She ate my pizza!!

[fantasprite]

My boyfriend lives with a female room mate. Last night I ordered and paid for Dominos pizza (for me and my partner) and we got a free pizza which he put in the fridge.

I’ve got exams and have been revising in the garden all day, looking forward to pizza and a drink tonight with my boyfriend. He’s just rung me to say his flat mate and her boyfriend have eaten it (never asked him, just saw it in the fridge and took it). She’s claimed it wasn’t her fault as it was just left over pizza so why couldn’t she eat it.

She’s now replaced the pizza with a Tesco own brand. Its not the fucking same. I’m really pissed off.

This. You paid for dominos she needs to as well.

You’re basically all family and excluded her from having domino’s with you both. Hope she enjoyed the pizza

I'd pull her and say even if it was left over pizza you didn't buy it, so it's not yours to eat unless you pay for it, also tell her I don't want a Tesco pizza you can order the same one from Dominos and in future don't eat things that you didn't pay for

Wtaf??? Flatmates are not family and generally buy their own food, have different shelves in the fridge etc. It was not her pizza.

Spot the person who has never lived in a house share.

Ok the Tesco pizza replacement is an insult, and I have been known to get cranky when I've been anticipating a meal and a greedy twat has stolen it... but, asking her to replace the pizza with a dominoes one when it was free seems a bit much. I'd probably tell her to keep the Tesco pizza, and her paws off your food in future.

I voted YANBU but maybe she's pissed off with you being round there. Were you there last night, revising there all day today and planning to stay for dinner as well? Or had you left the pizza there and gone home to revise?

You’d happily eat food that you didn’t pay for and didn’t even ask if you could because you can’t control your greed?

Dominos isn't cheap tbh.

@OneLemonOrca of course they're not family. When has she fed OP?

Good point from pp though, @fantasprite were you there all day? She still shouldn't have eaten it though.

😂😂 how is she my family? And why should I provide another capable adult with food?

I’ll remind her when her and her boyfriend get a takeaway that they should include me. Does that stretch to meals out? Weekends away with them?? Hopefully they book somewhere with a hot tub so I sit in between them as they are my family and shouldn’t exclude me,

No. I have my own home.

I’m there maybe 3 nights a week. Her boyfriend is there more than me.

Well I’m definitely not having the Tesco pizza.

She didn’t actually know it was free. So she’s happily ate it knowing it could have cost £20.

It wasn't her food, she shouldn't have eaten it. It's as simple as that.

If the scenario had been 'we're getting a pizza, fancy chipping in' then any leftovers would be fair game for whoever got to the fridge first. But this wasn't that.

It was a whole pizza as well, not just a few slices! I think I'd have a word to her about her pizza theft then let it go.

Just don't leave a pizza there again.

She needs to replace what she took.

Also the spineless boyfriend would give me the ick...

We found the flatmate!

This.
Why do you think she knew she could get away with this?

Where do you live OP?

My DP works at dominoes whilst applying for the police and I’m absolutely sick of him bringing home multiple pizzas that we have no room in the fridge for and I’m not eating anyway as I’m trying to lose weight.

If you live in the north west I’m happy to send you as much pizza you could ever eat…

I send DP around the neighbours and we’ve even handed some out to contractors doing repairs. I HATE seeing food go to waste.

If he doesn’t bring them home they get binned when there is absolutely nothing wrong with them. I’d donate them to homeless shelters if I could or any homeless people but we don’t have any shelters that will take them.

It really stresses me out trying to find people to take them off our hands because I just feel guilt binning them. The worst was with the creme egg pizza because I struggled to say no to that, luckily there didn’t seem to be much wastage with those!

Ditch him. Nothing less attractive than a spineless man. We need men to speak up for women, especially women they care about.

Domino is grim fat laden processed food.

She’s done you a favour

That’s a hanging offence. I’d be checking the fridge every day in the hope they’d put something decent in there for me to steal.
Of course she owes you a Domino’s or the dosh.

You should start a thread on here, I think you'd find heaps of takers.

Domino's sounds like it must be much better quality in England/UK. Where I live it's just cheapie takeaway pizza not the good stuff. Still better than supermarket. I think room mate might know your BFs a push over and they'll be no consequence for the Domino's theft.

I cannot stand dominos (it makes me ill) however I do like other pizzas and if I had left pizza for the next day I would be raging if someone ate it, it’s not fair game to just help yourself to someone else’s food. She didn’t buy it so she should’ve asked if she could eat it. I’d expect a replacement cheeky fecker

But presumably the OP picked that particular deal BECAUSE of the free pizza? That’s what makes it an attractive option!

@OneLemonOrca either your a troll or your just pretty stupid.

I’m not sure it’s an “either or” scenario…