smooch in the military prison block exhibition at Edinburgh castle yesterday. I think they will pretty much do it anywhere 🤷‍♀️

Sharontheodopolodous · 27/05/2024 08:54

SquashPenguin · 26/05/2024 22:51

I used to work in the Disney store years ago, and I shit you not, people would drop their kids in there and ask us to watch them whilst they went off shopping like we were some sort of crèche.

Edited

I work in a maccys

Had exactly the same thing-i don't mind if say,mum needs to nip to the loo (I have children and a piss in peace is a luxury) or dad needs to take his ds to the toliet but feels he can't take his dd into the gents

I'll cheerfully sit with the child(ren)

It's the 'keep an eye on them,I'll only be an hour or so,they are well behaved' I refuse to do

Happens more than anyone thinks

sweetnessandlighter · 27/05/2024 08:56

YANBU. Last year a kid was being encouraged by his indulgent mummy to push the trolly which was far too big and heavy for him to control. He slammed it into me. I have a hidden disability involving a lot of pain and it was excruciating. I swore at him (pure reflex - I didn't know until I turned around that it was a child). Mummy wasn't impressed.

waitingfortheholiday · 27/05/2024 08:58

@Allfur no one should be riding a scooter in a shop, including children

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 27/05/2024 09:02

CatamaranViper · 26/05/2024 19:50

I can't believe that.

I’ve often seen kids on scooters in supermarkets. IMO they shouldn’t be allowed - young children are so often apparently incapable of looking where they’re going.

Speakeasy22 · 27/05/2024 09:08

Ikea is the worst. Kids all over the sofas and beds. Parents ignore. They might as well bring a picnic and use the dining room set ups for a nice environment.

Fudgetheparrot · 27/05/2024 09:13

tonyhawks23 · 26/05/2024 19:55

carpet shops are lovely playgrounds.

Carpet shops were my absolute favourite as a kid, I was lucky my parents renovated a lot of houses! Always wondered if it was just me

GingerPirate · 27/05/2024 11:16

Fully understand.
Cannot stand Bank Holidays.

KimberleyClark · 27/05/2024 11:22

Speakeasy22 · 27/05/2024 09:08

Ikea is the worst. Kids all over the sofas and beds. Parents ignore. They might as well bring a picnic and use the dining room set ups for a nice environment.

Apparently it is not unknown for small children to use the bathroom displays to relieve themselves!

LemonySnickets · 27/05/2024 11:32

I used to work in a department store and the number of times I heard a parent tell the kids to go play with the toys (so they could shop in peace) was unbelievable. We'd often find toys ripped out of boxes and dumped on the floor.

Trying to stop kids playing with a display scooter was a nightmare, and the shit a colleague had once when she tried to stop a kid from falling down the escalator.... 🙄

Even now, in a food shop, the amount of parents who think it's ok for their kids to bring in wheelie shoes, scooters and even a bike!!!!

maddiemookins16mum · 27/05/2024 11:37

We had to dodge the early teen girls in Matalan’s recently on their skates zooming up and down the aisles.

Alwaysalwayscold · 27/05/2024 11:38

Blame gentle parenting.

Idontjetwashthefucker · 27/05/2024 11:46

Allfur · 26/05/2024 23:14

They're not killing people in shops now are they?

Yet

LakeTiticaca · 27/05/2024 11:53

@Allfur some brat smashing someone in the shins with a scooter or bike could cause serious injury, particularly to an elderly person just trying to shop in peace.