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To tell the nosy cow to mind her business?

54 replies

walkthroughtulips · 23/05/2024 20:06

Started a new job, colleague started just one month before me and she’s so competitive with who’s doing better. I personally couldn’t care less,

Now she’s just randomly messaged me asking if I’ve passed probation. It’s none of her business. If I wanted to share confidential informations about myself then I will.

OP posts:
Mudflaps · 24/05/2024 13:24

YabbaDabbaDooooo · 23/05/2024 22:12

Actually just realised who the OP is.

Should've checked before replying 🤦‍♀️

Maybe she should give her colleague the address for her lazy cow neighbour and they could get together for a chat. I bet it would be interesting. I swear some posters spend far too much time thinking of reasons to post shite on here.

hydriotaphia · 24/05/2024 13:24

To be honest it is a bit awkward to message someone directly to ask if they have passed a probation period even if you're friends. It's not the kind of thing I would directly ask anyone about by text message because it is obviously very sensitive. I think it's fine to just ignore the message.

veryblunt · 24/05/2024 15:44

Your first mistake was giving her your number.
Ignore ignore ignore.

Mostlycarbon · 24/05/2024 18:19

Maybe she's feeling anxious about the fact that she hasn't passed yet, rather than trying to compete with you. It sounds like insecurity.

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