Hi, I have been with my current partner for 4 years. His best friend of 9 years has been in a 2 year relationship but they argue and break up every single weekend.
this results in his friend being parked outside my house, sometimes in the early hours of the next day. I told my partner I do not want to get involved with his friend and his girlfriends arguments as every single time I reply to her messages I just get dragged into the drama.
his girlfriend will hound my phone asking for his whereabouts ect voice note after voice note and call my phone. Basically they are both ALOT at times. But don’t get me wrong we do get on at times.
i allowed my partner have his friend stay at my house last night on the sofa . We all had a little drink, as I walked past his friend he put his arms around my waist not holding me but he placed his hands there. I thought it was a bit weird but I just chose to ignore it.
I woke up this morning, I went downstairs to get a drink and my kitchen is connected to my living room so no choice but to go into the living room. His friend was asleep but porn hub was on the tv. I immediately went to tell my partner but he just laughed it off. I just find that weird, idk but my boyfriend doesn’t see it as a problem. Am I overacting ?? We are all 25 years old