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Leaving the tumble dryer/washing machine on when going out

329 replies

DustyLee123 · 19/05/2024 07:46

I came home the other day to find that DH had left the tumbler/washing machine on and gone out for 30 minutes or so.
It makes me so mad that the house could have burned down due to his laziness, yet I get looked at like I’m nagging.
And we both know a couple whose garage went on fire due to the tumbler being left on.

YABU - stop nagging and be grateful he did some washing.
YANBU - everyone knows you don’t go out and leave the tumble dryer on.

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lemondropsandchimneytops · 19/05/2024 17:28

Know a couple whose fridge caught fire when they were out and their dog died. Obviously can't turn the fridge off but I'd never forgive myself if something like the tumble dryer caused a fire. My husband probably would leave it on if it was just him but he doesn't fight me on this. YANBU.

StormingNorman · 19/05/2024 17:28

I only ever put the washing machine on overnight or when I’m out. I don’t want to listen to it.

Cloudysky81 · 19/05/2024 17:36

I do regularly, everything in life has some risks and I’m accepting of the fairly minimal risks of a tumble drier fire.

I think you can minimise the dangers by having a newish one, reputable make, clean filters, and a monitored fire alarm.

yellowridinghood · 19/05/2024 17:44

I thought most tumble dryer fires were due to a fault in a particular brand. I happily leave the tumble dryer on while I sleep. I have a fire alarm. It would take a heck of a lot to change me. I’d be very surprised if insurance companies see it as a risk either. They don’t ask whether we have a tumble dryer when we take out a policy do they? So they Wouldn’t nave allowed not to pay out on this basis. They cannot hide away exclusions in the small print and expect to be allowed to use them.

this whole thread is an excellent example of Mumsnet paranoia.

Choochoo21 · 19/05/2024 19:01

Tumble dryers are one of the leading causes of fires in homes.

Its got something to do with them getting very hot, whilst containing flammable material and lint.

I think 5mins might be worth the risk but not 30mins!

I turn everything off at night and when I go out, apart from the fridge.
Its just not worth the risk.

Choochoo21 · 19/05/2024 19:02

yellowridinghood · 19/05/2024 17:44

I thought most tumble dryer fires were due to a fault in a particular brand. I happily leave the tumble dryer on while I sleep. I have a fire alarm. It would take a heck of a lot to change me. I’d be very surprised if insurance companies see it as a risk either. They don’t ask whether we have a tumble dryer when we take out a policy do they? So they Wouldn’t nave allowed not to pay out on this basis. They cannot hide away exclusions in the small print and expect to be allowed to use them.

this whole thread is an excellent example of Mumsnet paranoia.

Why not just put it on 30mins earlier though and do it when you’re awake?

gingercat02 · 19/05/2024 19:06

Never leave the dryer on, but washing machine and dishwasher are often on when we are out or in bed (dishwasher mainly)

Willtheraineverstop · 19/05/2024 19:07

yellowridinghood · 19/05/2024 17:44

I thought most tumble dryer fires were due to a fault in a particular brand. I happily leave the tumble dryer on while I sleep. I have a fire alarm. It would take a heck of a lot to change me. I’d be very surprised if insurance companies see it as a risk either. They don’t ask whether we have a tumble dryer when we take out a policy do they? So they Wouldn’t nave allowed not to pay out on this basis. They cannot hide away exclusions in the small print and expect to be allowed to use them.

this whole thread is an excellent example of Mumsnet paranoia.

It's not paranoia at all. Ask any firefighter about tumble dryers and they'll tell you exactly the same thing.

It's absolutely your choice to take risks like that though.

NoWordForFluffy · 19/05/2024 19:10

Willtheraineverstop · 19/05/2024 19:07

It's not paranoia at all. Ask any firefighter about tumble dryers and they'll tell you exactly the same thing.

It's absolutely your choice to take risks like that though.

0.00002% of UK households will have a WM / TD fire a year, looking at the number of fires vs number of households. That's teeny odds, however you look at it.

qwertyqwertyqwertyqwerty · 19/05/2024 19:10

yellowridinghood · 19/05/2024 17:44

I thought most tumble dryer fires were due to a fault in a particular brand. I happily leave the tumble dryer on while I sleep. I have a fire alarm. It would take a heck of a lot to change me. I’d be very surprised if insurance companies see it as a risk either. They don’t ask whether we have a tumble dryer when we take out a policy do they? So they Wouldn’t nave allowed not to pay out on this basis. They cannot hide away exclusions in the small print and expect to be allowed to use them.

this whole thread is an excellent example of Mumsnet paranoia.

It's not paranoia. It's advice from the fire service, based on the stats on what starts fires in homes.

MagnetCarHair · 19/05/2024 19:13

NoWordForFluffy · 19/05/2024 19:10

0.00002% of UK households will have a WM / TD fire a year, looking at the number of fires vs number of households. That's teeny odds, however you look at it.

Edited

Right, and I'm sure firefighters do have an over inflated sense of risk in this regard because, well, they're not going out to see the 99.99998% of the working ones.

AllThePotatoesAreSinging · 19/05/2024 19:16

The Fire Service say don’t do this. It’s on every single local fire service website under a dedicated tumble dryer page. Don’t use them when you are asleep. Don’t use them when you are out.

What do they know, though.

Tahlullah · 19/05/2024 19:18

I would never leave the tumble drier running when out. I always turn it off if it’s still running when I go to bed too. I don’t think you are being unreasonable at all. It is one of the most common causes of house fires.

Spitalfieldrose · 19/05/2024 19:42

One of our neighbours had a bread maker on an early morning timer almost burn their house down. And my friend had a burnt out kitchen to a dishwasher.

It’s made me super paranoid, so I don’t leave any appliances on if I’m not in the house or awake.

fieldsofbutterflies · 19/05/2024 19:44

Willtheraineverstop · 19/05/2024 19:07

It's not paranoia at all. Ask any firefighter about tumble dryers and they'll tell you exactly the same thing.

It's absolutely your choice to take risks like that though.

Of course they're going to say that, though. That's their job.

That doesn't change the fact that the risk of a house fire caused by a tumble dryer is absolutely minute.

NoWordForFluffy · 19/05/2024 20:00

The chance of dying in a car accident in the UK is around 0.0023%, so higher than the risk of a rogue tumble dryer. Do people still take that risk and get in a car? Yes, they do, because they've weighed it up as stats being very much in favour of not dying.

People who use appliances while they're asleep / out have weighed up the risk and decided that the risk of fire is very low, so they're willing to take it.

taxguru · 19/05/2024 20:05

NoWordForFluffy · 19/05/2024 19:10

0.00002% of UK households will have a WM / TD fire a year, looking at the number of fires vs number of households. That's teeny odds, however you look at it.

Edited

Maybe because most households don't leave them unattended?

taxguru · 19/05/2024 20:06

NoWordForFluffy · 19/05/2024 20:00

The chance of dying in a car accident in the UK is around 0.0023%, so higher than the risk of a rogue tumble dryer. Do people still take that risk and get in a car? Yes, they do, because they've weighed it up as stats being very much in favour of not dying.

People who use appliances while they're asleep / out have weighed up the risk and decided that the risk of fire is very low, so they're willing to take it.

Thing is that in a lot of cases people have no choice but to travel, whereas most have a choice as to when they put on the drier. It's comparing apples and gorillas!

NoWordForFluffy · 19/05/2024 20:07

taxguru · 19/05/2024 20:05

Maybe because most households don't leave them unattended?

As I said to the last person who said this, unattended means you're in the same room. I imagine most people don't sit in the room with them.

And judging by this thread, many people do leave them unattended, so your supposition can't be right, if we extrapolate out to the general population.

fieldsofbutterflies · 19/05/2024 20:07

taxguru · 19/05/2024 20:05

Maybe because most households don't leave them unattended?

I suspect most do, in real life.

I go in/out of other people's homes all day long and I'd say the vast majority leave the washing machine, dryer and dishwasher running even though nobody is home.

MsFaversham · 19/05/2024 20:07

I never leave the washing machine on when I am out or asleep. Next door’s machine caught fire and did a lot of damage.

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 19/05/2024 20:08

Washing machine yes
Tumble drier no I would never. But then I don't have one and I'd be paranoid about fires if I did.

NoWordForFluffy · 19/05/2024 20:09

taxguru · 19/05/2024 20:06

Thing is that in a lot of cases people have no choice but to travel, whereas most have a choice as to when they put on the drier. It's comparing apples and gorillas!

The actual fact is that the risk is absolutely teeny tiny. So many people have decided to take that tiny risk. It isn't reckless or stupid or irresponsible, given the stats. However much some people on this thread are horrified by the thought!

Rewis · 19/05/2024 20:14

fieldsofbutterflies · 19/05/2024 17:18

I would be looking for new insurance if that's the case!

I'm not in the UK so it is probably different. But a lot of the manuals say not to leave it unattended and if you do and something happens, there is a good chance that home insurnsce will reduce compensation if something happens. Cause you haven't followed the instructions and proper usage. That unfortunately won't change here even when changing a supplier.

But obviously it is personal risk management. If I didn't know about fire incidents from dryers in my close social circle, I probably wouldn't really think about it.

fieldsofbutterflies · 19/05/2024 20:23

I wonder what they mean by unattended @Rewis - it would be interesting to see it in court.